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There is no way you can have deep seated affection for a woman and you would not want to buy her nice things or do ,say things that will put smiles on her face. I pray never to lack to give and be responsible. I pick the bills or buy nice things even if she is a millionaire. Except I don't have. Can I recieve from a woman? Yes! The best job I had so far in life-a woman gave me the connection. Have recieved gifts too. Giving is living! A woman must cost you something. They are pearls of great value. sorry but that is a load of doggie droppings, if you have to place monetary value for a woman's affection she isn't worth it. True love is priceless, most women would cherish gifts from the heart, now that doesnt mean you cant or shouldnt spend money on her. Gold diggers and materialistic women expects the royal treatment when they have nothing to offer except, well you know. That doesnt mean a guy has to be a cheapskate , meet a girl in a parking lot, take her to lunch at subways with a two for one coupon, go to starbucks and split a oversize frappuccino and expect to go back to her place either. Getting to know someone doesnt require spending a fortune to impress her, most women are impressed with men who have integrity, isnt chasing every skirt in town and doesnt have two nickels to rub together either,and when he gives a gift its a gift from the heart, that is something she cherishes. |
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Edited by
Fervid_heart
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Mon 05/21/18 08:26 PM
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There is no way you can have deep seated affection for a woman and you would not want to buy her nice things or do ,say things that will put smiles on her face. I pray never to lack to give and be responsible. I pick the bills or buy nice things even if she is a millionaire. Except I don't have. Can I recieve from a woman? Yes! The best job I had so far in life-a woman gave me the connection. Have recieved gifts too. Giving is living! A woman must cost you something. They are pearls of great value. sorry but that is a load of doggie droppings, if you have to place monetary value for a woman's affection she isn't worth it. True love is priceless, most women would cherish gifts from the heart, now that doesnt mean you cant or shouldnt spend money on her. Gold diggers and materialistic women expects the royal treatment when they have nothing to offer except, well you know. That doesnt mean a guy has to be a cheapskate , meet a girl in a parking lot, take her to lunch at subways with a two for one coupon, go to starbucks and split a oversize frappuccino and expect to go back to her place either. Getting to know someone doesnt require spending a fortune to impress her, most women are impressed with men who have integrity, isnt chasing every skirt in town and doesnt have two nickels to rub together either,and when he gives a gift its a gift from the heart, that is something she cherishes. |
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There is no way you can have deep seated affection for a woman and you would not want to buy her nice things or do ,say things that will put smiles on her face. I pray never to lack to give and be responsible. I pick the bills or buy nice things even if she is a millionaire. Except I don't have. Can I recieve from a woman? Yes! The best job I had so far in life-a woman gave me the connection. Have recieved gifts too. Giving is living! A woman must cost you something. They are pearls of great value. sorry but that is a load of doggie droppings, if you have to place monetary value for a woman's affection she isn't worth it. True love is priceless, most women would cherish gifts from the heart, now that doesnt mean you cant or shouldnt spend money on her. Gold diggers and materialistic women expects the royal treatment when they have nothing to offer except, well you know. That doesnt mean a guy has to be a cheapskate , meet a girl in a parking lot, take her to lunch at subways with a two for one coupon, go to starbucks and split a oversize frappuccino and expect to go back to her place either. Getting to know someone doesnt require spending a fortune to impress her, most women are impressed with men who have integrity, isnt chasing every skirt in town and doesnt have two nickels to rub together either,and when he gives a gift its a gift from the heart, that is something she cherishes. Another thing I like. A woman that doesn't mind getting dirty/greasy. 
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OP, so what can they expect in return?
Is this the "I want a Sugar Daddy thread" 
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Edited by
GalaxyStarz
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Mon 05/21/18 09:19 PM
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My single girlfriend and I were talking the other night. While she's rather bitter towards men, her comment was, that "a girl wants a man that will buy her nice things and take her places".. At my age, I think I agree. I'm with you and your friend.   
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Women want to be conquered and cherished Please explain that to your feminist sisters!! I don't think they will agree with you. IMO, I don't think the majority of women are radical feminists. Feminists are extremely vocal and the average women is not and seldom stand up to them. Unfortunately this comes across as the majority of women support them. As long as women don't express themselves in a louder voice men will assume women distrust and do not like men. So all we do is window shop. |
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Making me giggle ... Thinly veiled prostitution .. does that involve photoshop
Possibly? .....if we can borrow ShyBK's 3rd date computer gift. |
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Women want to be conquered and cherished Please explain that to your feminist sisters!! I don't think they will agree with you. IMO, I don't think the majority of women are radical feminists. Feminists are extremely vocal and the average women is not and seldom stand up to them. Unfortunately this comes across as the majority of women support them. As long as women don't express themselves in a louder voice men will assume women distrust and do not like men. So all we do is window shop. Yes, and also understand that feminism still being so important seems to be an American thing. I know it is still alive, but over here I hardly hear anything concerning it. Last time I did was in the mid 80s at secondary school. I'm always surprised to see Americans keep raising the issue, mostly from men being bitter. I do know from when my daughter was living in the US that the position of women over there is often difficult. For instance phoning a healthcare company about something to do with her. She was an adult, married. Company refused to give her the information and help. She hands the phone to her husband, the matter was sorted within 1 minute. Both me and my daughter were livid, and flabbergasted. We don't have that sort of thing over here anymore. I'm not even sure my mother ever came across that as a young woman (60s). Clearly things concerning equal rights are very different in the US, and I do assume it will vary there too depending on area. But I'm always quite taken aback to see feminism used so much on here. To me feminism is something from the past, the 60s & 70s. |
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Tue 05/22/18 02:08 AM
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There is no way you can have deep seated affection for a woman and you would not want to buy her nice things or do ,say things that will put smiles on her face. I pray never to lack to give and be responsible. I pick the bills or buy nice things even if she is a millionaire. Except I don't have. Can I recieve from a woman? Yes! The best job I had so far in life-a woman gave me the connection. Have recieved gifts too. Giving is living! A woman must cost you something. They are pearls of great value. And finally we have a man who understands 
Sorry that your wonderful posting was picked apart. Men see the word "buy" and they're off, not seeing "Would WANT to buy..., DO, SAY..." It's about having that desire to cherish a woman. Really peculiar most don't seem to understand and are off on a rant about buying and expectation. Just goes to show what is on most people's mind if that's what they come up with. Quite sad really. |
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My single girlfriend and I were talking the other night. While she's rather bitter towards men, her comment was, that "a girl wants a man that will buy her nice things and take her places".. At my age, I think I agree.  What century are we living in?
Why can't the woman buy the man nice things and take him places, also? Absolutely ! if she can afford it - why not? |
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I tend to like women that like being with me. It doesn't matter to them where we go or what we do, or if we do anything. We are together. These are the kind of women I gravitate towards. No elaborate dates required. It doesn't matter about money. Whether you have a little or a lot. We are spontaneous. We don't plan. We do. And we do it together. To me, this type of woman is fun to be with. A man doesn't have to feel like he's on the spot all the time. No pressure. Just fun with each other. The woman I've been seeing here lately, I bet I haven't spent 50 bucks on her this month. But, I've spent a lot of hrs with her. And we've had a ball. There are a lot of women out there that only want your respect, free time and attention. That's what I look for. I've been with women that all they wanted was for a man to pay for everything while they made bills to be paid, and left them for me to pay while they blew their money everywhere else. I don't do that anymore. It's been a long time since I've been that dumb. My X was that way. Then after her, I went through two or three other women that were that way before I wised up. To me, the women that only require my respect, free time and attention are the best dates. I'm wondering how much money she has spent. Just because you aren't taking her out doesn't mean you both don't still need to eat. People are saying it should be about time together, but the reality is, somebody is paying. I have men who want our time together to be about me cooking and sex. Sounds like that's what you have with your woman. Some women have spent their lives working, cooking, and cleaning. Now they want to enjoy life. Couples have evenings at home. Guess what guys? The groceries aren't free. So you need to be equal and pay for a meal out on the weekends. |
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nice quote
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Making me giggle ... Thinly veiled prostitution .. does that involve photoshop
Possibly? .....if we can borrow ShyBK's 3rd date computer gift. 
That was just an example and joke combo in response to Eric’s comment. I see now, the joke that I should have kept the computer makes it sound real, but was just supposed to be funny.  My bad.
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I know!
4th dimension comment.
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I know!
4th dimension comment.
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Too many guys looking to get something for nothing. They all want what a woman has to offer but don't want to do anything in return. I just had a guy invite me to go hot tubbing. The hot tub is his exwifes. She will be out of town. To me this was so classless. I want E2W to take me out to a nice restaurant and demand I order the most expensive item on the menu as her treat. I then want to go back to her place where she hands me the remote and then disappears only to return in a teddy and then does everything she can think of to distract me from my favorite show. |
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Stl
 Where is your pic?
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I tend to like women that like being with me. It doesn't matter to them where we go or what we do, or if we do anything. We are together. These are the kind of women I gravitate towards. No elaborate dates required. It doesn't matter about money. Whether you have a little or a lot. We are spontaneous. We don't plan. We do. And we do it together. To me, this type of woman is fun to be with. A man doesn't have to feel like he's on the spot all the time. No pressure. Just fun with each other. The woman I've been seeing here lately, I bet I haven't spent 50 bucks on her this month. But, I've spent a lot of hrs with her. And we've had a ball. There are a lot of women out there that only want your respect, free time and attention. That's what I look for. I've been with women that all they wanted was for a man to pay for everything while they made bills to be paid, and left them for me to pay while they blew their money everywhere else. I don't do that anymore. It's been a long time since I've been that dumb. My X was that way. Then after her, I went through two or three other women that were that way before I wised up. To me, the women that only require my respect, free time and attention are the best dates. I'm wondering how much money she has spent. Just because you aren't taking her out doesn't mean you both don't still need to eat. People are saying it should be about time together, but the reality is, somebody is paying. I have men who want our time together to be about me cooking and sex. Sounds like that's what you have with your woman. Some women have spent their lives working, cooking, and cleaning. Now they want to enjoy life. Couples have evenings at home. Guess what guys? The groceries aren't free. So you need to be equal and pay for a meal out on the weekends. What, you don't know men who will prepare dinner and entertain a lady at their place? |
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One of the nicest things a man gave me was a boot full of flowers, all picked from his garden, thoughtful, romantic and free.
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I tend to like women that like being with me. It doesn't matter to them where we go or what we do, or if we do anything. We are together. These are the kind of women I gravitate towards. No elaborate dates required. It doesn't matter about money. Whether you have a little or a lot. We are spontaneous. We don't plan. We do. And we do it together. To me, this type of woman is fun to be with. A man doesn't have to feel like he's on the spot all the time. No pressure. Just fun with each other. The woman I've been seeing here lately, I bet I haven't spent 50 bucks on her this month. But, I've spent a lot of hrs with her. And we've had a ball. There are a lot of women out there that only want your respect, free time and attention. That's what I look for. I've been with women that all they wanted was for a man to pay for everything while they made bills to be paid, and left them for me to pay while they blew their money everywhere else. I don't do that anymore. It's been a long time since I've been that dumb. My X was that way. Then after her, I went through two or three other women that were that way before I wised up. To me, the women that only require my respect, free time and attention are the best dates. I'm wondering how much money she has spent. Just because you aren't taking her out doesn't mean you both don't still need to eat. People are saying it should be about time together, but the reality is, somebody is paying. I have men who want our time together to be about me cooking and sex. Sounds like that's what you have with your woman. Some women have spent their lives working, cooking, and cleaning. Now they want to enjoy life. Couples have evenings at home. Guess what guys? The groceries aren't free. So you need to be equal and pay for a meal out on the weekends. Nope, You're wrong. you sound so cynical. We cook together. We go buy food to eat, together. We both like home cooking better than eating out. It's about time spent together. It's not always about sex either. Yes, sometimes we both have an "itch" to scratch. But our relationship isn't just about her feeding me and fu$%ing me. It's about taking the time to get to know a really good woman. From the heart out. Too many people now put too much emphasis on sex. I got past that years ago. There is so much more than that. It's a good thing to have. But knowing a woman, really knowing her, that's where it's at. Guys, you really want to make a woman fall in love with you? Move up a little higher. Start between her ears. It's the little things that matter. Cook for each other. Every time you see her doesn't mean you have to have sex with her. Just be with her. You want her to want you in the bedroom more? Show her what she means to you OUTSIDE the bedroom. Some of the best time I've had with her was cooking together and then a little drink on her back porch while we talk. Sometimes hrs go by because we get so enthralled with each other. |
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