I think people confuse "loving someone" with "loving things about them". I have made the mistake of saying "I love you" but didn't mean that I was "in-love" with him. I think the words are used too often and too loosely. OK, maybe it's something that I need too work on......

That's SAD that you are not polite. Well, something to work on.

Horse drawn carriage.

I usually speak to everyone and have a gift of gab (while making others feel at ease) so I just talk too them, see if I like them AFTER they speak (heehee).

No......if it's true love on both ends....maybe the timing is off; relax and enjoy each others fiendship; the timing may be there later.

Broken......no, just a little bruised.

Be yourself.....Be honest....Be polite....that's a start!

No.....I would NEVER stay with a cheater; once a cheater always a cheater.

It's wrong to Love someone that already has someone! Everyone gets hurt. Where's the sense in it? I don't know, never did understand why people do that.....I mean, please....if the person is 'taken' move on.

NEVER repeat a mistake! That's why it's called a M-I-S-T-A-K-E; cause it was not a good decision made.....heehee!

Who cares if she still "lies"....Just be thankful that you are no longer with her. As long as she's not saying false things about your children; let her lie....pretend that it doesn't bother you at all. People sometimes lie for attention....whether it's negative or positive. She may be looking to see if she can still push your buttons and if so that may be giving her "hope" that you still care for her. If that is NOT the case----let it go. Being Civil doesn't mean you have to even talk to her about anything but the kids. That just means no touching, and acting in an adult manner. Treat her like you would some stranger on the street.....use good manners and smile.

That was so cool! Thanks for sharing.

That there can be someone for you; but the timing is off? And if so, do you think that if it's meant too be, it will be eventually?

I loved the Six Million Dollar Man and the Bionic Woman shows too.

OMG....I was going to write the Dukes of Hazzard......Loved it and I was a teenager when it was on tv. Now I own the DVD's.

That's a good way to view it!

I try to always smile and usually deal with my problems with humor; if at all possible. Why bring people "down" just because I am having issues. My close friends know me and know that I need to deal with my own problems and if I need them, they are there for me. My theory in life is to "Have your pity party and get mad and cry and all of that and then sit down and THINK about it, can you change anything, and if so, pull up your boot straps, suck it up and do what needs to be done!" Wallowing in problems just makes them seem worse!

I AGREE! You are pretty smart; must get that from your older sister! :)

Funny! And yes, I believe that woman tend to like a guy more if there's a little bit of work involved. Woman like to keep a sense of mystery about them and that usually keeps a man more interested. My sister believes that men like her more when she's mean too them and I wouldn't have believed that; but I have seen it and it's true! People are truly amazing! Never boring....just amazing!

Everyone "Judges what they want and what they don't want, in a mate/relationship". This world is all about "what pleases me visibly; I mean isn't that why people view more profiles that have pictures"; the ole adage that says a picture tells a thousand words and all of that....I believe we may be talking apples and oranges here! I am not saying it's wrong or right to decide you only are interested in people that visibly please you....I am saying this man was SMART in saying what he said. Personally, I don't care for 'shallow people' that don't want to even get to know people that don't fit into their mold of what they are physically attracted to. I have met many people of all sizes, shapes and colors and they all have something that is interesting about them. I think many people miss out on some awesome people by judging a bit too much.