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Topic: what do men hate most in women
Noella101's photo
Mon 07/18/11 01:12 PM
1. Not Sticking to Agreements

When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is.

2. Keeping Their Feelings

It's stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds.

3. Try to Change Their Men

Women often understand men but don't agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.

4. Mate Comparison

Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable.

5. Belittling His Hobbies

Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn't like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than is and that's not the message you should be sending.

6. Gossiping

While it would seem to stroke the man's ego, men don't like women gossiping about them, whether it's good or bad. It doesn't matter.

7. Nagging

Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it's with good intentions.

8. Interruption

Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it's best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension between the both of you.

9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented

Men like to get to the bottom of things so don't get upset if they don't want to talk for hours about a particular subject.

10. Beauty Conscious

Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does.

11. Paranoia

Men don't like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn't like the way you look, they wouldn't be with you.

12. Insecure/Jealously

Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much.


mightymoe's photo
Mon 07/18/11 01:23 PM
any of those to me is tolerable, as long as it's not every hour thing... the one thing that really bothers me about a woman would be a bad attitude.. the most beautiful woman can be very ugly with a bad attitude, and the less pretty woman can be the most beautiful with a good attitude... everyone will have a hangup or two, and that is overcomable, but people with a nasty disposition is not...

Totage's photo
Mon 07/18/11 01:24 PM
what do men hate most in women


Long lists. :tongue: just kidding

Noella101's photo
Mon 07/18/11 01:24 PM

any of those to me is tolerable, as long as it's not every hour thing... the one thing that really bothers me about a woman would be a bad attitude.. the most beautiful woman can be very ugly with a bad attitude, and the less pretty woman can be the most beautiful with a good attitude... everyone will have a hangup or two, and that is overcomable, but people with a nasty disposition is not...

yes i know but if you have anything to add to what men hate the most please do so

mightymoe's photo
Mon 07/18/11 01:28 PM


any of those to me is tolerable, as long as it's not every hour thing... the one thing that really bothers me about a woman would be a bad attitude.. the most beautiful woman can be very ugly with a bad attitude, and the less pretty woman can be the most beautiful with a good attitude... everyone will have a hangup or two, and that is overcomable, but people with a nasty disposition is not...

yes i know but if you have anything to add to what men hate the most please do so


for me, it is just being a general bytch...if a woman is nice to be around, i can be with her, but if she is whining all the time, barking at the waiter, trying to start problems were there really isn't a problem, i would have to say goodbye... i guess it boils down to if she is happy with life or not....

Noella101's photo
Mon 07/18/11 01:30 PM
ok well agreed

but i know there is alot more out there i would throw some more out there but i want men to be able to post what they hate too

A2loner's photo
Mon 07/18/11 03:56 PM
Stretch Marks, I hate nothing more then when a women gets naked and she has stretch marks all over...explode explode frustrated

ujGearhead's photo
Mon 07/18/11 03:58 PM
When they have a bigger mustache than I do.....

Noella101's photo
Mon 07/18/11 04:18 PM

Stretch Marks, I hate nothing more then when a women gets naked and she has stretch marks all over...explode explode frustrated

well then you would be talkin about yourself to because men get streach marks as well and theres nothing you can do to stop them

ujGearhead's photo
Mon 07/18/11 04:21 PM


Stretch Marks, I hate nothing more then when a women gets naked and she has stretch marks all over...explode explode frustrated

well then you would be talkin about yourself to because men get streach marks as well and theres nothing you can do to stop them


I don't have any stretch marks.

BTW, I've heard that you can use cocoa butter to prevent stretch marks.........

Noella101's photo
Mon 07/18/11 04:28 PM



Stretch Marks, I hate nothing more then when a women gets naked and she has stretch marks all over...explode explode frustrated

well then you would be talkin about yourself to because men get streach marks as well and theres nothing you can do to stop them


I don't have any stretch marks.

BTW, I've heard that you can use cocoa butter to prevent stretch marks.........

coco butter dont work it only works for some ppl i use coco butter n shea butter baby oil n that isnt doin any good but i do get darker using it n i even though im already nice n soft n smooth it helps out but ya im still lookin for the right thing to make streach marks go away but thats really hard to do

Dragoness's photo
Mon 07/18/11 04:47 PM

When they have a bigger mustache than I do.....


That would be an interesting looking woman...

Totage's photo
Mon 07/18/11 04:47 PM
I've dated women with stretch marks. I don't mind them, they're only natural. If you have children or lose a lot of weight stretch marks are more like a badge of honor than an ugly defect, at least that's the way I see it, and others I have dated have seen them as pretty much the same.

Noella101's photo
Mon 07/18/11 05:00 PM

I've dated women with stretch marks. I don't mind them, they're only natural. If you have children or lose a lot of weight stretch marks are more like a badge of honor than an ugly defect, at least that's the way I see it, and others I have dated have seen them as pretty much the same.

thanks for seeing it that way :) not many ppl see it the way u n i do

msharmony's photo
Mon 07/18/11 05:14 PM


I've dated women with stretch marks. I don't mind them, they're only natural. If you have children or lose a lot of weight stretch marks are more like a badge of honor than an ugly defect, at least that's the way I see it, and others I have dated have seen them as pretty much the same.

thanks for seeing it that way :) not many ppl see it the way u n i do



I dont understand how people tolerate tattoos but not stretch marks,,,maybe they should think of them as a 'tattoo' representing motherhood and it wouldnt seem so unattractive,,,lol

Goofball73's photo
Mon 07/18/11 05:17 PM
You know, the one thing that irritates all of mandom is the fact that women have not....after all these years....learned the value of a man cave. I mean, learn that when a man has his domain where he can,

1. Have a 50 inch LED TV with surround sound
2. A little mini fridge for the beer
3. A "DO NOT DISTURB" sign posted so he can enjoy the game
4. If room is avaiable, a pool table, or ping pong table, or air hockey table, or foozeball table
5. A big *** Lay-Z-Boy


He has all these in his room, makes him the most happiest man alive. Get the picture ladies???

Dragoness's photo
Mon 07/18/11 05:20 PM
Edited by Dragoness on Mon 07/18/11 06:06 PM

You know, the one thing that irritates all of mandom is the fact that women have not....after all these years....learned the value of a man cave. I mean, learn that when a man has his domain where he can,

1. Have a 50 inch LED TV with surround sound
2. A little mini fridge for the beer
3. A "DO NOT DISTURB" sign posted so he can enjoy the game
4. If room is avaiable, a pool table, or ping pong table, or air hockey table, or foozeball table
5. A big *** Lay-Z-Boy


He has all these in his room, makes him the most happiest man alive. Get the picture ladies???



Great info although I think you were supposed to say what you hate about the ladies.:wink: laugh

I want a woman cave if you have a man cave though,, K? Not sayin you and me just women need a cave too.

RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 07/18/11 05:42 PM
One of the oldest known problems that I know of and it has been used in many comedy sketches is the in-laws. But really after you have been on these types of forums you can easy find that applies to both sexes with their in-laws. When you take into consideration the old way of thinking with the man wearing the pants in the family and making the important decisions the man cave idea really starts to take shape in validity. That is if the overthrow has already taken place. By overthrow I mean where he is no longer King of his own domain any more due to in-laws or by the other partner. So he finds this little domain which might even be a closet which he declares is his because the rest of the castle he has been dethroned. I think they even used to be called Dens.:smile:

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Mon 07/18/11 06:02 PM

3. Try to Change Their Men

Women often understand men but don't agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.


This is what has destroyed every relationship I've ever had, with one exception.

I just wish, instead of their lying to me from Day One, saying they will never try to change me, only to start making attempts at changing me 3 months into the relationship, they would just leave me alone and not even try to start anything. There are certain things I'm not going to change, and I don't want to get involved with anyone who can't respect that.




Noella101's photo
Mon 07/18/11 06:45 PM


3. Try to Change Their Men

Women often understand men but don't agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.


This is what has destroyed every relationship I've ever had, with one exception.

I just wish, instead of their lying to me from Day One, saying they will never try to change me, only to start making attempts at changing me 3 months into the relationship, they would just leave me alone and not even try to start anything. There are certain things I'm not going to change, and I don't want to get involved with anyone who can't respect that.

ya i hear ya there.

i think if your goin to tell someone you want to hook up n then later on they stop talking to you for no reason n you try to find out why it would be nice to have an answer to why they quit n would be nice to know why they want you to change or what it is about you that bugs them.




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