Do you ever think that you messed up your one true chance of love? You let it slip through your fingers. The one true person that you found happiness in, is now in the "friend zone" all because you were too blind to see something so true, so real. Something that you have been searching for, for what seems like a life time. Gone, all because you you built up so many walls around your heart, that when the one person that you now find happiness in is now only wanted to be friends.

Do you ever think you mess up your one true chance of love?

no I don't believe there is one chance. I believe love is a choice There are many people in this world many choices

I did....when I was young...I was so obsessed about wanting to provide things I couldn't for my girl....when older guys were offering cars, jobs..nicer things...

I split it off.....to give her a chance for a better life (materialistically speaking)...never got over her.....

18 years later...she tracked me down....Niether of us ever could shake the feeling that we are one.

I don't personally think I've even been given that one chance. But then again, almost anyone could say that nowadays.

yes...at least once a month i get the feeling i fwked up in meeting a good guy..but a lot has to do with timing i have noticed.

if im super busy thats just not a good time to "hit"on me because i am not interested.(this happens for me a lot)

SOMETIMES IT FEELS LIKE THAT. BUT IF IT'S MEANT TO BE, IT WILL HAPPEN.

yes, probably. But you cant change the past. Only hope that you find someone just as special in the future.

I started talking to this guy last September. We talked for awhile. Endless nights included us. We talked for almost 3 months. Things were great. In reality I could not find anything wrong with him. But the fear of getting close to somebody caused me to run. Like I have done so many times before. He tried to contact me a few times but I would never respond. My heart would not allow me to get closer. But as time went on, and memories of our conversation surfaced, I started to miss him. He accidentally set me a message through Yahoo (clicked on the wrong name), I actually responded. It had been about 4 months. And we started talking again. Almost like nothing had changed. Except now I am only in the "friend zone".

easy come easy go

we all have the answers in retrospect, very few of us have the capacity to make the right decisions as it is happening...well, women do more so than men - in my opinion...i think it will be very easy for you to get back into the core zone

roco

I used to think I had a choice. I could chose not to move forward in a relationship, looking for distractions from that feeling, joining multiple 'social sites', doing my best to rationalize away the feeling. It didn't work. The only real choice I have today is how long I'm willing to suffer from this self-induced repression.

I no longer believe love applies to me at all, every possibility failed...any chance from here on out will just be a washed up re-run of the previous attempt.

It might be easier to let it go, honey.

Next!!

I don't think there is only one chance. Love is limitless, it isn't something that ever runs out. While it's true that People often limit themselfs by believing that there is only One true love. You can love a million different people though a million different ways, as we are all unique and have things that make us special. You just have to be open to the possibilities.

Love is a but an emotion. It can be felt or lost within a short breathe. I have been in love once, let it slip away like silk. I shortly realized that its not the love that couldn't be had it was the basic creature comforts that came with "love".

No, I only blew chances of getting l@id

No......if it's true love on both ends....maybe the timing is off; relax and enjoy each others fiendship; the timing may be there later.

No.

I don't think I've missed it.

It was... right person... wrong time, kind of thing.

The right person at the right time will come....

I think the time is finally right... now I am giving it a chance again. I'm more than a little terrified at the idea having to "date" because I don't really "date" well.

I'm a quiet person so chattering and socializing isn't really my forte. I'm more of a "if it clicks" person.

Love is ... wonderful. One person for One person for one lifetime? Miss that train and you never get to ride? never. no. There are so many wonderful people out there... that's why spending the rest of your life with someone is okay. You're not missing anything if you're happy.

Just be smart enough to be happy once you found love.