Relationships are way too much work. I work hard at my job, working with the military, and upkeeping my house so I have little time left to stroke a man's ego as its more like babysitting.

id be worried if a man didnt think about sex or want it.. an remember there are women that think an want it just as much...

I agree with what you say; but there are still some very old fashion attitudes out there by men. Some still think women need to be protected, men should be the sole provider, men need to buy women gifts, pay for meals, men should be head of the household, etc. This kind of thinking along with a thinking less of a woman that has sex on a first date has been ingrained in men for years. There are a few men that can see these old fashioned ideas are out dated but the majority still think that way. I can only go from my own experience of course but this has been the case with me. My friends say I am an Enigma. Me, I just see it as being able to live my life the way I want without society telling me how to act or how to behave around men. As Sage put it; I march to the beat of my own drum and essentially have become an outcast to society as I don't fit in the role that I should play as a woman. Very few can think outside the box; question traditions; or even question the gender roles. So; until society opens up their minds; men will not consider a relationship with a woman that has sex on the first date. It just is what it is.

teens all the way

they are tighter.




and struggle less

Don't you just hate it, when excuses are made for someone having an affair? "We're only human". Yes, so we are, but you wouldn't be so lax about it, if it was someone murdering someone. Hard to trust the same person who tarnished your trust. Better to save all your efforts for someone you COULD trust. Jmho.

since I live more off of emotion than logic I can cry very easy, I care about people that dont even care about me. yep Im a cryer really bad. its all good Im proud of it. it feels good to let emotions go.

a man who invests time and effort to attract a woman is in it for the long haul, because he won't waste time and effort on a woman he won't stay with. if a man is out for the thrill of the chase he is not going to use a lot of time or effort per woman. i guess it could be some sort of ego boost to find woman that are willing to give so much of themselves, but once she gives everything she has to give, the thrill is gone.
personally, i have found that sex with any woman is the same, UNLESS emotions are involved. when a man loves a woman, sex becomes intimacy. i guarantee i guarantee that a man who becomes intimate with a woman is not going to hit it and quit it

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

This was a question in a list of questions in another thread, but it made me wonder.


Who would you stand by if married, or as the question stated:

-If you are married, who would you honor first: your spouse or your friends or your parents or your children (if applicable)?



I must say my spouse, children, family and friends. How would you rate them?