I keep coming across bitter and frustrated rants about how some people here have trouble meeting the right person. Everyone is looking for a dreamgirl or Mr. Dreamy. But if you have a triple chin and a sagging chest and don't take time to work on your physical appearance, what makes you believe that Dreamboat will want you, too, Mr. and Ms. Hypocrite? Is it from the grace of your scintillating personality that you expect Perfect Date to overlook your obvious obesity or self-neglect? We live in a physical and material world. Unless you can change this fact, you will have to learn to ADAPT. Work on yourself. Hit the gym. Offer something which is tempting to the eye, not only to the mind and soul. Even unattractive people want attractive mates and there is only so many to go around. I ask you this self-enlightening question. What makes you believe that supermodel or even attractive mate would be interested in you? WOULD YOU DATE YOURSELF?

Edit: For those of you who state that you wouldn't date yourselves in terms of qualities, please tell us why if you dare. This should be interesting. Please don't get cute with the answers about being a man and not wanting to date another man.

would I date myself? oh hell no


now I will go back and read the OP lol.... :)


OK - I did that and it is the silliest OP I have ever read...I don;t know of anyone who complains about any of those things all that often

I don't really care if I meet someone or not. I don't care if someone finds me physically attractive or not. If they do fine, but I would not date someone whose interest in me was purely physical. I really do not like to date.

my physical appearance is really not so bad. when I said I would not date myself? Has naught to do with the physical and everything to do with laziness

I guess my question is...does the OP really feel her own appearance is that superior to justify this wind up thread?

I also want to add that some people also have emotional and mental problems which make for a rocky romance. Unless you seek help for those issues, you will continue to suffer, and make anyone who dates you suffer or hit the road. GET HELP!

As for my first response to this topic, there is the problem right there. Why wouldn't you date yourself?

If The Roles Were Reversed.. Of course I would date myself

But then again for some people looks don't matter much ....Just whats in the heart -__-

I think the better question is who do you think you are?

I don't have any trouble finding a date when I want one. But, I would not date myself. However, I do want someone that has some of the same qualities I have. For example, I don't complain about things and I don't make demands on others.

I wouldnt date me 4 years ago. I have learnt a lot about myself during previous relationships and got to know good and bad about myself. I think that makes me a better person. So even if I am still not perfect now..I think I would date myself if Im a guy. -.-

IamwhoIam.

HELL NO.
i'd **** myself though.

I think it is a good topic :) x
You have to think whether you date yourself so you think about your good and bad qualities in order to decide if there are things you would change or should improve :) x

For those of you who state that you wouldn't date yourselves, please tell us why if you dare. This should be interesting.

i'm a crazy *****.

I wouldn't date myself because I'm a masculine man. I want to date a feminine woman. There is nothing wrong with masculine women, I just have no interest in dating them.

Interesting question! Yes, I would date me. I wouldn't put up with the way-left-field BS that I sometimes do, but I would be understanding since NO-ONE is anywhere near perfect.

Relationships are about give & take, and much much understanding. Metering that evil pride is a big piece of it as well...

why on earth would i date my self when the world is full of love,atraction,romace by difrent kind of spirit.a man is made to love a woman,why also a woman is made to love a man that attraction is there for the both human.

I am currently under construction. Probably not. Then I see faults in myself that some may not notice since I live with myself 24/7. I always hope that any woman who would give me a chance will see past those faults. Nice thing about failure on Mingle is that now improving myself is a much higher priority. Now I am not putting them off. As for an attractive mate, well I rather date a plain Jane. Always remember a quote about Kennedy the second wife of Scarlett in "Gone With the Wind", He wanted a canary, when he would have been better off with a wren. Seriously I would rather have a girl that sticks around than a supermodel who does not.

Nope,probably not!
Not sure we'd get along!

In dating myself "No"but in myself there are similar qualities i'm looking for in a Woman!I may not be the last Boyscout out there and that's a problem i'm facing with women,most Girlscout types are facing the same with what cyberspace now provides!All anyone on here has,is a picture and intro.to go by.Nobody can see"or don't want to see the person within!"all you can do is hope and keep trying to find that special one!Variety is good but in a carbon copy of yourself where would be the fun?Then boredom would take over!

I'm already dating myself and we are having a great time......