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Tue 11/13/07 11:02 PM
Good for you Southern Bee

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Tue 11/13/07 11:01 PM
Dude! Sorry to hear that.

2 months as well. I can get some but I only want to be with someone I actually connect with. So I wait for a bit. Good for my soul anyway I think.

Again, bummer..... but... I've been there so don't think you're alone.... Stings though but you are the better person for not cheating.

J

UWannaBSpontaneous's photo
Tue 11/13/07 10:58 PM
Ah come on that was funny..... I'm a known respector of women but I laugh at others and myself. See my other posts.

laugh

J

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Tue 11/13/07 10:52 PM
I think that rocks! What an accomplishment on so many levels. Now she still has to be cool for the ways you enjoy so that's still key.

My last girlfreind was a Stripper. I'd totally take a firewoman cause they work the pole too.

J

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Tue 11/13/07 10:49 PM
Okay, that's quite the introduction. But no, not necessarily weird. Only detrimental if not done by the right person in the right way. It's not something to repeat often from what I know because you're dealing with braincells.

So, just be careful and have fun. Tell us more about you and maybe ease others into who you are.

I play guitar and some ladies cry when I sing.... Oh! that sounded wrong.

J

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Tue 11/13/07 10:41 PM
Yeah! Start pointing out your good qualities to yourself. Have confidence in being good to others cause this will be important to any good relationship.

Don't let anyone do the same things to you.> it was a lesson so learn from it and move on.

Don't let the relationship be "you". You are your own person and when you loose yourself in a relationship you have to spend time taking it back. I'm not saying you won't have thoughts but don't talk about them to others to often and seek out new "Life"... That was a Star Trek reference.

Laugh, Love, Dance, Play Music, Read, Play the Guitar... Do something.

btw: I was burned big time..... I am a believer in myself. It's been tough but I have a faith in myself as well as in god. Prayers work for me. Not sure about others but there is strength to be found.

Good Luck, NOW GO OUT AND ENJOY LIFE. happy






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Tue 11/13/07 10:34 PM
LoveToTravel's got it down tonight. Follow her advise.

J

UWannaBSpontaneous's photo
Tue 11/13/07 10:31 PM
Aren't you a spinster after 14?

Just have fun and go for it. I've just got one word of advise for ya.


Prenup!

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Tue 11/13/07 10:27 PM
I married a woman 7 years older than me. Married for 7 years but didn't work out. Have kids though and we respect eachother for the most part. But 7 there isn't so bad.

Funnest gal I ever had was 11 years my junior and we had fun cause she loved the oldies and we danced all night to swing. Had to end it though as I was on my way to divorse land and that would have been to stressful on her. We still keep in touch and she got married.

A bunch of people here have good points... I won't ad because they are all right.

My last one was 7 years younger but ya know I don't consider it that far off.

Douglas & Catherine Zeta..... now that's what I want. She rocks!

J


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Tue 11/13/07 10:18 PM
"people are strange"

Hey I think Jim Morrison said that.

I resemble that remark.


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Tue 11/13/07 10:12 PM
Maybe is a kind of Purgatory.

One must attain the necessary qualities to become a full Yes!

Criteria to be discussed amongst the parties or guessed as it may be.

Good Luck Maybe's, happy

J


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Tue 11/13/07 12:11 PM
Okay so with such a perfect profile her being the sweetest how come you placed her profile here?

There has to be a reason. I'm sure she can meet someone offline just fine without this site.

She is a beautiful gal and shy is cool.

Regards,

John


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Tue 11/13/07 08:59 AM
Only if my kids agreed to it. Probably wouldn't happen and that's fine. There should be someone local to meet. Just gotta get out there.

J

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Tue 11/13/07 08:57 AM
Yep! Had that in my last one. Bummer. Great to write it out in thought. I think it will make things better as you discover for yourself the many reasons why they could not see the type of damage they would do by connecting with you on that "I love you level".

It helped you to open up yourself more to them and take bigger risks. Then they rip your heart out one day and say something that is completely opposite.

It makes you feel cheated at first. I now know she did not understand what she was doing and it makes it a little better.

Respectfully,

J

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Tue 11/13/07 08:50 AM
Yeah I don't understand the profiles that say they are beautiful or attractive..... It really has no bearing that you tell others you are beautiful right.... it's up to them.

There are a lot of profiles that need better descriptions. I like it when they put what they have accomplished and where they see themselves going.

J

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Tue 11/13/07 08:34 AM
Well is it lying or just showing the better parts of how they believe they are seen today.

Lying like, not saying they have a restraining order against them currently and you find out they hit their ex.

I would like an example

Thanks,

J

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Tue 11/13/07 08:12 AM
Call a Realtor to help you out. They have properties that aren't in the paper.

I've done it for clients.

Good luck. Nice model shot btw.

John

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Mon 11/12/07 08:59 AM
1. He didn't respond yet to the email.

2. Any borderline issues? I love you, I hate you, Come here, Go Away. My last gf did that to me all the time and her sister was the one that told me that I was her greatest lover ever (according to their conversations) and that I'm warm and kind and funny. (I knew this already as this is me). Honestly, with borderline people, it doesn't matter HOW good you are to a person they will break up with you. The only good thing is when it's over you can be proud of yourself.

3. I wouldn't call and I wouldn't even ask why they gave it up. Why? Cause they will come back and tell you if they can't get over you. Then you have to assess the potential it will happen again... Ohhhhh I've grown so much since we've been apart... Uhhhhh not always. I think I would just send an email with the word, "?" . Then see what happens.

4. Sorry to hear about the broken heart. You faired better than me. I had 2.5 years and then the broken heart.

Respectfully,

John

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Mon 11/12/07 12:43 AM
I saw a comment about moves to quickly....

Haven't many of us had some cool whirlwind romances and you can't slow them down.

If it moves fast and it seems okay I'd say go for it. You can blame a failure on "moving to fast" but really it can always be slowed down a little.... I've done it. ie had sex within a couple of weeks and then took a 2 week break to court and then back to sex when we really did like each other.... happened.


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Mon 11/12/07 12:41 AM
We buy things we like to look at..... We become a part of things we want to wake up with.....

Physical attraction does play into it at some point. It isn't superficial it's chemistry..

Don't worry about that part. I'm sure there is a range of attraction that you allow.

Maybe that's meant to be that way so you are freinds.