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have no fear etw just poking a bit cuz of the friendzone thread.
as long as you aren't encouraging hope for more or such. life IS interaction with many not just one |
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have no fear etw just poking a bit cuz of the friendzone thread. as long as you aren't encouraging hope for more or such. life IS interaction with many not just one I dont know about that one Eric, it seems if men do that they are pigs, but when some women do it its fine and part of life. kind of double standards ? no. |
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only if it's one side or the other chatting it up
all that actually do it, are pigs in my book. regardless of their sex |
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This is how we complement each other, can make each other happy, and create the chemistry that is needed to have a healthy, interdependent relationship. It is sheer primal instincts, meaning hormones AND the way we are Divinely 'engineered' to live and survive and thrive as a species. I cannot agree with this. It is not primal instinct. This is a learned behavior. The most primal of instinct is to procreate. This is why men and women get "baby fever". That has nothing to do with conquering and protecting. Men have left women to tend the household for the majority of history. Women are the protectors, the ones who protected their young while men were away at war. Women are providers (I am not talking financial), the ones who do the majority of the cooking, cleaning, clothing, teaching, soothing? Men have done, for the majority of history, one thing ... provide the means in which a woman can do her thing ... financial support. And many women and men have been taught that this is how things should be. I do not feel I have "masculine" energy because I no longer conform to the above mention ideal. I just feel that by no longer having "baby fever", I can now be my own financial support. I don't need a man to provide for me, but to be my partner .. my equal. Wish more women thought this way. Wouldn't that be nice. I just prefer not dealing with someone who sees me to spend money on her, and wouldn't enjoy just a movie and popcorn at home. It's not about any of that energy that the poster was telling me. It's not that complicated to me. You want a guy who showers you with expensive gifts, steak and lobster dinner with champagne? It's not me. |
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have no fear etw just poking a bit cuz of the friendzone thread. as long as you aren't encouraging hope for more or such. life IS interaction with many not just one I dont know about that one Eric, it seems if men do that they are pigs, but when some women do it its fine and part of life. kind of double standards ? no. The difference is i told the guy I was seeing someone after I dtred with my guy. Men try to get with women while in a relationship. With online dating there are a lot of options. |
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There is no way you can have deep seated affection for a woman and you would not want to buy her nice things or do ,say things that will put smiles on her face. I pray never to lack to give and be responsible. I pick the bills or buy nice things even if she is a millionaire. Except I don't have. Can I recieve from a woman? Yes! The best job I had so far in life-a woman gave me the connection. Have recieved gifts too. Giving is living! A woman must cost you something. They are pearls of great value. sorry but that is a load of doggie droppings, if you have to place monetary value for a woman's affection she isn't worth it. True love is priceless, most women would cherish gifts from the heart, now that doesnt mean you cant or shouldnt spend money on her. Gold diggers and materialistic women expects the royal treatment when they have nothing to offer except, well you know. That doesnt mean a guy has to be a cheapskate , meet a girl in a parking lot, take her to lunch at subways with a two for one coupon, go to starbucks and split a oversize frappuccino and expect to go back to her place either. Getting to know someone doesnt require spending a fortune to impress her, most women are impressed with men who have integrity, isnt chasing every skirt in town and doesnt have two nickels to rub together either,and when he gives a gift its a gift from the heart, that is something she cherishes. I couldn't have said it better. |
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The difference is i told the guy I was seeing someone after I dtred with my guy. Men try to get with women while in a relationship. With online dating there are a lot of options. I need to have an espresso , because I need go to to Ferrara's and get some cannolis to have with my espresso. then I can tackle your post. what you just posted made no sense "men try to get with women while in a relationship"?? so let me see If I get this without having an espresso, so when a woman is seeing a guy she can keep men in the friendzone, but men are pigs because they try and get women because online dating has a lot of options? Did I get this, or do I need to make a run to Ferrara to pick up some cannolis because you cant have an espresso without cannolis or sfogliatellas |
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No I'm saying I'm not in a relationship now and I have a lot of options. If i met someone and we decided to have a relationship, I would tell anyone that was trying to date me that I'm off the market. I don't feel like that's stringing someone along. I've never met the guy.
I have an ex tenant that messages me a lot on Facebook. He is married. He tells me things like he is headed home from work and his wife will be gone all day. There is a difference in being friends and trying to get with someone. When I told the guy I was off the market that was his cue to move on. I'm free now and I've never met the guy so I don't know if he has potential. |
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The same guy who keeps every text you texted him
is that proper english Texted?? Anyways I have a client here and I have to make a trip over to Ferrara's after to grab some Cannoli's and sfogliatellas to have with my espresso I have a feeling Im going need a shot of espresso. |
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I just found out he keeps the text yesterday. Some one them are probably not so nice.
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Stl  Where is your pic?
All I have at the moment are nekkid ones. Did you want me to send you one? 
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Do the guys who don't believe in paying for dates also let the woman change the tire when you have a flat? Most guys don't date flat women. 
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until they run out of patches
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A guy I went to school with wanted to date me a few weeks back. He has 4 underage kids. He was one of those who wants the stay at home dates. I just don't want to be strapped to that. Where, exactly, would you like to be strapped? |
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Maybe by bitter, she mean the woman fell for one of the sit at home guys who "loved" her and he turned out to be a cheater. With online dating women get a lot of offers for different things. I think women should only go for guys who are looking to date. Don't bother with the come over type guys. Guys who aren't rich should still be able to find free or cheap things to do. Some guys need to cut back on themselves to afford a date. I think guys troll online for any woman who will cook and have sex with them. Just remember to wear clothing while you're cooking his bacon, my dear. |
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Stl, you are in luck. I have a coupon for subway.
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this is really cool
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My single girlfriend and I were talking the other night. While she's rather bitter towards men, her comment was, that "a girl wants a man that will buy her nice things and take her places".. At my age, I think I agree. Sure... 
And what's in it for me? |
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I like ur honesty and kind heart love u
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