Thanks for the advise..........I incorporated most of what you all said and went with it when I spoke to the person...........sadly enough they had this same convo with someone else who also felt the same way as I didnt and then it all came together for them............Its funny how things if left unsaid would keep going.........I usually dont let people put me in this position but its much harder when you love someone to tell them who they are..........I just hope after our discussion that the person will rectify the issues and we can move on....................but its easier said than done as we all know........

I have done that and it just makes me look irrational.........I think now I just have to sit back and not respond and let the chips lay where they may...........I can only control myself and I cant change the views of others but I think what I can do is inflict the same pain that is peircing me............ty

HYNA your right about this..........I thought that we had really established a commitment and then all I see is dissapointment and I cant take it anymore...........I have started the process and I really dont want to do it but it has to be done because im done with words and they arent effective like I thought............I am mos def going to go ahead because me being mad and furious is only in my side he doesnt see it that way and now I see that................but I wish that I didnt have to do it this way.........

For the past three days I have sat and thought of this.......I dont want to play mind games but it seems I have done all the communication that I can out of the person...........I care about them but sometimes like you said you need to treat them like they treat you and only when you do that will they see how it feels............its so sad that people dont have that instinct of having integrity in the first place but I think some people are better knowing when it is done to them...................

what things have you done to stop being taken for granted...............advise please

If only all packages were duty free and required a health check I would........... then and then after its all over.........

You people are so NAUGHTY..............I wish I had a package wrapped in a size 12 box...............

Well obviously that didnt help their campaign.............we already are lacking in respect with GW and now we want to just be a laughing stock and be mocked by everyone for how long..............EDUCATION is the key to progress everyone knows that our kids know that........a high school diploma doesnt do a damn thing but imply that you are going to be stuck in a factory or a fast food joint............EDUCATION is the only key to success these days........the days of experience have long gone........its who has a BA,MASTERS,or PHD.............thats how life is...........or stand next to that guy in the unemployment line........

What else could there be she was going to lead a nation and she was going to lead actually a first world nation dont you think that you should have at least graduated from a university to do that............wht so then my 3rd grader can do it now.......come on how can you stand and lead a country and meet world leaders without an education...........

But isnt that the most amazing thing about being human that we have the capacity to love............and being love isnt a guarantee its work.........and so thats what makes our lives so distinct from animals...........why dont we accept our faults and acknowledge our mistakes and learn from them instead of generalizing and compartmentalizing everything to a box..........love regardless if it hurts or if it makes us happy its unique and it should be felt by all...........no matter how many times it comes in your life............fear is a ridiculous feeling that doesnt let you grow it only makes you complacent.........

I dont have a problem of having a different belief system I have a problem with her education.............it causes me to question our educational system and wonder what the hell went wrong...............or did she have an accident which affected her intellectual ability to think...................what......what.......

If you love the person then yes its the logical step what else is there im not sure what you want a blood test.........an xray.........a pap smear...................wth

Sarah Palin is a case study of what happens when you inbreed...............

I think that you are just asking something you already know the answer to..............I dont want to speculate but if you are taking a haircut as a judge of how this person feels about you other things have went on in the past to give you this idea............we women have a way of looking at things and seeing the little details of things that men dont.........unfortunately men dont have the same type ideas.........we use every little thing as an analysis of how are relationship is or should be.............is that fair?

This sounds familiar was this on Tv.......

Well either or he is a dip sh!t.................

wow your taking it well and you dont sound bitter at all......

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So I believe you mean lack of judgement.........

Yeah mos def...................but if you asked nicely I might copy and paste a site for you to see all the skanks they want.........

what was your contribution to the failure of your last relationship?