I was married for 19 years to what I thought was the love of my life. I have always been faithful. I forgave and moved forward together. Now, we are separated. I have two lovely beautiful (half white/ half chinese) girls age 14 and 12. They are very good girls (almost young ladies) and do very well in school. We had raised them well, beautiful on the outside and kind on the inside. We were teaching our girls with "Growing Kids God's Way". Great program and got me closer to God. My kids reflect what kind of person I am... very thoughtful, honest, caring and kind. Ex got the house. I got the other house. I am a Christian. I am also a Liberal Christian. Which means I am not a legalist, I don't judge others, I respect others' belief, and I can sit next to someone and just listen without trying to convert anyone. I like a good conversation. I like watching True Blood, Dexter and The Daily Show. That is all I have time for... and each season are almost 6 months apart. I have a Border Collie, that I bike with a mile and a half every morning. I don't eat fast foods. My eyes are Brown, I am 5 feet 11, funny, outgoing, positive, and athletic. I play racquetball and love to cook. I like making myself better. I am into self-improvements. Currently, Audiobook I am listening to is Ekhart Tolle (meditation and quieting the mind), next author is Abraham Hicks. Other audiobooks I have listened to are: Bryant Tracy, Tony Robins, Robert Kyosaki (Rich Dad Poor Dad), David Deida, Napoleon Hill, Dale Carnige, and others. I like that my life and how I feel about it getting better everyday. I know where I am going and I am walking the path. I like to workout, it is important to me. I am very appreciative and Thankful man. I don't take things for granted. I am thankful for the 19 years marriage I had, but it is time to move on and have a new appreciation in my life. Please understand, I don't want to repeat past mistakes. I really really just want to get to know who you are (and hope you are at the same point in your life), over a cup of coffee or tea. I am also very busy with work. I work approximately 60 to 70 hours a week. Some one who isn't very needy with Sunday off would be ideal for me. Someone in nursing or sales who understand having a busy work schedule. I also prefer someone who has the perspective and understanding of cultural difference, someone who lived in a foreign country for a few years are more likely to appreciate this country than most. ie. Missionaries. I like playing softball. I go to HS football games (daughter in Color guard). I am in a Fantasy Football league. I go to a Baptist Church (I am not Baptist, I like the youth program for my kids). I am 42 years old. We are all older and wiser, and have experienced failed relationship first hand. Let's do it right and get to know each other and see if there is a match. And if not, let's move on and wish each other luck. In one of my homegroup, We studied "Love, Sex and Long Lasting Relationship" by Chip Ingram. Yes, sex would get in the way of our judgement for each other, by mixing in emotions and confusion. I just want love that will last a lifetime. I love sex, what man doesn't. I know I keep updating... I like writing my thoughts... I just hate having to delete what I had written last time. 09/20/11 Update: I love family. I want to built(with someone special)love that will last a lifetime. Yes, New Love is a great feeling and it has to transform to lifetime love. Still holding hands with each other and watching the grandkids going thru their life stages. Someone who is wise and mature and understanding is who I want to partner with for life. I love dancing, but not into the club scene or party girls. My Favorite song "Somebody" By Depeche Mode I want somebody to share Share the rest of my life Share my innermost thoughts Know my intimate details Someone who'll stand by my side And give me support And in return She'll get my support She will listen to me When I want to speak About the world we live in And life in general Though my views may be wrong They may even be perverted She'll hear me out And won't easily be converted To my way of thinking In fact she'll often disagree But at the end of it all She will understand me I want somebody who cares For me pionately With every thought and With every breath Someone who'll help me see things In a different light All the things I detest I will almost like I don't want to be tied To anyone's strings I'm carefully trying to steer clear of Those things But when I'm asleep I want somebody Who will put their arms around me And kiss me tenderly Though things like this Make me sick In a case like this I'll get away with it