Have you been with a person who has this disorder or has ADHD........and was it successful or am I putting all my eggs in one basket.............I am in a relationship with a man who has this disorder and it has been frustrating and there have been challenges.......I dont know if I am strong enough to go through such a complicated disorder but I know he is the most amazing man that I have ever met and I wouldnt choose another but life is full of sh!t and it get complicating..............so how do I handle this.....

He is so not into you..............run and find someone who isnt full of bs.............

Ask college students you will find the answer you are searching for..................

I have been caught up in this situation where everthing was good but I wasnt attracted to the person..........I eventually went out with them and I thought things would get better but they didnt and I ended up being the person who was dishonest because I was dishonest in myself..........its misleading and it never works..........you need attraction for a relationship to develop and progress........and now I know and will never do it again.....

And here we have the same old PEOPLE who complain about the same old thing..........look you are an american if you have more education and guts to be president step up to the plate than us having to hear people like you biotch all day.................UHhh where is your ambition only centered on seeing someone else take charge huh and then critisizing them for doing something that you have no guts to do..............

Im sick of the haters you had candidates why the HELL DIDNT THEY WIN......................best bet that no one is believing the BS they have been dishing out for the last 8 YEARS.............

I think too many people feel that chemistry with someone means that you are going to fall in love or you are in love...............but usually most love that is genuine starts with friendship and then if you are compatible then you move to the next level...........I will not date someone ever again just on chemistry alone I now know its not a prerequiste for a true relationship to arise..........Just take your time with the person and get to know him you might be suprised.............By the way if your ex said you should be friends then you should think of that.............some men usually end relationships on holidays that they are suppose to show COMMITTMENT...............food for thought..................

You dont know your alone until you experience love again or for the first time...............then you wonder how you survived without it for so long............it makes me feel amazing and its risky but its all worth it to feel that way...............especially when you end up meeting the ONE...............

Says the moooooooooooonkey...........

I think it depends on the relationship........I think some distance does help a relationship and puts things into perspective...........I think it can work as long at its not overdone..................

You may not believe in Adam and Eve but i hope you believe in a higher power...............i am not a religious person and i havent been in church for the past 4 years and before that I hadnt been for 15 years..........what I have to say about my pastor saying that for the first time makes sense...................because regardless of anything we believe that we can love and we do love and that to me tells me that there are other works in present that we dont know but also regardless of believing in Adam and Eve we do have IMPERFECT love and that is why we search and search but cant find and when we do we end up blaming ourselves and others for that...............but isnt it a little justifiable to know that we are reaching for something that is unattainable and it has nothing to do with us personally that it was intended..............thats my whole premise is that we are in search for something that isnt unattainable but because we still search then maybe just maybe we believe that someone or something of a higher power is there to guide us...........JMO

I was at church last sunday and my pastor talked about PERFECT LOVE(OR PURE LOVE) he says after Adam and Eve who had the PERFECT LOVE chose to eat the apple they ended up with IMPERFECT LOVE...............he also said they are the only humans who have experienced that PERFECTION and that we will never experience that PERFECT LOVE that they did because in other words we have been doomed by GOD..............so that is why we have so many problems in our relationships because we have IMPERFECT LOVE..............

so my question is why are we still searching for LOVE when its IMPERFECT LOVE that we have inherited from ADAM AND EVE..............

Uhhh.........i dont like hickeys or love bites unless they are in my inner thigh up the happy trail................then YAH BABY.........

I want to go back in b.c. so that I can be Noah and think about how the hell he put all them damn animals and people in and how he built the Ark....................lol wtf........on that

I think many of us gravitate to the negatives of the world and dont see the positives of humanity.....I think also many of us have been hurt so our defenses are so up we dont see anything good because we have been hurt so badly..............but it gets better and the saying you get wiser as you get older is true in most cases...........at your age and I dont mean this to be harsh but you need to experience the heartaches and the challenges in life and you should take them as a gift.......because later when you have matured you know what is good for you and right for you in those experiences.............I think many of us think that bad relationships are just that bad.......they only become bad when you dont acquire the lessons from them............every person that comes to your life not only changes your life but they become an example of what you dont want and those are the best lessons to learn.......

Like you said we are a society of living in the now and what we should do is be patient because we are provided with the right people at the right time its how you view it when it comes and how you handle it..........there are no bad relationships in my life what I see them is a relationship that I wasnt ready for or I didnt learn the lessons from my past relationships and that is why they didnt work.........

Just be patient and see things in a positive light no matter how complex or f up it is.............its a lesson you need to learn.......and I thank all my bad relationships for that because if I didnt have them I wouldnt have met the man I love completely and unconditionally and want to spend my whole life with........

if you could travel in time what year would you go to and who would you like to be?

I like to juggle.............that sounds normal its what I like to juggle that is unique..............

The big bang................

do you have a unique talent and what is it...................

I have this idea and I have always thought it to be true...............i think if you are a negative person you attract negative people and negative relationships that dont last...........also if you have no self confidence you are attracted to the ones who do have it and they usually end up exploiting you..........If you have a positive outlook in life then people gravitate to you more often.......

I have seen this in my own life.........when i am self conscious and i dont feel good about myself I attract the a$$holes of life.........but when I am good to myself and I am happy in life I attract people who have the same idea of life...........

I think too many of us arent being who we are and sometimes that lack of self confidence seems to attract the undesirables in life either it be a man or a woman..........

They just wanted to get sum............can you blame a gal for trying.........