Topic: Do you believe....
brenlee1965's photo
Sun 02/22/09 12:46 PM
That there can be someone for you; but the timing is off? And if so, do you think that if it's meant too be, it will be eventually?

bgeorge's photo
Sun 02/22/09 12:50 PM
yes i do

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 02/22/09 12:50 PM
At this point I don't believe anything.

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Sun 02/22/09 12:51 PM
"Meant to be" implies that there is someone/something in charge of determining what the "meaning" is ("meaning" requiring some sort of intent or volition on the part of whoever/whatever), and I don't believe in anything like that.

I don't believe there is inherently and necessarily someone for everybody -- or someone for anybody, for that matter. There is luck, circumstance, taking steps in that direction, etc. -- no guarantees, no absolutes. And a lot also depends on what you're looking for and what your standards are....







no photo
Sun 02/22/09 12:51 PM
I hope so....drinks drinkersmokin flowerforyou

ledi180's photo
Sun 02/22/09 12:52 PM
Yes to the first question and no to the 2nd one.

Jess642's photo
Sun 02/22/09 12:54 PM
I have no idea.... and nor do I care.... spending my life in frivolous yearnings, is a time waster.... if a partner appears, so be it.... they may be right for RIGHT NOW....

and if not....?

WHo cares....? There is one person in this body, living.... it is my job to get on with living...not wandering around waiting for some ficticious illusion to appear.

mssilverfox's photo
Sun 02/22/09 12:58 PM
I have always believed I was born at the wrong time, wrong century... just a feeling..

coz1976's photo
Sun 02/22/09 01:16 PM
yeshappy

MeChrissy2's photo
Sun 02/22/09 01:16 PM
Hell, I don't know what I believe anymore.ohwell

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sun 02/22/09 01:17 PM
I'm not sure about this.

irad8you's photo
Sun 02/22/09 01:30 PM
I believe someone needs to pull my finger lol

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Sun 02/22/09 01:33 PM

That there can be someone for you; but the timing is off? And if so, do you think that if it's meant too be, it will be eventually?


Nope. In fact, I'd be willing to say that there ISN'T someone for anybody, as it's all pretty much up to chance... it's all nothing more than a series of random developments that may or may not result in someone finding someone else.

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 02/22/09 02:54 PM

That there can be someone for you; but the timing is off? And if so, do you think that if it's meant too be, it will be eventually?

Absolutely and then there are times when the timing is never right.frustrated

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Sun 02/22/09 03:04 PM
Yes and maybe. I guess over the years I've become too much of a realist to think of *destiny*.