What's wrong with a man buying a woman a gift? I'm not woman hating. Men have different personalities. Some are selfish and only take. Nothing wrong with a woman wanting a man who is generous. Just because she wants a man who is generous, doesn't mean she isn't generous herself. Women telling other women to buy for themselves is crazy. They missed the point of a relationship. Just like at Christmas people could buy their own gifts but that misses the point. Nawty you must be in your neighbors liquor cabinet today.

Feminists do not want equality. They want control. Though a minor political influence part of the news media seem to give them excessive attention.

FWIW, gender discrimination against men has been growing. I've experienced it twice in the last 6 years. This is a side NEVER mentioned in the news. Only if a women has a complaint does it go viral.

All a woman has to do is say she's been discriminated against and companies fall over backwards to resolve things. Whether true or just an accusation to obtain an unqualified position.

Yes, this happened in a previous company I worked for. A man and woman applied for a specific position. One requirement was the ability to lift 50 pounds regularly. The line supervisor (self proclaimed feminist) was a woman and gave the job to the woman. After three days the newly promoted woman complained to the supervisor she was having trouble moving the heavy product. The supervisor ordered the guy who applied for the job to do any heavy lifting ... and this is equality.

and you dont think there are women out there that are also selfish and takes , takes and takes and expects to be taken care of by a man?

Tell me youre not that naive?

Listen to some of the stories from some of these guys who posts they treated their women like a queen, bought them this and that, catered to their every needs and desires and never laid a hand on them or was mean to them and some of these women dropped them and end up with a man who abused and used them.

Care to explain that one?

Bottom line is both genders and Im guessing the other 59 genders have azzholes and good people.

although I cant figure out people who married trees, animals and video games buys their "partner" for christmas, anniversaries,birthdays and other holidays.

What do you buy a tree for valentines, It cant have chocolates right?

no you get it pruning shears

what about christmas?

wedding anniversary?

well christmas is new lights and anniversaries depend on which one after all you wouldn't get a tire swing for the silver anniversary

dorks

come on we all know you are a real fart smeller
this stuff should be easy as falling off a log for you

I like your answer! And I have met a few men who feel the same!

It´s not difficult, just treat each other equally.

From what I've seen guys try to date out of their league. They go overboard with spending and attention. That won't create true feelings. The woman gets bored of the things and move on to a guy who as good-looking as she is for sexual attraction. I have a male friend who continuously tries to date out of his league and complains about women. He doesn't want the average woman who treats him well.

Again, what century is this?

People need to know how to change a tire. Plenty of places without cell service. Plus sitting on the side of the road for an hour is stupid when you can change the tire in 10 minutes. The commercial showed a teenage boy who needed his tired changed for him. When I was a teenager the boys were changing motors etc. Fixing up cameros, chevelles. Society is teaching men to do less and less. It's unattractive when a guy acts feminine.

I had a friend who hired a relative to work on his house. My friend was taking care of their baby while they were working. It was very feminine and unattractive.

This thread is cracking me up

Most of the men I know from the US have been married 1-2 times
do the math, he's left with 25% of his stuff lol you think he's in any mood to cater to anyones needs of going places and nice things dating? not likely, he's still licking his wounds.

If you only date according to what you receive from men/women, it'll be the hardest job you've ever had, keeping up with them might be a problem once they grow tired of YOU. promise

Try changing a tire when you are wearing formal attire.
Better yet, try changing a tire when a physical disability won't allow you to.

I think leagues are based on personal merits

To some leagues are about looks, physique, intelligence,education.
And some socioeconomic status.

I have no idea about your male friend so when you say he tries to date out of his league, it depends on what it is, does it have to do with looks? socioeconomic status?

I have to ask, why is ok for women do go after what they want despite if they are in the guys league or not , but when average guys go after someone who is clearly in the attractive scale and out of his league so to speak he shouldn't do it?

Isnt he going after what he wants?

The guy with the 4 kids who wanted to date me, got the house in the divorce. His wife got the 4 kids and a clunker car. He pays $1200 a month in child support and has a mortgage to pay also. He can't afford to date.