would you travel to a new state for someone u net nline and even maybe live there if u loved them

nope

tried that didn't work out too well

Hell yes! Distance shouldnt pose a problem. Live a little , TAKE A RISK! if you dont who knows what you might miss out on. Just my opinion :)

I really don't know; but anything is possible

In addition to my above post, make sure you know this person well before you do go lol.

I would consider it but it depends on how long you guys have been talking... what your relationship is like. You MUST spend some actual time together before considering moving in with each other. Don't uproot your whole life until you are absolutly SURE this will work out or it could be disastrous! Financially and emotially.

well i get not wanting to pick up ur kids or leave ur family but what if u really loved someone that much

Yes, have done so, well worth it. May end up moving, but that's for the future to decide

after years

been there did it and stayed for 6 years... we are still friends and travel back and forth to see each other... Only reason i came back was to be closer to ailing parents....

If that is the way you feel then nothing an I mean nothing should stand in your way

I did this at one time and it didn't work out. I would if it was love.

moonangel....what did u go for the first time then?

no..not leavin my kids or would take them from theyre dad..now when they r grown and out of the house, then yes i would..i hate fla anymore

well i did i traveled a little over 2 hours away to see someone i met online, needless to say it will never happen again!

i'll go where ever to meet that special one .. anytakers....

In my own personal situation I cannot move out of my county for insurance reasons if you can believe it.

Big Question - it's all about the circumstances...

Big one - are kids invovled? (Generally speaking, not necc. to you) - in most states, you can't leave the state w/o the other parent's knowledge/consent.

I think the BIG thing is, don't jump too quickly - slowly consider it... generally, I think locally there are usually enough people around you don't have to necc. go so far. But, that's a general assumption...

As for me, no way - job here is GREAT, My daughter is settled here... so, I'm stayin' put. But others may be more "mobile"

But don't just pick up and leave too quickly...

With that, and two bits, you can get some coffee!

i would move if it was for love and if i knew the person but it would be a decision that we would both have to make as a couple