WHY IS IT THAT WHEN A WOMAN CHEATS THE GUY THINKS SHE'S THE BIGGEST WHORE.BUT WHEN HE DOES IT IT'S OK.WHAT DO YOU THINK?

women cheat becuase they are not being emtionaly sattisfied. by this i mean her boyfriend/ husband/ partner, is not meeting thier emtional needs. so a woman goes to find this else where, which usually ends up with cheating becuase she has gotten the attention she desires.
Men cheat becuase they are not being sexually satisfied, so they go out with the intention to find sex.....
who sounds like a bigger whore?

there are a lot of reasons men cheat. to suggest that it is only because they are not sexually satisfied seems a bit naive to me.

Men and women cheat for all different reasons... None of them can be associated with their gender...

OP men that cheat are considered scumbags.. Kind of along the same line as whores.. It may be considered ok with other cheaters but not with the majority of people with integrity...

A cheat is a cheat, no matter on gender or sexual preferences

wow...when Joy comes into the Sex forums...ya better listen

It's Tiger isn't it!?

men are pigs

You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals,
So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel....


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=knItRruwXEA

I never thought when anyone cheats (regardless of gender) that it was cool. But i march to the beat of my own drummer

my mom once gave me a good advice on this subject, if you cheat never let the other one know,so no one gets hurt emotionally,what a person does not know can't hurt em right.. and ur relationship stays intact,meanwhile u do what u gotta do,just do it as discreet as possible another good advice..is never tell ur partner the truth,like even if ur girl catches u with someone in bed if u tell her ain't nothing happened,then in her mind nothing did happen,as long as id don't come out from ur mouth nothing did happen..u feel me ? Thing is over time being with the same person can infact get boring,so instead of ending the relationship u strenghthen it by having a girl on the side..My pop is away on business trips a lot..only thing my mom can do is trust him, she knows how ladies fall for my pop.. but like she said as long as she doesn't know about it, it's all good... a bit of topic I know just thought I share a bit of my wizdom with u all :)

PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things

I think you are missing something here. Playing the field or whatever is fine. Nothing wrong with that (if you are honest about it)

Cheating involves deception.

If someone can't commit to one person, then they shouldn't commit and then cheat.

I completeley agree with you, I feel like if somone wants to be upfront about it and say look I'm not looking for anything serious they should say so but if they say they are looking for a commited relationship yet cheat 2-3 months into it, it doesn't make sense it just makes the other member feel like they waisted thier time.

You're a good man Charlie Brown

well what if u still love that person on an emotional level,but at the same time u need to have something extra on the side..It happens right ? I mean if someone been married for 15 years for instance and been only true to that one person all this time,could suddenly have a change of heart...after all we are all human right ? not robots..

You do realize that you just blocked yourself from 95% of the ladies from this site.

It's a double-standard - and b*llsh*t IMHO. A cheater; regardless of their gender should be judged the same. It is a deceitful action period.

If you love someone, why would you hurt a person that way? Why would you deceive that person?

Again, not talking about an open relationship or casual relationships.

Don't you think that cheating would hurt the person more?

Aside from the hurt, why would someone want to be known as a sneak or cheater?

lol hey I am not saying I'd actually do it I am just saying about the advice my mom gave me...Like I said my pop is on business trips a lot my mom trusts him.. she doesn't ask him the wrong questions, she doesn't go to an extent of hiring a private investigator when my pop comes back late from his office,as some women may do and they been happily married for 20 something years.. Don't ask, don't tell...

sorry but your mom gave you bad advice. I have a 19 y/o son and I would tell him to be a man. If he can't control himself, then he needs to own up and end it before he makes himself a liar.

I would NEVER tell my son that. A real man (or woman) would own up and put their big boy/girl pants on.

BTW....they will always find out. May not be immediately but they will find out.