Actually, I'm anything but "Gentlemanly". I'm, well i've learned alterative ways to attract women so I just fell back and didn't hit on her like every other chump does and said things to her like "your not my type" or "you remind me of my kid sister" to disqualify myself. And people really do take what I say out of context. She IS stuck up a little but you perception of why, isn't how I know this. Like I said, she has NEVER been stuck up towards me and who knows how she feels about me? Even if she did like me, I've given her every reason NOT to tell me.

lol, Yeah, I wanna tap the hot girl but she doesn't know that(she probably thinks I'm gay) and neither does anyone that knows me. I've never hit on her and I always tell people "no, we're just friends'. I'm not "mad", that aspect of it has nothing to do with this post

She is stuck up. I imagine it's hard not to be when you look like that and every guy you see hits on you but she's never acted stuck up toward me. I'm still interested in her because there just isn't anyone else I've ever met like that. It's strange going into a club and the only girl you're interested in is the one you went with...

I don't have a pic but trust me on this; any bar we go to? She is the hottest one there. I'd sell my soul to have sex with that girl...

she texted me tonight about something and I was kind of rude. I don't understand why someone who is supposedly so close to me would completely blow me off for a whole weekend let alone pretty much a week.

lol yea she's one of those girls that is a perfect 10 and KNOWS it.

I have nowhere else to post this so I mind as well just let it out on here. I moved down the hall to my friend's ex-gf (not because of her, because he lived there at the time) and became really, really good friends with her but the last week or so she has completely blown me off and ignored me like I don't exist. Her friends still call me but I haven't heard from her in forever and we used to talk every day or see each other every day. I don't know what happened. I kicked my roommate out but I had every reason to and she thought he was disgusting anyway. I guess it's worth mentioning that this girl and I relate like I have with no one else and are on the same level so (and I won't even get into her killer looks) so I totally fell in love with her. Maybe she figured it out(?), maybe she's just even more stuck up than I thought she was but something has seriously changed and I don't know what it is. This woman was my best friend. What would make her completely and utterly act as if I'm the scum of the earth??? I rarely admit this but I'm seriously hurt and it's her friendship I miss most, not my attraction to her

don't tempt me, I'm already dying to do just that.

because I'm not sure she knows what she wants...like I said there is something between us and he sees me as a threat and vice-versa

RIGHT???? LOL

I'm definitely not a "nice guy" though lol. I'm probably worse than this kid. It's just that I look like one...

Ok, I REALLY like this girl. She is beautiful, intelligent, well spoken, and well dressed. However, I've known her for 3 years and at one point she was my best friends girl. That is long over but now she seeing some scum thug with more tatoos than I've ever seen(no offense to anyone unless they got the girl that I want) including on his face and neck. This kid is straight white trash. He hates me and I hate him. She likes bad boys. Thing is, I'm more of a bad boy than this dude. All she has to do is ask her x-bf. See, I don't have a single tatoo and I dress like preppy I guess? I've tried to tell her that she's better than that but she won't listen. There is something between us but it's hard to define...I guess I should just let it go but I still think at the end of the day I'll be the last man standing. Any opinions esp. from women?

I never meant for this to happen, I swear that I didn't. I moved into an apt. down the hall from my friend's (I guess he is) hot x-gf and we started hanging out and talking so without trying I totally fell for her. Now I'm all twisted because we haven't talked in days even though she lives 4 doors down and we'd been (at least) talking everyday. I mean, that kid has become a hopeless heroin addict and I don't even know him anymore and she put him back in jail. He robbed her, depleted her bank acct., all that ****. I had tried to talk to him but it did no good. I just don't know what to do about this girl. If I could just forget about her I would...I just don't know.

I agree but part of it was I felt like I could "save" her or something stupid.

She's already gotten pregnant and dumped twice.lol And I've never been a sucker and I never will.

lol, def. awesome man!! she's on her way (2 kids with 2 different dad's and a little weight gain)

you don't know me bro and that's pretty damn ignorant to tell someone who's seeking an answer that they're pathetic. If you didn't have anything helpful to say, then maybe you should've just moved on. And the reason it matters is partly because I'm a man with pride and partly because I still love her and now that she's single I wanted to talk to her.

Oh. No, I'm not perfect by a long shot lol but that had little to do with the drama; I tried to work with her because I really wanted it to work out. look up the characteristics of a person with bpd and you'll get it

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT MAN????

hope you have better luck than me lol! Welcome