I know I am "Romantically-Challenged", I always have been and probably always will be but that does not stop me from trying...lol. It is just that most girls think that guys should be as romantic as they are but in reality I think that most guys were not born with the romance gene and they need to accept that and have patience with us...lol

LOL...I like the blocks on the belly idea, that is good...

Being considered a genius is all about the questions they are being asked, you might consider a doctor a genius in his field of study but you get him dealing with working on his car or geology and he would be as dumb as the village idiot. Even the IQ tests are suppose to be on a general knowledge nothing specific so they can try not and be bias for any field.

I would be screwed...You can ask me how the weather is and I have a habit of looking at my watch as if the answer is there and then talking...lol

It confuses me why she would think you would be able to help her, or even why you would want to... Are you a Therapist or something? Are you friends with both of them or is she just calling out of the blue? Have you been giving her advice on other stuff since you broke up?

If she is calling him by your name then he is doing something that reminds her of you, good or bad I do not know. It seems like there is more to the story that we do not know...

Join in to the conversations here and I am sure you will make many friends here. Good Luck

Turn on is confidence in yourself, I understand being shy at first but after a few minutes you should be able to open up. Try talking about a subject that you are go in and then your confidence will start to shine though.

Turn offs for me is the cell phone which others have mentioned, but it is anything that takes away from the one-on-one time...they could be totally ignoring their date by talking to their friend who they just ran into or anything. The other turn off I see too many times is smoking...

If they did not want to tell you the secret then they would not have said that they had the secret in the first place. A relationship needs to have trust so if one person is openly holding a secret from the other person then I do not see that as a healthy relationship. It would not work out for me...

It is just part of your character if you would think so little of someone else's time that you would stand them up. I do not remember ever being stood up for a date but I have for business meetings and that is something that is a deal breaker unless they have a really good excuse like they are in the hospital or something...lol

I have met someone online who was not who they describe them self as, but when we talked about meeting up it was clear we were just meeting as friends so there was no pressure on either side...

Even if the special fed is all an act, he is still pissing people off enough that I do not think they would vote for him in the end...but I could be wrong... He thinks he has a plan so we will have to see.

Depends on if you judge the person because they have tattoos or not. I accept that not everyone likes tattoos so not everyone should get them, so why can people without tattoos accept people with tattoos? I have not seen you have not jumped on the tattoos are bad bandwagon yet so I can not say one way or the other with you...

If you do a black and white photo I would suggest getting it in color also. Black and white is an arty fad right now that I can not wait for it to go away...not everyone likes them...lol

Good tattoos are sexy, but there are people who have limited views and they do not like tattoos.

Jailhouse looking tatts on guys or girls look tacky IMO...

I have Yosamite Sam riding a Harley sign on my calf but a Care Bear would be a girlie tattoo.

Tattoos are not for everyone but if you have them then it should be an expression of yourself.

Getting tattoos is about being an individual so if you are doing it just to fit in then it is the wrong reasons and you might get something that you regret later.

Tattoos I do not understand are the ones in a foreign language, most of the time they do not translate how you think they do because of the different dialects in languages. When I lived in Korea I almost got one that was suppose to say something about the lone wolf hunting at night, but I started asking people I trusted and they told me that in some areas they might read is as I "liked" wolves in the night and I go looking for them...lol. Even in the States here a phrase from up north might not mean the same as down South...

The main question is do you feel healthy? Most people today over eat so the portions are larger than they should be, you look to be a small girl who will not weigh much naturally... But other people will try to have you gain weight so you are big like they are, I think it is a misery loves company type of thing. My last girlfriend was about your size and everywhere we would go people would say she was too skinny but she ate more than I did and never exercised...lol. She was just naturally like that.

I guess it all depends on what YOU want to show off. Do you want to show off your belly or try to hide it? Straight on pictures hide the belly while angled and side shots show off your belly. The best thing I could say is just to google pregnant and look through the images... Good luck

Flirting is something that is best left as something you do when you are single, when you are dating and in a relationship then the only one that you should flirt with is your partner. But you should also find out what your partner considers flirting, some people think if you are talking to the opposite sex it is flirting...lol.

I am thinking there is a cover up also or this is a distraction for something else that is going on right now... I am just not sure what. But you notice they are not asking more questions about the fake birth certificate now...lol

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To me age is just a number and it is not to be with someone younger. There are people in their 20's that act like they are 40 and people in their 40's who act like they are 20. I have date older and younger as long as we have things in common.

I am just saying this so maybe you at least think about it if someone say 36 says they like you (you said 38 was as young as you would go). That is not that much younger than you are and maybe they would be your soul mate...

Many stories come from truth, the "Mountain out of a mole hill" idea. Paul Bunyan might have been an actual lumberjack also but as the tale grew so did his height and everything. Then they add in the Blue ox to make it even more amazing of a story. They only difference is that no one wrote it down and tried to pass it off as history for the religious parrots to keep repeating...lol