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Is sex all men think about?
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I don't always want sex. A BJ every once in a while will suffice. 
Right on time! It was starting to get all tense up in here. I too would love more insight into the minds of folks. Generally speaking, I am relatively happy, but some good sex and the occasional thrilling conversation would make life near perfect. |
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Is sex all men think about?
Edited by
OkiHeadDoctor
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Thu 01/17/13 10:50 PM
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It seems to me all men want is sex!The amount of men iv,e had that just want sex! well i want more than that! All we want from women is sex. Everything else we can do for ourselves. Why can't women do for themselves? We're all equal, right? Why do women want or need relationships? You Scoundrel = that's deep and I agree! Apologies for the tangent, but I have pondered this for many moons. Men & women are equal, right? Then why... I digress. Everyone have a quick read of Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love by Barbera & Allan Pease. You won't agree with every word, but it'll make you think! I agree with most of the concepts and apologize if I think of you bent over when I first see you. Only after this crappy marriage do I look for more than window-dressing or the promise of of some good, wet lovin. I am a tad-bit wiser now, and do NOT think with the little head too much... |
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The Games Men Play
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Tex, look-out! I think you are treading on that line that will ALWAYS seperate men & women. No one will truly talk about it, but it does exist. I didn't create it, don;t really like it, but I acknowledge it's there. There are "games" coming from both sides, we have all seen most of them, or at least heard about them; case & point: We are supposed to just know what a woman is thinking, and when we don't, we are the bad guy. Women already know what we're primarily about...
 Full stomach/Empty sack!? 
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Why
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Nice. I thought it was complaining about the young, then the old, then technology, then - oh, it's a sweet thing!
Nice. |
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Breaking up...
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he crude irony is this: sometimes you were never a team in the first place so one person is doing the breaking up of a relationship that never really existed. but frankly breaking up is painful..it tugs at your self-esteem and hits hard in the guts...so i agree open honest communication channel is the way to ensure the survival of relationships. PY, you speak the honest truth. I don't think I will EVER be the same; maybe that's a good thing, but it still hurts my pride, my heart, and my soul. |
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Why Lie??
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2FUNNY! The first time I ever saw this was on this site (other section though) - I agree, keep lying out of the equation, good relationships take dedicated work and lying adds to the load! Someone should start a thread on "white lies"... you know that ones that, IMHO, are just as bad but are done "for the good" of someone... |
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The Rejection
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You always ask really good questions! I am with you and whoever said "not interested" - isn't that the right thing to do? Not replying should only be from being too busy with life to reply. In this case, you shouldn't be on here in the first place! I relate it to buying someone a drink; ask may I buy you a drink, and you say either <your poison> or no thank you. You wouldn't just stand there and ignore him/her, so why do it digitally...
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msHarmony, first off - HAPPY NEW YEAR! - secondly, and here I go with that buzz word "perspective" again. I only date Japanese girls so you KNOW when I go to Chicago, I get stink-eye everywhere. At the end of the day, a person is happy with who they are happy with; if it is of the caucasian persuiasion for you, do yo thing and damn everyone that may have a problem with it.
Remember the new addage: You will NEVER be able to please some people any of the time... |
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teebee, you will never know (not soon anywayz) unless you put it out there; go ahead and tell him "I like talking/being with you"
I would think that most mature men would appreciate it. Relationships are too sour of a game for me right now, but I know I would DEFINITELY appreciate a lovely lady like you telling me up front. Games are for the TV & Olympics, leave them OUT of dating. |
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For most people, being flaky is a safeguard to protect against awkward "I am just not into you" conversations.
This I believe to be the closest to the truth. But to me, It still falls under "weirdness" in a lot of people. This is just me, I've talked to and dated a lot of women that I met on another site. I liked them as a person. But I never have met one in all this time that there picture or profile "grabbed" me to the point that I was all that attracted to them. I'll never understand how some folks can be like that with someone over the net. I guess what I am saying is, I never give the impression right off the bat that I think this or that woman is all that much. I wait till I meet her and then draw my conclusions of what I think about her. Most women I have dated I don't even say anything about a second date to her while on the first one. If I call her, I call her, If I don't, I don't. That pretty much takes care of the "not into you" conversation for me. I guess I just don't see any point in being flaky. Honest from the start has always worked for me. But then again, I know how a lot of men are. A lot of them can't take rejection. To me the ones who can't take rejection are not comfortable within themselves. They have to big of an ego. They think they have to have a woman with them or they are not whole. A lot of them are control freaks. Me, If a woman tells me she doesn't want to see me anymore, Or not into me, It's OK. I go get another one. And one other thing, I never go out with a woman expecting anything. Works better for me that way. I like your take on things - thank you! |
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All - I am 41, spent a little time as an instructor, have been all over the world, and I can truthfully tell you that people in general are "weird."
It boils down to a matter of perspective. Where you're from, it may be totally acceptable to pluck you finger up your nose an dig for gold in public. Where I'm from, that is a no-no. I say pick your nose in the bathroom, or somewhere private. Digressing, people usually have a real-life persona, and an online one. Heck, some folks probably have mutliple pesonalites in both places. Don't they call that schizophrenia? Charles, therein lies your answer. |
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I`m from Japan
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What's up dude - you're in Mainland aren't you?
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Okinawa Anyone?
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Fairly new to Mingle squared, and just curios as to if ANYONE is on this little rock with me?
AFF is a little too freaky for me, and I am actually looking to meet new people. I don't go "out" any more so here I am. Is everyone looking for a husband? What happened to just e-meeting someone to mix up the humdrum of everyday life? |
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Great posts people! Thank you for the motivation. HAPPY NEW YEAR and I hope everyone's life (me too please) gets better than last year. However small, Lord please let it be...
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friendship comes first
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Danita - welcome (love your name)
I agree with you wholeheartedly, since the merry-trio must start somewhere. I have always said that in a relationship, you and your other should be: 1. Friends 2. Lovers 3. Boyfriend/Girfriend or Husband/Wife At times, you may pop to one, then pop to another. Other times, it is a merry blend of the three... When one suffers too long however, doom follows. I'm stuck on #3 
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WOULD YOU DATE YOURSELF?
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Interesting question! Yes, I would date me. I wouldn't put up with the way-left-field BS that I sometimes do, but I would be understanding since NO-ONE is anywhere near perfect.
Relationships are about give & take, and much much understanding. Metering that evil pride is a big piece of it as well... |
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HOW TO HEAL A BROKEN HEART
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DEEP. I feel you, and I also empathize with you.
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Question for guys
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Great question! I feel that especially in "this day and age" that women SHOULD let a guy know they are interested - it cuts down on the game-factor that some seem to love - I hate it!
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Being new to this, I have to side with everyone that said if that is what you want to do. I don't WANT to date right now because I still have weird feeelings about relationships in general. If two grown folks can be upright and honest with each other, and let the other know they are dating = I say have at it.
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I never even saw my parents kiss...mom always looked sad in pictures with dad. She divorced him when I was 7. Then it was party time! She sold the house & moved us to Hawai'i. Ms Luna, there goes one of those signs my "know-it-all ***" knew, but didn't see until it was too late. I think we stopped that maybe 4 or 5 years ago...:^{ |
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