And its nice that he pays for me because I know he doesn't have a lot of money - he's having trouble finding a job in broadcasting which is what he went to school for.

He also has told me that he's done more with me than any other girl he hangs out with. He never cuddles with him, holds hands, hugs, etc. The most we've done is I've given him handjobs and he's played with my boobs.

Isn't it sad that in our society a 23 yr old man who chooses celibacy (maybe even til marriage) is seen as the "odd man out" .. that it's looked at as 'weird' or 'strange'

I have 3 nephews who all waited until marriage to have relations with their wives. I am very proud of them.

My older son is planning on doing the same. He is saving intimacy for the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with. He doesn't want to be in a 'relationship' until he is serious about someone.

Your guy sounds like he's got it together, is compassionate and caring.

That should never be a negative.

I was referring to society in general. People have lost their integrity these days.

It used to be that someone's word was binding. Today, people use lingo like 'I swear' (and much worse) as if it meant nothing, and still they can't be trusted. People have lost their integrity.

I was out the other night and met a woman who was built beautifully; she had the body of a 20 year old gymnist but she is 44!!! I'm 29, but I don't care about our age difference and I hope she doesn't either.

That would never cross my mind when meeting someone. I'm not so negative as that, plus I do not believe in talking about exes in depth until together for at least a month.

Wow.

I believe cheating comes out of selfishness.

When cheating you put the health/life of your partner at risk for your own fulfillment.

Cheating, rather than doing the difficult thing of talking to your partner about what is bothering you, is taking the "easy-way-out" of dealing with the real issues.

When you cheat, it's all about you, you don't think at all about how this will effect other people in your life, your friends, family, parter, children...the person you are cheating with - especially if you lie to that person saying you are single.

I think cheating comes from people that aren't happy with themselves. All of the 'excuses' that you listed come from people not being happy with themselves. I know that being happy with yourself, is a lot harder at times than it seems. But if you are happy with yourself, have good communication in a relationship, and build a strong relationship before marriage than these problems would lead to divorce quite as often.

if the galaxie be one big galaxie, that if ONE star falls from the sky, changes EVERTHING......

if one seeks to understand why each star does what it does, how to support or help each star to find the truth of their own existence, the only true love, and the purpose each one is created for, as ALL stars effect the picture, and purpose of the galaxie, so EACH ONE the other, then what star seeking wisdom look at another and think "you are a LESS STAR, your opinion or truth not worth much, as you seem to not have not MY good purpose, nor my good GREAT VISION, perhaps even you are a "blinded" star, and are simple minded, and double minded, one of those "evil" stars i heard about, as you cannot see my BIG PICTURE, lol.........

it seems nothing can be added to oneself unless one actually sees what "feeling" inside KEEP one from being added to, as then this "feeling" is recognized as a thief, as a only a "false friend" of partial self condidence, a comforter, that causes misery from lack of always seeing MORE, and learning more, increasing the picture of wisdom larger each day until......what, does wisdom ever stop teaching any......

it seems it is at first thought so, lol........

this "feeling" seen rather as the enemy of one's own self, that cause all unhappiness, and all grief, identified allow perception to increase, as nothing can truly be "alive with passion" unless it is forever learning each second, and sucking in wisdom, rather then observations which are thought to be wisdom......

the sucking in of observations, ideas of the mind, creating dreams of ambition, pleasure for a time with some passion, does indeed propel each being as purposed for a spell, until knowledge of simple observations has run it's course, and there is no longer any passion which creates energy for wants.....

then one comes to the time they truly need to identify the enemy of themself, and what has stolen all the things loved along the way, and then wisdom of understanding propel the heart and mind together, and not just the mind of observations, that has left the heart long ago back on the road in the dust of simple observations.........