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Let's Talk About Dreams
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Is anybody interested in talking about dreams? I find them fascinating. My first dream documentation goes back to 1987. I have it all scribbled down in a book. Sometimes I go over them and notice a theme that repeats itself in different scenarios. According to Jung we dream every night, even if we don't remember some or all of our dreams. What is the last dream that you recall? you can actually have a thousands of dreams a nite and not be able to remember any or just one or two i havent really had any dreams lately but i have had a number of dreams that have came true within a matter of a few days up through 4yrs there was a guy i met before i had met my daughter dad and we met up a few after my daughter was born but we just stayed friends he moved to az and didnt hear anything upon that while i was pg with my son i had a dream about that guy and he was telling me that he was living in az in a brand new apt with a swimming pool and that was the end of the dream well 4yrs later i ran into him as he had been back in town a yr which i didnt know and he told me the same exact thing that he had told me in my dream we had gotten together shortly after and we were together for 3yrs we had broken up and i had a dream that he was telling me he was engaged and told me her name and last i woke up called him and he had no clu who she was and he was not engaged i got to work later. and the time clock was also a credit card menu for the customers i noticed right before i clock in the same last name that was in my dream was on the machine. i should had went into the bar area but i didnt..(how strange is that) i had a dream that my daughter was pg with her 2nd child 3weeks before i had ask her and she said no. she called me 3weeks later and ask me to buy her a carseat she confirm she was pg.... i had a dream about my daughter house getting broken into and it actually happen the very next day i even described the kids and she knew them not to long ago i had a dream which i really didnt understand untill my daughter mention it for i kept seeing something to do with her bf and the door and the mention of money and i dont know why but my ex hubby was mention.. strange as to find out her bf was outside and going through the door to get something. while in the mean time she had left her purse in the car... her bf cousin or someone that was in the car stole some money out of her purse Thanks for sharing. I'm not sure why some people are able to see things happen in dreams before they happen. It's not very common. Consider yourself lucky. |
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That is funny.
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Online dating is hard
Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Mon 08/22/11 11:41 PM
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Yes, online dating is hard. You're absolutely right. How about support groups? A dance class?
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Topic:
Let's Talk About Dreams
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Is anybody interested in talking about dreams? I find them fascinating. My first dream documentation goes back to 1987. I have it all scribbled down in a book. Sometimes I go over them and notice a theme that repeats itself in different scenarios.
According to Jung we dream every night, even if we don't remember some or all of our dreams. What is the last dream that you recall? |
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hi friends
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Hi all friends, Am karthik from porur chennai. Am new here and like to get a girl friend. Think i will get one from this site. Thanks karthik But you will probably first need to put up a picture and get her permission before you take her, right? Welcome. |
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Divorce
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Been separated for a year and a half, the divorce will be final in a a month. I surrendered to the fact this marriage was not going to work some time ago, but as the day to finalizing this marriage nears I am feeling more lost and empty. I had not really felt sadness like I have been lately, I am sure this is a natural process I must go through. Just me thinking and thought I would put it out there to some of you that have already gone through this similar life changing event. Yes, I know what that's like. For me personally it was great to self reflect and be on my own. |
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Thanks for sharing. It sounds like not everybody dislikes it and I hear that.
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What do women want?
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omg...why is this all directed at women only may I ask? Do you know how many train wrecks I have met in my lifetime? Lots !!!!!!!!! male and female.... I see no difference between gender I really do not. There are just as many men as women who do not know what they want in life and play head games and are completely insane train wrecks. Tell me about it. I try to ignore these type of posts but there are so many. How can anyone group a gender as if there is a standard formula? |
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Reply Me Please !
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Which Is The Best Way To Get Rid Of Depression ? I'm confused. Your profile says you're from Italy. How come you don't speak the language if you're from Reggio Emilia, Emilia-Romagna? If we knew more about your situation we would have a better understanding of what's going on. Being in a place without knowing the language can be very isolating, of course. |
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Chronic pain
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Feldenkrais (aka Somatic Education). I'm not sure I can describe it well-google it for more info, but basically it teaches you to be aware of your movements and body postures that worsen pain. Many times we react to pain by moving in a different way to protect that area/prevent pain to that body part and thereby cause other problems or worsen the existing problems. If there is a class nearby, I recommend taking it. I was very skeptical going into it, but have to admit it helped quite a bit. This may relate to what Motowndowntown was talking about. If the person he lived with made him feel defensive and stressed all the time, his body posture probably reflected that and caused health issues. I know for me, my pain was at its worst when I felt emotionally the lowest. Back to the original subject. I have never taken Feldenkreis but when I read about it I realized that I was practicing some of those movements already on my own without knowing. It's all about awareness. Would love to take a class anyway when I can afford it. |
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Chronic pain
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I've lived with chronic pain since 1975. You learn to live with it or you die. I also lived with a chronic P.I.T.A. for five years. Once I dumped all her crap on the front lawn the pain miraculously went away. Wow, you sound really happy. I am now. Great. What's your point? |
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Chronic pain
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I've lived with chronic pain since 1975. You learn to live with it or you die. I also lived with a chronic P.I.T.A. for five years. Once I dumped all her crap on the front lawn the pain miraculously went away. Wow, you sound really happy. |
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Questions in emails
Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Fri 08/19/11 10:21 PM
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When I get emails from new guys, the emails tend to be full of the same questions. "Why are you single?" "How long have you been here?" "How long have you been single?" Those are just a few of the questions that are asked by most. I'm sure I'm not the only one who gets them either. Do you ask these types of questions when you email new people? What other questions do you see over and over? I never get these questions, nor do I ask them. If I write at all I usually write something sincere but I never get a reply. Sometimes I'll get "Do you like younger men?" And I think to myself, "not anymore!" :) |
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Chronic pain
Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Fri 08/19/11 09:34 PM
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I was injured in 2006 when I had a really bad fall and have chronic pain. If you have it, how do you deal with it? you sound like a lovely lady. the treatment method for chronic pain is a very individual (personal) approach considering MANY, MANY factors. i only surround myself with positive, sincere, nonjudgmental, and compassionate people as much as possible. for my situation i use tramadol, swim, live healthy, reduce stress and pace myself. the most beneficial thing has been research and education, which enabled me to take responsibility for my treatment choices by making expert/informed decisions. Oh, and I try to laugh at least once a day. :) |
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Past Pain
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There is something very comforting when a friend just listens to you and validates your experience. Sharing someones pain by just being there for them, a place they can go to where they won't be judged or receive suggestion can relieve some of the pressure from overwhelming situations, which can help the person gain new perspectives and help them cope better.
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I don't think men hate most women. But I know what you mean. Relationships are difficult for many reasons and also, individuals are more than just their gender.
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I get the giggles....and imagine someone with oily hair slicked back, and a pimp moustache from the 1970's....sans stretch jersey shirt undone to the navel, and lots of gaudy gold bling... it's the funniest line...smoooooth....and sooooo not sexy.... I'm with you! LOL |
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Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Thu 08/18/11 08:51 AM
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How do women feel when men use “Hi Ladies” as an opening in their profile or in the forums? For me it’s very impersonal and a huge turn off. Can anyone relate? Any thoughts? I’m not trying to criticize anyone. It’s just that I see men use this opener frequently and it evokes such negative feelings in me. well I guess it depends on what he is looking for. I do not recall seeing that remark on the profiles I've visited (and it has been several months since I've read a profile), so it may be the kinds of men u are viewing (maybe?) or maybe I just haven't noticed.... but to me it would imply someone who was a player basically - talking to multiple women - which most do anyway But yes, it would not seem like he was looking for one partner. So he could also be turning off the kinds of women he is seeking if he is looking for a monogamous partner Yes, I agree. |
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What do you prefer being called then? I put a title "For the ladies" on one of the jokes I posted, didn't realize it caused so much angst (anxiety?)! 
It hasn’t caused any anxiety. I also am very accepting of the variety of reasons why people are here and what they are looking for. However, I don’t believe that ALL men who group women by using the plural form of language are actually looking for multiple relationships. Yet when that language is used their intentions could be easily misunderstood. If your wish is to address all women with your message, by all means go for it. It’s public, we already know that many people are reading it. I was pointing out that individualized messages might be more effective when men and women are looking for a monogamous/serious relationships. |
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I don't think pictures are more important to males than females vise versa. It's important because without one we have nothing visual to attach the information to.
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