I have nowhere else to post this so I mind as well just let it out on here. I moved down the hall to my friend's ex-gf (not because of her, because he lived there at the time) and became really, really good friends with her but the last week or so she has completely blown me off and ignored me like I don't exist. Her friends still call me but I haven't heard from her in forever and we used to talk every day or see each other every day. I don't know what happened. I kicked my roommate out but I had every reason to and she thought he was disgusting anyway. I guess it's worth mentioning that this girl and I relate like I have with no one else and are on the same level so (and I won't even get into her killer looks) so I totally fell in love with her. Maybe she figured it out(?), maybe she's just even more stuck up than I thought she was but something has seriously changed and I don't know what it is. This woman was my best friend. What would make her completely and utterly act as if I'm the scum of the earth??? I rarely admit this but I'm seriously hurt and it's her friendship I miss most, not my attraction to her

If you related so well with her why don't you just ask her? Stop wasting your time - life goes by way too fast....

Kick her (or your feelings for her)to the curb.Its girls like her that make all women look bad.

Don't get so worried about...Yeah she might be on your mind alot but.You can't forget about what You have to do...She might be taking a lil time alone cause she is also scared or feeling the same....Or her and your ex roomate are having fun

Sounds like you just got manipulated bro

Nothing will help this until you talk to her and find out the deal.. I mean choices are.. she had her time with you and now she is through.. she noticed you were falling for her more than she liked and backed away.. maybe she ended up liking you as well and is mixed with the feelings about it.. possibilities are endless with this situation... Giver her some time.. if she does not come around ask to talk with her one last time.. to only simply ask what got up her ass and died between you two... if she is not willing to give you that respect... blow her a$$ out the water and forget about it..

i just couldn't get passed the "maybe she's just even more stuck up than I thought she was"...

If you are willing to commit to 'friends only' then talk to her and tell her that you value the friendship and want to know what's up.

If you're still hoping for more, then don't react to this. Go about your business and even see other women. If she's interested, she will let you know.

lol yea she's one of those girls that is a perfect 10 and KNOWS it.

im callin your bluff post a pic...will be the judge of that

she texted me tonight about something and I was kind of rude. I don't understand why someone who is supposedly so close to me would completely blow me off for a whole weekend let alone pretty much a week.

I don't have a pic but trust me on this; any bar we go to? She is the hottest one there. I'd sell my soul to have sex with that girl...

Give her best friend the sex she's dreamed of and see what happens

how you not gonna have a pic of the girl your in love with

Overthinking this a bit much? Maybe she needed space, or perhaps she had plans, or her dog was hit by a speeding train, or she had a killer job interview, or...etc...etc.

How about we all just buck up and ask the person whom we are questioning in the first place?

best way to find out what is wrong might be to simply ask her.

She is do'ing someone, and it ain't you.

What I can't figure out is, if you think she is stuck up or stuck on herself (however you want to put it) AND you feel like she is blowing you off like you are the scum of the earth AND when she finally did get in touch with you, you treated her rudely (your words), why are you still interested in her?

She is stuck up. I imagine it's hard not to be when you look like that and every guy you see hits on you but she's never acted stuck up toward me. I'm still interested in her because there just isn't anyone else I've ever met like that. It's strange going into a club and the only girl you're interested in is the one you went with...