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OK i need some advice...been out of the dating game for awhile. feel like she is into me but not ready to meet face to face yet?i asked a couple of times all i got was (lol,maybe;),is that a good thing that we are clicking and wait it out,or its jus a good conversation past time?any advice would be helpful thnx There is no such thing as hard to get. I If she is evading your suggestions to meeting that means she is not in to you but just keeping you open for a rainy day kind of thing. Do you really want that? I'd say move on to someone else. |
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good god eat something first then worry about your profile 
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I want your help making my profile thanks You've got to be kidding. Interested in what? Your body? I suggest you take it down and start over. |
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Who likes Weeds?
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I wanted to search to see if someone already started a Weeds thread but there is no search option.
I'm curious to see what happens with Aidan Quinn. |
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HELP! Unauthorized FB Log IN
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you are very welcome. i really hope that it helps to put your mind at ease at least a little. best wishes 
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Question...
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i know what you're saying msharmony.... but would he rather i lie about it, and he find out later that i'm interested in someone else? I don't think it's your responsibility to guess, know, or be sensitive to his past experiences. The fact alone that he put you in a situation where you were asked that question when he wasn't ready to hear the answer shows that he wasn't considered towards your feelings. He wanted you to be co-dependent and good for you you weren't. |
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This...is the shallowest thread on this site...REMOVE IT Thank you. |
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It may be a point of preference, but teeth? REALLY? Some people can't afford to get their teeth fixed. Some people are born with abnormal teeth. Is that their fault and should it be used against them as a person? I'm lucky, I happen to be in the military and get dental work done for free. But then again, realignment and whitening and what have you, unless done for the physical structure of the teeth is considered cosmetic and not covered in the military. I don't know about you, but if I had misaligned teeth or had a disease that caused me to lose them, I'm not going to go out and spend thousands of dollars on getting my grill up to a woman's superficial standards. Hell there is even a disease out there that causes your teeth to rot out of your head from the day your born. I find it rather pathetic that somebody would hold something that is pretty much out of a person's control against them. People wonder what the hell is wrong with this world, one of the things is people are to damn caught up on looks. What the hell you gonna do when you get old and wrinkly, kill yourself because you're not perfect anymore. Anybody focused that much on looks should save the gene pool and not pursue a relationship. I agree with your line of thoughts and additionally I find the question offensive to begin with. What's next? |
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HELP! Unauthorized FB Log IN
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you should also change the password to the email account that you made your facebook account with, and then change your facebook password again. its important to always make sure that you are careful with checking the log in pages URL to make sure that its a genuine facebook log in page and not a scammer page trying to 'fish' for your password. i hope that my advice helps. good luck Thank you. I just changed my email address and my FB password again. |
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Hello, I am an older lonly guy who would like to have younger friends. Is there a problem with that ? is it taboo ? What do younger people think about older people ? Please help. Of course it's okay but it has to be a mutual preference and depends on the people. Friendships develop best naturally. I have nothing against older friends but tend to make friends with younger people. I don't plan it. They just seem to get along with me more often. So, in a way you see, we're alike. :) |
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I've noticed lately that a lot of people around here seem to lack confidence and have low self esteem. There's a lot of "woe is me I don't have a life" kind of stuff going on. Why? I don't get why people are just sitting around, complaining that they don't have a life, or don't like their life. Why not change it? I don't know about others, but this is a huge turn off for me. Hmm, I'm not seing that at all. I think it's great that people are talking about their problems. It's the ones who don't I'm not sure about. |
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HELP! Unauthorized FB Log IN
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I deactivated my FB so I could concentrate on finals and 3 weeks later I received the automated message from FB saying that someone activated my account. "A new device named "phone" logged into your Facebook account (Saturday, August 27, 2011 at 6:58am) from San Diego. (Note: This location is based on information from your ISP or wireless provider.)"
Few minutes later: "You recently changed your Facebook password." Which I didn't. I live in LA and don't even have a phone that has the capacity to log in to FB. Has this happened to someone else and what does it mean? I followed the link and reported it and changed my password but I'm still worried. |
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I don't like forward advances when I state I am uninterested in a relationship. It probably makes me the angriest when I am not listened to, and usually it ends up in a very angry me when I have people advancing on me when I've very clearly stated, "No." I think that's for everyone, honestly. A couple things I do like, though, are just friends. Platonic relationships are sort of my thing, I try to make this clear, unless I actually feel comfortable and in a good situation with someone I like. Usually, it doesn't work out, and I'm trying to get better with how I handle rejection. I don't know, a few things I really enjoy are just hanging out and such, I like getting to know people, the most. Same here. I don't like to be pursued or chased by people who I'm not interested in, especially after I already made it clear. I also don't like to be stared at. I like to hang out with gay guys. |
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American women are from many different countries, me being one of them. I'm American but I also have another nationality. That's why you will hear a lot "American women" say "you will get different answers." And it's offensive.
Many of us are upset about grouping nationalities yet when I look at posts there are plenty of groupings of gender. Just something to think about. |
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What do you prefer in a guy?
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Hi guys! Hows it going? I thought Id ask some people what kind of guys they generally like/find appealing! Im a gay guy myself but I really would like to know these things so I can see where I fit in via the dating scene is all! Plus I like hearing others opinions! Hi 5! What I really like about your post is that you are addressing an interesting question to EVERYONE, without gender groupings (for instance, “what do women look for in men” vise versa). I think that’s an awesome quality in a guy. Well, somehow I have to be attracted to him. I’m really in to acceptance and authenticity and critical thinkers with a BIG heart. |
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Requirements?
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They have to be single, be able to support themselves.....and live within driving distance.....and have a sense of humor.... 
How many do u wish to have honey? 
That's what I was thinking too. 
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Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Sat 08/27/11 09:40 PM
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Hi again! Hehe gosh, I was going to just message a few friends about this privately but hopefully its safe to do this. Hehe! Well buddies, I know Iv only been here for a week now but Ive started talking to this guy recently! I wont mention any names but lets just say that hes my age (yey) and that he seems a really nice guy. From the time Ive spent chatting with him I do really enjoy finding new facts out about him and he always makes me smile whenever a text appears. Hes smart, honest and seems to like me (says Im cute quite a bit and that he cant wait to see me eventually), me neither to be honest! Anyways since alot of you warned me about players Im keeping cautious, doesnt seem the kind to hurt soemone though. Hes had 2 relationships before and wants more than just *friendly fun* which is what Im also looking for. A nice relationship! The puzzling though also is that this great guy is also secretly really good looking but doesnt like to show it on profiles etc. Do you think its so people wont message him just for his looks? I think hes so sweet, but I dont want to jinx it. We were thinking of meeting up in a month or two maybe, looking forward to it if we continue chatting the way we do! Hey there, I don't want to spoil the fun but something doesn't sound right. I would not get too excited without meeting him first and as KLC says definitely meet in public and SOON. When you get along this well you usually don't postpone face to face meeting. You said yourself that it was a bit puzzling "that this great guy is also secretly really good looking but doesnt like to show it on profiles etc." I don't believe for a second that this is true. My advice is don't get attached or even continue chatting until you meet in a public place. |
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Question...
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Okay... so i just got reamed out by a guy because he asked me if i was "talking to" anyone at the moment. And i answered honestly... there's a guy i'm sort of "talking to" and another guy i'd rather be "talking to"... and he said i'm shallow and I'm one of the girls that feel the need to "talk to" multiple people just so i can use them and make myself feel pretty. I'm not DATING anyone, so i dont feel theres anything wrong with talking to multiple guys. I dont feel like i'm using anyone, and I'm not sure how else i would know who to go with if i didnt "talk to" more than one person... So whats your opinion... Is it wrong to be "talking to" more than one person in an interested way? Am i the biotch, or is that guy over-reacting (do note that i'm leading NO ONE on.. i'm not dating anyone) Many people don't know how to respond to honesty because they're not used to it. He is an idiot for trying to make you responsible for his insecurity. |
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I'll probably tick off some peeps, but Michael Jackson was not a normal person. Yes, he was the king of pop, but holding him up as a role model is wrong. why, because he was not perfect? he was a role model for philanthropy he was a role model for parenting(as his children are evidence of) he was a role model for compassion and patience there were many things that people could emulate and learn from him those allegations were not ALL he was or all he had ever been, he did many great things in his life that should be remembered and held up Thanks, and he was also a role model to treating the planet right. Earth Song A role model to fixing ourselves before fixing everyone else. Man in the Mirror A role model in self confidence BAD A role model for Abstinence Billy Jean The List goes on and on... Right on! |
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Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Fri 08/26/11 12:42 AM
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this must be one of the true big time unanswerable questions of alltimes . so now ladies here is your chance .shout load ladies we are all ears Same thing I would be looking for in anyone. This may sound strange to some people but what I find attractive in men is, when they open doors to women, that they not only do it for women but also for men. |
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