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Topic: Question for guys
InlineBabe Joined Tue 12/25/12 Posts: 14	Tue 12/25/12 08:59 PM
Is it a turn off if a girl talks to you first or texts or calls you first? ~Hopelessly Aggressive Female :'(

WadePitchford Joined Tue 12/25/12 Posts: 1	Tue 12/25/12 10:48 PM
Quite honestly in my opinion we live in a world where it shouldn't matter who says what first ... As a male I wouldn't mind at all if a female messaged me first because then there is a launching pad for both to start chatting and finding out about each other

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Tue 12/25/12 11:23 PM
Actually I like that better because I know she's interested.

OkiHeadDoctor Joined Wed 12/19/12 Posts: 103	Wed 12/26/12 12:21 AM
Great question! I feel that especially in "this day and age" that women SHOULD let a guy know they are interested - it cuts down on the game-factor that some seem to love - I hate it!

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Wed 12/26/12 02:16 AM
It can become a turn off if she becomes a creepy stalker.

Cracker813 Joined Sun 10/16/11 Posts: 218	Wed 12/26/12 02:21 AM
Your kidding right? NO! if a lady makes a first move that would be awesome. Especially if she is attractive. That would be the biggest boost to a guy's ego. A guy can like a lady say no. This is 2013, well almost, not 1950.

sloweyn2 Joined Sat 12/15/12 Posts: 20	Thu 12/27/12 12:36 PM
In this day and age.. males and females should be able to show their interest in each other simply by making the first move. I dont think women who do make the first move should be judged in any way... they are just showing that they are interested!! So if any females reading this message wanna show me their interest.. go on ahead!! :)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/27/12 12:49 PM
I think most guys these days are fine with women making the first move.

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Thu 12/27/12 02:00 PM
In what world does that happen? I mean don't get me wrong, I'd be all for it, but I just don't see it happening.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 12/27/12 02:08 PM
Not as much as when they f*in' run away.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Thu 12/27/12 02:27 PM Edited by TexasScoundrel on Thu 12/27/12 02:28 PM
In what world does that happen? I mean don't get me wrong, I'd be all for it, but I just don't see it happening. Really? I get it fairly often. The trick is to go where the hot chicks hang out, sit near them, but ignore them. It helps to have something to keep you busy. Like some kind of paperwork.

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