Hey All! I'm so new to these forums. Like most, i'm out here trying to find love. It comes in many forms though.. so If you have love to share lets get to it!! (However my physical attraction does center around women. ) Do you have any form topics that are your favorites? or where's an interesting place to start?

Thanks for you replies in advance.
~Rainangel

If someone lists on their profile that they are athletic, but have a double chin?

Or if someone has a massive beer belly, are they really only a few extra pounds?


I am not judging. However, sometimes I really wonder what people are thinking when they self-identify their body type.

Is there any?

Okay, so, I have to ask, and please know that I'm being serious about this...

Why does a guy (or anyone for that matter) who is perfectly sweet about everything normally have to suddenly act like you almost don't exist when his friends are in the room? I mean, I can see not wanting to be all "soft" when you're a real "tough guy", but I mean, I dated a guy for 15 months, and whenever his friends were around, I was lucky to get an arm around my shoulders. I didn't get real cuddling (yeah, I know, shocking that I might want that after I drove over an hour to see the guy) unless we were in his room, and that didn't even happen if his friends were over, which, I gotta tell ya, was ALL THE TIME.

I know it sounds like I'm ranting, and I kinda am, because it took eighteen months of that and feeling like I wasn't a real girlfriend but just a friend with benefits as well as being second to his job and education, to finally give up on it. But I didn't think it was going to be THAT BAD until it got to this last week... *sighs*

what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated

MMmm, so, to ask the question that I've been asking, how does my profile look? I know I'm very new and shouldn't expect results immediately, but it's nice to know where I stand...

WHY IS IT THAT WHEN A WOMAN CHEATS THE GUY THINKS SHE'S THE BIGGEST WHORE.BUT WHEN HE DOES IT IT'S OK.WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Nothing gained.

Do you agree with this?

How far would you venture to gain something you really want?

What would be something, no matter how much you want it, that isn't worth the venture? Example (for me): wanting to be with someone but they are in a relationship or not interested.

I think soul mates dont have to bee opposite sex or just between lovers. I think A woman can be married and have a soul mate with a friend whom they are not sexually involved with. It might be nice to marry your soul mate, but I am not convinced it is always the case.

Thanks! =3 I'm rather enjoying it.

*also offers cake*

... everyone loves cake, right? =D I promise, there isn't even any death!

A lot of profiles warn against "game play" and claim that they don't engage in it themselves. What constitutes "game play?" What are some examples of this and how can I detect if someone is playing games? Are there any warning signs I should look for? I would appreciate any info I could get.

I still can't believe that my husband is gone...We were married for over 24 years...Thought we'd have another twenty plus years together but he developed pancreatic cancer and it became a "losing battle" in the end. Really sad...I haven't been part of the "dating scene" since the early 80's...Don't really know the ropes anymore. I'm a "newbie" all over again...Being a widow is different than being divorced...I was divorced earlier in life but this time I wanted to stay married...I didn't want my husband to pass away and leave me....I know my husband wouldn't want me to sit home alone forever and ever and cry over his death. He would want me to reinvent myself and go on with life...I'd love to hear from other widows and widowers. How did things go when you started getting out more and dating? Did you feel weird and strange at first? Did you feel guilty? Thanks for listening. Looking forward to making new friends here.

If I wake up at 3 am, because of a noise or slept on my arm again and it got numb, and somehow my thoughts end up on you, even though there isn't really else, beside the darkness, the bed, and an empty space beside me, and I wrote you this in the middle of the night and sent it to your email, so when you wake up, and check your mail at 7am, and this is the first thing to read would you think of me as someone crazy, obsessed or in love with you?

So my story began about 3 and a half weeks ago... I met this man at the gym, I was so close to rejecting him but his sex appeal was too hard to resist. We started talking & the rest is history, recently learning he is in a relationship. Futhermore I realized that we are all at risk when we meet someone new for the first time, people just are not telling the truth. I wanted to get some feed back, what would you do if you were turned on by a person who could never really be yours? Affairs are all too common but do people really think its wrong, or is it only wrong when your being cheated on?

Did you know that there are 'wheelchair' athletes, that really don't use/need wheelchairs???

amazing

She has a healthy libido and he doesnt have ANY!!!

Just wondering what you do? I became aware that my oldest son is gettin' married; he never even told me. I learned through my sisters and mom. He's gettin' married October 10th. He's already sent out invitations but didn't invite me to his wedding. I'm devastated. Saw him on FaceBook today and asked him if he was getting married. He said "yes". I let him know that I was hurt that he never told me; nor did he invite me. His response was, "I'd thought about inviting you for a year; and, wasn't sure you'd come?" Are you kiddin' me? Then, he preceded to continue saying that he'd told everyone he wanted me at his wedding. NOW, he invited me. As a mother, I am SO hurt. To top it off; my sister's never told me they'd gotten their invitations. Called one of my sister's today; her response was, "Well, I waiting to see if you got one."

So? My question is this: "Would you go after NOT being invited initially?" My opinion is that he should have invited me; I shouldn't have had to bring it up. Otherwise, it's like inviting myself to his wedding, which obviously he didn't want me at to begin with.

I am SO upset right now. With my son; my sisters.

As some requested the rest of the story:

The divorce between his Dad and I wasn't good. My son holds it against me; always did. David, my son, and I have NEVER had any issues other than living in different States. We aren't close; true. But, I'm his mother. And, family is the most precious thing that we have in life.