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Sat 09/03/11 09:27 PM


Yes! only if YOU decide they are!


do u really think it's a choice


I really do think it's a choice. It's a newly found wisdom of mine that has brought me much happiness.
Sorry for butting in.:smile:

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Sat 09/03/11 09:19 PM

depends on the name..I hate to be called babe , and for some reason many guys use this on first dates makes me want to sock them in the face

rofl
I don't mind being called baby by someone I care about but not strangers. Get this. When a guy I'm not attracted to stares at me in that disrespectful way for a long time, I want to put my hands around his head and bulge his eye balls out with my thumbs. I don't do it but I want to so badly.surprised

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Sat 09/03/11 09:10 PM

Just kind of an observation about things as I know...

The more love I give, the more love I get.

The more hatred I give, the more hatred I get.


I like love.

Here is some love for you, in response to your side note observation. :heart:

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Sat 09/03/11 09:00 PM


If you wait for that one person who is supposed to be your soulmate you'll die alone.



You are gonna die anyway....will you die loved?

You don't need to edit my response to provoke an argument. :tongue: I said I believed in creating your soulmate.

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Sat 09/03/11 08:42 PM
I agree with LexFonteyne on this one. I think soulmates are created. If you wait for that one person who is supposed to be your soulmate you'll die alone.

Dan Savage says it best:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ObrFwjesno

I really love this guy.

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Sat 09/03/11 08:28 PM
I love them. The more individual and original the better.

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Sat 09/03/11 08:20 PM
Dear DBR70,
Are there any other syndromes that are similar to Asperger's that you think may be a possibility? Unfortunately misdiagnosis happens more often than we realize. It always helps to do your own research and ask for another opinion. Do you have insurance? Can you seek out a different doctor?

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Sat 09/03/11 07:57 PM


That's fine. I'm just asking if he's gay or if he made a mistake in his profile. Totally valid question, no?


Not really my concern though I am kinda curious about that myself. In time it will iron out.

Just from the posts Chikka has popped out..I gaurantee that she is a woman. A soft spoken woman.

I'm sure he/she will respond him/herself. No need to be over protective. We're all friends here.

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Sat 09/03/11 07:49 PM

That one threw me Sand....I am trying to think about it but it aint clicking cause Chikka's posts have been nothing more than honest opinions with no motives. Seems cool to me.


That's fine. I'm just asking if he's gay or if he made a mistake in his profile. Totally valid question, no?

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Sat 09/03/11 07:46 PM

I should probably put my pants back on.

Please believe me Sandel...I am easily misunderstood. Pretty much everything I say should be taken as a joke. (even a lame joke...I am trying tho)

...and sing...I was trying to get you to trash talk women. Duh! But...nooooooooo.

:)

P.S. I call myself cute cause you danged women don't and I do what I gotta do to maintain my delusions.

Well, I'm so glad to hear that. The context gets lost when you can't see the person and don't know them well. The joke is much funnier now. Peace!flowerforyou

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Sat 09/03/11 07:29 PM
I'm a bit confused over here. Your profile says that you are a 33 year old man from Quezon City, Manila looking for woman for friendship????what spock

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Sat 09/03/11 05:01 PM
Edited by Sandelwood4 on Sat 09/03/11 05:02 PM


Per your profile, that you mention so often, you decided to marry a white woman as a personal contribution to certain economic goals, including global peace and socio-cultural development. Hmm, doesn’t sound very romantic. It sounds more like a business related mission.

You also say you’re interested in marriage because you use both sides of your brain equally, weighing facts & feelings and logical arguments against hunches. Really? Are you serious?

It will be very difficult to meet a woman who is God-fearing, reads this profile, and is intelligent at the same time. Fear and shady wording hardly ever resonates with intelligence.


Apparently you don't understand what you read in my profile or may be I was the one who didn't make my message clear enough. You are even concluding and interpreting my profile for me and that is why you are mixing issues together and muddling things up,thereby making everything clumsy. Perhaps your confusion lies in my use of the phrase 'that is why I have decided...' that links the vision statement to the marital specifications. But you must know they are two different issues which only bother on my view of the world we are living in,as human beings.

To me you sound more like a pessimist and a cynic. A woman that has the fear of the God that I know and is not intelligent doesn't really know that God,because 'the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom'. Fear,God,wisdom,intelligence. THINK!

Anyway,I still appreciate your bluntness maam.


Many of us asked you to explain yourself here but you referred people back to your profile. I admit it is difficult to understand what you're saying and we are not allowed to copy and paste other peoples profiles, so I had to rephrase something that was difficult to understand to begin with.

So when you say I'm a pessimist and a cynic is that based on the left side of your brain or right, or both? Or is it just a hunch?

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Sat 09/03/11 04:53 PM

cuz of bbd.

what is bdd? what

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Sat 09/03/11 04:34 PM
You've got some excellent responses here. I'm not sure why you think most women see it more of a taboo to date a younger man. When you skim through the posts though it may seem like that way but you can't change feelings and preferences. I say live and let live.


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Sat 09/03/11 04:11 PM
How about these possibilities?

1) I remembered that I was married.
2) My priorities changed when I was diagnosed with a debilitating illness & needed to deal with it on my own.
3) It wasn’t really that great.
4) He beat me to it.

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Sat 09/03/11 03:53 PM




Al right peoples,
I'm not the cougar type, ok? If you only knew me...:wink: you'd actually warn the guy to watch out.
Anyhow, I just responded asking him how come he never approached me before on campus? (Because he had stated he's a part time professor at CSULA.) I don't know peoples... I feel some fishiness in my gut. I'll know more soon.
To be continued. winking


the fishiness might be that he's wantin to hit on u for some older woman trophy sex - so just be wary of that

and hey - I am not the cougar type either - the only thing I am inclined to pounce on is the last meatball on the plate

but younger guys seem to like me - I am told it's because I am cute..... WTF? CUTE? at my age???rofl

good try guysspock

Good for you. I'm not very fond of cougars. Sure you're cute. It just depends on who says it with what intention. drool LOL


true

I guess cute is a compliment

I always wanted something more like mysterious, smoldering sex goddess tho

oh well

can't have everything

cute it is

:wink: flowerforyou

I understand. :wink: flowers

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Sat 09/03/11 02:03 PM


Al right peoples,
I'm not the cougar type, ok? If you only knew me...:wink: you'd actually warn the guy to watch out.
Anyhow, I just responded asking him how come he never approached me before on campus? (Because he had stated he's a part time professor at CSULA.) I don't know peoples... I feel some fishiness in my gut. I'll know more soon.
To be continued. winking


the fishiness might be that he's wantin to hit on u for some older woman trophy sex - so just be wary of that

and hey - I am not the cougar type either - the only thing I am inclined to pounce on is the last meatball on the plate

but younger guys seem to like me - I am told it's because I am cute..... WTF? CUTE? at my age???rofl

good try guysspock

Good for you. I'm not very fond of cougars. Sure you're cute. It just depends on who says it with what intention. drool LOL

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Sat 09/03/11 01:58 PM

Those are his very charming qualities!!

smitten

laugh

drinker

wow, i guess he the man. aint he? drinker

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Sat 09/03/11 12:48 PM

Ah, I wouldn't take him too seriously. :smile:

Krupa is very opinionated and seems to want people to agree with him. But, I don't think he's as rude or demanding or serious as he sounds at times.

I have the same issue. Some people take me very seriously and think that I'm being rude when I disagree with them, which is not the case.

No problem. I don't take him seriously. I'm very blunt and opinionated myself.flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 09/03/11 11:54 AM

Sandel gots morals?


I am sooooo screwed.

dude, when you're finished pms'ing maybe you can tell us what's bothering you. not sure what your problem is. you're extremely defensive and are rude to people who have been nice to you.