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Sat 10/25/25 09:15 PM
I have not seen any blurred photos that were in the profiles. I seem to remember someone talking about it though and saying it was because the viewer did not have enough photo's on their profile...True or not, who knows. To me, there should be something saying on each page "Paying members see non-blurred pictures" or what ever the upgrade is. But I have not seen any benefits really.

Most people put a higher value on the things that cost more, whether you are getting a better quality or more quantity. Some times I get the organic stuff, but in the back of my mind I seem to remember people saying that cyanide is organic also, so be careful what you get...lol

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Sat 10/25/25 11:13 AM
It was a nice feature, but not worth paying to get it. With all the problems with this site that they don't fix, I do not know why anyone would pay for this...lol
When I joined in January, they offered a lifetime membership for around $90 -- about $10 more than for 6 months. With my statistically expected lifetime, that works out to between $8 and $10 per year. Economically, this expense is totally insignificant. For example, my groceries run around $70 a week, which is around $3600 a year -- at least 360 times more than the annual expense for Mingle.

Admittedly, the problems that they cause by unnecessary site changes and ill-advised policy changes are not good. IMO, the biggest problem is that they don't listen to their users and, when they do listen, they take forever to make the user-desired changes.

To be fair, they did recently make a good change: they stopped blurring profile photos.

To me, it is not the price but the principal of paying them for such terrible service.
Free members still see the blurred photos in the recent activity section if that is what you are talking about.
BTW, you must eat better than I do...my weekly groceries are usually only $50 a week...lol

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Fri 10/24/25 09:57 PM
It was a nice feature, but not worth paying to get it. With all the problems with this site that they don't fix, I do not know why anyone would pay for this...lol

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Fri 10/24/25 08:58 PM
In the "Recent Activity" part, I use to see where someone viewed my profile but I have not seen that lately after all the changes mingle has made. All that is in there is the "Likes". I figured the scammers are not going to waste their time looking at a profile, but there had to have been at least a couple real profiles that looked at it.

Is anyone else seeing profiles that viewed your profile or is that gone now? If someone wants to just take a minute to click on my profile, then let me know they have done it. I am curious if that is another nice feature that is gone...

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Fri 10/24/25 07:17 PM
Yes, I feel that men and women can be just friends. But it sounds like he was playing a long game, friends first type of thing to win you over. If a man and woman are just friends, then both of them can not be attracted to the other at all.

I guess now the question is what are you going to do about this new "friend" who wanted more?

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Tue 10/21/25 08:54 PM
You can view them in the forums here and in the "Who's Online" search section when they are online...

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Fri 10/17/25 09:38 PM
Edited by GravelRidgeBoy on Fri 10/17/25 09:39 PM
The second girl in the profile pictures has a bunch of different profiles on here, different ages so you can choose how old she should be...lol

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Fri 10/17/25 09:34 PM
I want to make friends with United States :flag_us: only q
You're in New Jersey?????

"She" messaged me saying she was actually a dentist from New York but was in Michigan now...lol But like the rest, is deactivated...lol

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Wed 10/15/25 09:26 PM
"Only q"?

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Fri 10/10/25 10:07 PM
Do I have to be a member to do that as I go into settings and there is no Mail Settings. Would appreciate ur help.

I am also a free member, but I use a PC so it might be different.
You can also find it under the "Limit Who Can Send You Mail" or I see it is at almost the top when you click on Mail also. I was just clicking things to see where it took me to find it...lol

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Fri 10/10/25 10:01 PM
Looking something serious and meaningful

Then I would suggest taking your profile serious with good pictures of yourself and writing a meaningful About section. I think most people ignore empty profiles... Good Luck

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Tue 10/07/25 09:32 PM
Hi do I view profiles I have blocked as I have blocked one by mistake

Got to your Account page.
Then click on Settings.
Then click on Mail Settings.
On the Mail Settings page there will be a spot to go to Blocked Users.
(Inbox Nudge Mail Settings Blocked Users Filters)


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Tue 10/07/25 09:21 PM
After exchanging a few emails here with someone, suggest a video call if you feel comfortable with it, scammers will not want that so should help you filtering them out.

I would suggest checking into the new video filters, "Trafficked with Mariana van Zeller" has a good one on scammers and shows the guy being videoed but the video is a girl with a girl voice in a nice place also...lol

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Mon 10/06/25 10:05 PM
I would suggest expanding on what you think of when you say you an "Activity Partner" since people seem to use that in different ways on here...lol

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Mon 10/06/25 10:01 PM
If you have less then 3 photos on your profile the other persons photos after 2 will be that way.

That must be why some profiles haves a bunch of the same picture or random pictures (chair, dog, food, whatever).

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Sat 10/04/25 08:10 PM
Is it really possible to find true love in dating app?

I feel it is about the same chances to find true love in a bar or anywhere else people go to think they can find someone. Even in a bar or something where you can see them face to face, there are people who pretend to be something that they are not. But just like fishing, you can't catch the fish without a line in the water...

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Fri 10/03/25 09:54 PM
Hi, a number of features on this website don't work anymore ...the software needs to be refreshed...and there's nobody at home at Contact Us

It is not even a refresh problem, it is a programming problem. It is like someone just let some crackheads do all the programming, they half-assed it to get paid and left...lol The changes were made but nothing was actually fixed...

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Fri 10/03/25 09:50 PM
The only profiles I get are very far away, have come there not in my location

This is a problem that many people have complained about. The only thing we can really do for now is to just hit the X on the profiles that you do not want to see (distance or whatever). Then when the number of profiles are not so many it is easier to find people closer.

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Wed 10/01/25 09:15 PM

People all over the planet are waking up to the fact that a minority of people have had and still have control over the rest of us. We have been lied to on so many levels, humanities true history, the existence of Alien life, that our government's have had contact for decades. The existence of a secret space program, most of the elites have been abusing our children in the most heinous of ways, the existence of deep underground military bases, the reality of tunnel systems that run all around the planet, the deliberate manipulation of our mainstream media etc...
I got to admit the tunnel system is a new one for me...lol

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Tue 09/30/25 09:17 PM
Except, scammers DO NOT PAY, they do not have to
that is the beauty of it for them.

I have been seeing a bunch of the same scammers that when they "liked" my profile, their picture is not blurred out. So I figured that must be a benefit for paying for this site vs just being free. Or is there another reason their pictures do not get blurred in the liked section? Their name is still just the first and last letters...

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