So my story began about 3 and a half weeks ago... I met this man at the gym, I was so close to rejecting him but his sex appeal was too hard to resist. We started talking & the rest is history, recently learning he is in a relationship. Futhermore I realized that we are all at risk when we meet someone new for the first time, people just are not telling the truth. I wanted to get some feed back, what would you do if you were turned on by a person who could never really be yours? Affairs are all too common but do people really think its wrong, or is it only wrong when your being cheated on?

I think it is wrong and I wouldn't want to knowingly be a part of it. Once I found out he was in a relationship, I would be instantly turned off.

Yes I really think it is wrong...........

If he isn't married then I guess it depends how you feel about dating
multiple people at the same time - how you think that should work.

I have always been serially monogamous myself. Makes life a lot
simpler with a less emotionally charged and more emotionally
satisfying atmosphere. It may be different for guys that is it for
women to be serially monogamous.

For me it's wrong to make a person believe you'll never lie or cheat. we've all heard that one. but I no longer put that pressure on men to be committed and faithful, why you ask? cause we want what we can't have. If you allow a person their freedom and play your role at best, less time will be wasted and less hearts will be broken. However humans invented cheating, we think it's possible to not lust for others and thats totally contrary. I hope to one day find a man who wants to be "open" with me & who does not want children, cause they suffer the most from break ups.

Not my thing but roll with it baby if it's yours.......

I don't think it's ok, but it seems to be that you do... so why even ask? :)...

I think if you approach this in a healthy honest way (with yourself and others) you will be happy - "casual" seems to be what you want!... you seem good with it -- who cares what we think about it!!

$.02

its part of human nature i guess... everyone wants to get the forbidden thing... and all what ppl do is search for ways to justify their needs.
it might be wrong, but in the end its only you who decide if it is or not!

humans didn't "invent" cheating, it's the restrictions they make for themselves about relationships. sounds like he already lied to you, or didn't tell you the truth. but if that's what you want, there's many more guys that will oblige ya there. it also sounds like your setting yourself up for failure with men. all men don't cheat, you should remember that.

welcome to mingle

lol already gone...

I think your x-ray scared her.

i wanted everyone to see my big brain...

Sorry pumpkin but I agree that it is wrong. But unfortunatly way to common.

Walk away G'friend

Gee, I wish I still had the energy to date two women at once.

veronyca, the man you hooked up with isn't ready to settle for just one woman. Also, if he is bedding more than one woman, then STD could be lurking in the shadows. Show yourself some respect and look for someone else.

It is an excellent looking brain.
You could get it rated in Rate My Profile.

it would be a ten, 4 sure

If anyone asks my advice on a matter like this....I will say the same thing. If you are knowingly involved with someone who is in a relationship, then that is wrong on your part. The "taken" one is wrong on their part.

I'm not referring to open relationships or to playing the field. As long as those involved are honest with what they are doing....go get em tiger. My problem is with the deceptions and going along with deceptions.

hmmmmmmmmmmmm I wonder why people in RL don't ask me for advice