The Million dollar question.

What do women want?

ive been out on a few dates lately and i think i could do better becoming an astronaut than actually ending up in a relationship.

Im a nice guy, i dont push. im at a point in my life where its more important to get to know a woman and have a real connection than it is to just "get some" as fast as possiable.

If women want a nice guy why am i closer to a job at NASA than i am to... a good night kiss?

Aside from my personal issues. This four is a good place for you Ladies to shed some light on all of us. We need it, why else would we be on a dating site. Please be detailed. Its the internet, no one can hold what you say against you.


What do women want?

(any guy who wants to add what men want, feel free. i dont think a lot of women appreciate the fact we may want more than just one thing)

the only thing that people want
or need is love
with this all else is possible
in its absence there is no substitute
it is the perfect gender neutral
what every woman wants
what every man must also have

I agree with you but thats kida vague dont you think?

Everyone wants to fall in love, the question is what is the key to getting that? what is the thing that makes attraction possible?

girls just wanna have fun

i think i need a drink off that comment

Depends on the lady, but most women want security and nice things in my opinion.

Well, I'm still pretty young, but I think that we just don't know what we want. It takes time to figure out how we feel about someone. That's what I think...

sometimes I dont think anyone really knows what they want until the run into it and it clicks

Maybe they find out what it is they want, after they lose what they had?

I'm a very simple person and that means it doesn't take much effort to make me happy.I'm not demanding at all.But sometimes men take advantage of it and I think they find it boring,no challenge so they tend to take my love for granted.

What a woman like me wants: a one woman man,a cuddle buddy,someone to go out with,someone who surprises me with flowers...ahhhh,all the good stuff ,good looking,average but smells good all the time..someone who's not a player,loyal,honest,kissable,very neat,luvs pda..someone who will love me just as I am! I think that's what men want too from a woman but how come we can't find each other?

For sure any woman wouldn't want a player.I'm smart but I've been played and I knew it but I let it happen.oh well,I don't know...

ques sera,sera...

what do women want...a guy that makes more money than them...the older women can attest to this..and the younger women, well you will come to realize this...

Roco

P.S. -- there are cougars...but its very rare..

a woman wants a secure man that gives them experience, experience that when they make themselves vulnerable it isn't going to result in a brokenheart... simple actually :)

Women want equal treatment as any other human being. They want a date that can talk to them with out being vulgar or interrupting and listen to there responses actually answering the question that was asked.

Someone who can practice basic social skills without looking like a jerk or expwcting us to fall at his feet because of it.

They want someone who is what they say they are and maybe just maybe aspires to keep improving themself but at least maintain themselves. We don't want to be your Mother but if you act like a child well you can't blame us for not likeing it.

We want a guy who trys to be right but can actually admidt when he is wrong.

You don't have to be good at everything but at least be good at something.

Sex is on the list of skills but you don't have to be selfish about getting and opportunity to prove it. It should be a choice and a gift not and obligation or and entitlement. Women really don't care how much you have but they sure care how much you let them enjoy experienceing it.

We want a Man who can stay sober, employed, act like a parent if he puts himself in that situation, and respects his family but doesn't let them run all over us.

You manage this stuff and add a touch of appreciation once in a while just for our benifit and not to show off for everyone else you won't have many problems in the lady friend department

Oh yea and if you go to and email date site and expect that the woman is going to be so impressed with your profile that she will just fall down at your feet and write you knowing you are not going to respond but a couple of words or demand a phone number put and add in the yellow pages and don't waste our time.

I want the remote!!!

geeze what crawled in you @$$ and died???


NEW THREAD: WHAT MEN WANT

A woman who is not like you!!

OMG that is one of the most insightful and poetic answers to that question that I have ever heard...beautiful

Dude you have no idea how right she is.. WE get emails where they get sh*tty b/c they want to talk on the phone right away... She is a very smart woman and both her answers were extremely accurate... I could add a few of my preferences but I like that hers covered the basics for the majority...

Ps- What you said to her could be a reason why you're having trouble if that's how you think and speak to women.. Just sayin'....

I'm trying to figure it out too lmao

Most women probably can't tell you what they want. I know from being in two serious relationships with women, that being best friends was the base of those relationships.

A woman looking to get involved in a serious relationship may not even realize that becoming best of friends with her partner should be the number one thing to look for in a man. Best friends like hanging out at the bar, cooking together, watching sports together, what have you. And I would have to say that being nice to a woman and treating her like she is a goddess does not hurt either. Those two things alone tend to overcome other not so great qualities in a man. Become her best friend and be nice to her. And this gentlemen, is usually the backdoor to a woman's heart.

Do not confuse when a woman you are interested in tells you that she sees you just as a "friend"(the kiss of death, LOL). She is not interested in you when she says that! Move on. There are plenty of women out there. You just have to find them. They are not going to come looking for you (LOL).

My point? If you are a man looking for a serious relationship, then you better figure out how to become best friends with that woman.

If you just want to play, that is a totally different game altogether. Becoming best friends does not matter. LOL!