Ok, I REALLY like this girl. She is beautiful, intelligent, well spoken, and well dressed. However, I've known her for 3 years and at one point she was my best friends girl. That is long over but now she seeing some scum thug with more tatoos than I've ever seen(no offense to anyone unless they got the girl that I want) including on his face and neck. This kid is straight white trash. He hates me and I hate him. She likes bad boys. Thing is, I'm more of a bad boy than this dude. All she has to do is ask her x-bf. See, I don't have a single tatoo and I dress like preppy I guess? I've tried to tell her that she's better than that but she won't listen. There is something between us but it's hard to define...I guess I should just let it go but I still think at the end of the day I'll be the last man standing. Any opinions esp. from women?

there is no guarantee that loving someone will make them love you back

sounds like you're just SOL

Just be yourself.

I think you should just let it got and date me instead.

wow..all i can say is...women are drawn to bad boys...we all are. not sure why. However bad boys don't stick around. give it time, stand in the distance, when he hurts her she will come running. Then you can show her that although good guys may come in last, they are far better for her.

you could do a lot worse

yo dogg throw on some, bagggy jeams toss on the NY hat, **** it to the side

actually hold that thou, nevermind,

Or you could get a tattoo on your neck. One that says "I'm a loser. Please don't hire me. Ever."...in Chinese.

Or a lot better...depending on how you look at it.

"your a nice guy and everything but i don't want to mess up our friendship".....or maybe the guy is great in bed.who knows. like "quiet"typed your SOL.

I'm definitely not a "nice guy" though lol. I'm probably worse than this kid. It's just that I look like one...

RIGHT???? LOL

your best shot is to find another girl and let the first girl see what she's missing. then she may rethink her decision.

but in all honesty, why waste your time with someone who doesn't want to be with you?


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Just be you...If she doesn't like who you are, she isn't really worth putting your life on hold for...

When in doubt whip it out

Yes, it's time to show her the dancing banana.

because I'm not sure she knows what she wants...like I said there is something between us and he sees me as a threat and vice-versa

Then show how much of a bad boy you are and just whip the dudes ass.

That should get the point across nicely.

don't tempt me, I'm already dying to do just that.

you said you hate this dude, and he hates you right? well, then don't whip is ass, but do some stuff to impress this chick. Tell her how you feel, and don't be shy. Don't badmouth this guy, just show her what your all about. Who cares what he thinks..you hate him. I have had people steal someone out from under my nose. Not saying its right, it kinda hurt, but that stuff happens all the time.