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Like women are more honest.... (just snorted so hard, I accidentally sucked my lip into my left nostril.) No, you're absolutely right. Honesty is not gender related. This is not a thread about bashing men or judging people. I see you guys as my cyber friends. This is a place I go to share my experiences and wish you could give me the benefit of the doubt. Laughing about your nostril. PS: My mom was 7 years younger than my dad. There is a story to this guy which I won't get into publicly for moral reasons. 
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Age is only a number...as long he is at your maturity level. Shouldnt matter!! blah blah blah... sorry, i'm not attracted to scammers. age does make a difference if it's one of many red flags. that's just me. I am pretty sure he ain't a scammer. Maybe there is a better word. |
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I would just like to let everyone know that some strange things have been happening since this "28 year old professor" from the other dating site has contacted me. I have reason to believe that he is connected to this site. He knew some things I mentioned in the mingle forums. 
I posted here before about this chance. Well, that's always a possibility.
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Am I missing something?
Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Sat 09/03/11 10:44 AM
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OK,,to sum it all up in a nut shell, MOST WOMEN require a FRIENDSHIP BASED on EMAILS BEFORE EVER GIVING OUT ANYTHING MORE! And to THINK they will throw that out through kindness of you asking is very egotistical,,or naive on your part to expect? I have been on here a very long time and MANY,,,MANY friends of mine still would probably not want to give me their phone numbers,,for their on choice in only talking here in emails,,NOW,,as a dude here if I know THAT about them through emails,,I would also know they didn't really feel me someone they would like to go out with,,for they have a little bet of paranoid going on or they just view me as a friend? Some WILL give you anything you like to converse with them,,their open,,real,,and find real voice a much easier way to feel the others heart,,,BUT,,even THEY HAVE TO KNOW YA DUDE,,I mean,,THEY HAVE TO HAVE TALKED WITH YOU IN The forums or in several emails on here? Many women here,,unlike us dudes,,have kids and live a single life style so THEY are cautious of giving any personal things out. As THEY might be stalkers or crazy chiiits? Many women have suffered some form of abuse from a man in their life so they have an open fear as to WHO is even looking at them on here. Let alone,,trying to locate them,,see IF you have someones phone number YOU can ALSO find out their addy,,and THAT my friend is WHY MANY have a little fear or protectiveness about giving that out.. Its all about YOU taking the time to be REAL on here with GIVING THE REAL RESPECT FOR A WOMANS RIGHTS TO HER PRIVACY W/O CONDEMMING HER FOR BEING JUST ON GAURD OF PRETITORS, and nuts,,, AND THAT TAKES YOUR TIME SPENT HERE TYPING,,,and IF THATS TO MUCH TO ASK OF YOU,,then maybe the NET isn't your format to find a good woman? I'm NOT being a smartazzz, I am being REAL with your question here,,and your replies back to the members here.. It took ME four months of TYPING to a women on here JUST to see if we could be more,,and then at THAT point,,she gave me her number and addy because I gave her enough of me through us talking,,that SHE TRUSTED me to give that.. no offense,but why should you be able to short-cut this process?lol ALL of US have to go through this IF,,,we REALLY WANT TO BE REAL WITH FINDING SOMEONE WHO IS WORTH THE FINDING...... Good Luck on making this place work with you and you with it,,the Net is a place of MANY fake people,,so be careful and type MUCH,,
Iam4U: I like how you put it. Savarus: Nothing is standing in your way in getting to know the person face to face. It sounds like it's not an option for you to meet someone using the communication method offered through this site. It's really not that difficult. You agree to meet some place and continue to get to know each other on mingle until she is ready to give out more personal info such as #. Simple. Or you could experiment with prashant01's suggestion, but you have to realize that no one will respond since it is (let's face it) a requirement. |
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Per your profile, that you mention so often, you decided to marry a white woman as a personal contribution to certain economic goals, including global peace and socio-cultural development. Hmm, doesn’t sound very romantic. It sounds more like a business related mission.
You also say you’re interested in marriage because you use both sides of your brain equally, weighing facts & feelings and logical arguments against hunches. Really? Are you serious? It will be very difficult to meet a woman who is God-fearing, reads this profile, and is intelligent at the same time. Fear and shady wording hardly ever resonates with intelligence. |
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Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Sat 09/03/11 12:23 AM
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Half of what’s in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual (DSM-IV) is BS. Each Country has their own DSM but none are identical. A child or an adult living in the US may be diagnosed with ADHD but in another country they would not be. That does not make any sense. Also, at one point in time homosexuality was considered a psychiatric condition in the DSM II. Who is to say how many more corrections will be made to the DSM V or VI.
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Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Fri 09/02/11 11:35 PM
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Exactly. And Iam4U is right also. Women of all ages often feel flattered and might ignore the flags for the sake of the rush.
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Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Fri 09/02/11 11:13 PM
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Singmesweet: Yep. I kept asking for a link that verified his identity. He gave me a bogus name and # that I never called obviously.
He said he is sorry that I don't use social networks besides this site, otherwise he would text me his picture. How would he know that I don’t use other social networks? I only mentioned that here. Iam4U: I’m with you, and 100% on it, no worries.  I did feel flattered but I was skeptical from the beginning. All of this happened over a couple of days and I responded with short notes asking to verify his identity persistently. So no, he was never my youngin. Just an experience that I shared.
Thanks for being there for me mingle people. 
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I would just like to let everyone know that some strange things have been happening since this "28 year old professor" from the other dating site has contacted me. I have reason to believe that he is connected to this site. He knew some things I mentioned in the mingle forums.
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Age is only a number...as long he is at your maturity level. Shouldnt matter!! blah blah blah... sorry, i'm not attracted to scammers. age does make a difference if it's one of many red flags. that's just me. |
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TfFz-BN81Jo&feature=related |
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Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Fri 09/02/11 08:21 PM
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I have no idea! What do you mean what are they supposed to do? I don't get your question. It sounds like as if you're saying there is a problem and also, the question is not a complete sentence, so I'm lost.  For real.
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Topic:
this scares me.
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That is so cool.
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I think I would faint. Reminds me of the original "Stepford Wifes".
 
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Probably the same kind of guy who attracts "dark" skinnned girls.
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somehow, I dont think all light skinned girls are attracted to the same 'type of guy'...
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I used to be really good at mixed tapes (music), now I'm hooked on iMovies and make mixed videos. I make short documentaries of my friends when we hang out or take trips. Or for B-day messages etc.. So much fun. Makes everyone happy. Sandelwood4, Wow that's awesome! You are a movie producer! You can turn that into a business probably. Nah... I do it for fun. What could be more fun than getting paid for doing what you love. I love it when I sell a painting! 
That's true. But there is so much I love to do. Just can't do it all. Must be a great feeling to get paid for your art work.
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I used to be really good at mixed tapes (music), now I'm hooked on iMovies and make mixed videos. I make short documentaries of my friends when we hang out or take trips. Or for B-day messages etc.. So much fun. Makes everyone happy. Sandelwood4, Wow that's awesome! You are a movie producer! You can turn that into a business probably. Nah... I do it for fun. |
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Improve my life:
Take things slower and becoming more mindful or raising my awareness. Improve the world: When you improve your life, in a way you also improve the world by the way respond to your environment. My contribution can be as small as listening to a friend without judging, making suggestions, or trying to fix things. And this can have a huge impact. |
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I used to be really good at mixed tapes (music), now I'm hooked on iMovies and make mixed videos. I make short documentaries of my friends when we hang out or take trips. Or for B-day messages etc.. So much fun. Makes everyone happy.
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