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People Who Contact Me....
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I always knew I didn't want kids but no one believed me and treated me like I've got issues for choosing not to be a parent. So there are women who really don't, but they're probably far far away. Just like my chum in the bookstore. She felt guilty about it but was firm. Not having any. Yeay! Women power!  We have choices too.
99.99999824361097% just choose not to exercise them. Yep, I can't argue there. |
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People Who Contact Me....
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I always knew I didn't want kids but no one believed me and treated me like I've got issues for choosing not to be a parent. So there are women who really don't, but they're probably far far away. Just like my chum in the bookstore. She felt guilty about it but was firm. Not having any. Yeay! Women power! We have choices too.
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People Who Contact Me....
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My scammer is someone who knows me in real life and has followed me to the forums here from another site. He has multiple profiles with pictures of random objects or fake pictures.  But it doesn't keep me from meeting new people.  I have amazing gut radars I can count on.
Not me, I'm a complete moron. I'll meet someone, I'll think she's cute, she says "Oh, good, I don't want kids either!" and I'll think, "Wow, let's see where this goes." Three months later, like clockwork (is this what they mean when they're talking about their "biological clock"?), they suddenly start screaming "I NEED A BAY-BEE!!" every six seconds. I should have learned by now, right? After this happened like 90 times in a row? But no. hmm, that's because women can be extremely manipulative. the ones you're talking about know exactly what you want to hear. she thinks that when you fall in love with her you'll make an exception for her. 
i figure it's safer if i contact people even though that's not really me. except there is no one there to contact.  
Well, see, that's my whole problem. It appears there are only two types of women in the world: 1.) those who want kids and are honest and up-front about it, and 2.) those who want kids but won't admit it if/when it interferes withe their immediate agenda. They'll only admit it once they think it's safe to do so. I understand about the "no one to contact" thing, too. When I look at the profiles of the locals, everybody either has kids or wants kids, or the profiles are simply incomprehensible. I always knew I didn't want kids but no one believed me and treated me like I've got issues for choosing not to be a parent. So there are women who really don't, but they're probably far far away. Or they miraculously change their minds 90 days after meeting me. you must have a curse that we must remove somehow. let me brainstorm and get back.
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People Who Contact Me....
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My scammer is someone who knows me in real life and has followed me to the forums here from another site. He has multiple profiles with pictures of random objects or fake pictures. But it doesn't keep me from meeting new people. I have amazing gut radars I can count on.
Not me, I'm a complete moron. I'll meet someone, I'll think she's cute, she says "Oh, good, I don't want kids either!" and I'll think, "Wow, let's see where this goes." Three months later, like clockwork (is this what they mean when they're talking about their "biological clock"?), they suddenly start screaming "I NEED A BAY-BEE!!" every six seconds. I should have learned by now, right? After this happened like 90 times in a row? But no. hmm, that's because women can be extremely manipulative. the ones you're talking about know exactly what you want to hear. she thinks that when you fall in love with her you'll make an exception for her.
i figure it's safer if i contact people even though that's not really me. except there is no one there to contact.
Well, see, that's my whole problem. It appears there are only two types of women in the world: 1.) those who want kids and are honest and up-front about it, and 2.) those who want kids but won't admit it if/when it interferes withe their immediate agenda. They'll only admit it once they think it's safe to do so. I understand about the "no one to contact" thing, too. When I look at the profiles of the locals, everybody either has kids or wants kids, or the profiles are simply incomprehensible. I always knew I didn't want kids but no one believed me and treated me like I've got issues for choosing not to be a parent. So there are women who really don't, but they're probably far far away. |
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People Who Contact Me....
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My scammer is someone who knows me in real life and has followed me to the forums here from another site. He has multiple profiles with pictures of random objects or fake pictures. But it doesn't keep me from meeting new people. I have amazing gut radars I can count on.
You mean ex bf, stalker type. I had one for a bit. I think they are finished. Part of the letting go I spose. no, not ex bf. just someone from school who i met online and who couldn't handle that I didn't want his friendship. |
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People Who Contact Me....
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My scammer is someone who knows me in real life and has followed me to the forums here from another site. He has multiple profiles with pictures of random objects or fake pictures. But it doesn't keep me from meeting new people. I have amazing gut radars I can count on.
if he is a scammer then he can easily be expunged! we'll see how far he'll go. can't prove anything as of right now. |
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People Who Contact Me....
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My scammer is someone who knows me in real life and has followed me to the forums here from another site. He has multiple profiles with pictures of random objects or fake pictures. But it doesn't keep me from meeting new people. I have amazing gut radars I can count on.
Not me, I'm a complete moron. I'll meet someone, I'll think she's cute, she says "Oh, good, I don't want kids either!" and I'll think, "Wow, let's see where this goes." Three months later, like clockwork (is this what they mean when they're talking about their "biological clock"?), they suddenly start screaming "I NEED A BAY-BEE!!" every six seconds. I should have learned by now, right? After this happened like 90 times in a row? But no. hmm, that's because women can be extremely manipulative. the ones you're talking about know exactly what you want to hear. she thinks that when you fall in love with her you'll make an exception for her.
i figure it's safer if i contact people even though that's not really me. except there is no one there to contact.
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People Who Contact Me....
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My scammer is someone who knows me in real life and has followed me to the forums here from another site. He has multiple profiles with pictures of random objects or fake pictures.
But it doesn't keep me from meeting new people. I have amazing gut radars I can count on.
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What would you do
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In regards to sincerity, of course it would be nice if people were upfront more often. I think people reveal what they want when they are ready for it. after all, your profile picture is a cat. just saying.
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What would you do
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well you know a lady on line, she is kindly raffinate.............but not sincere, at the first date you starting to feel something wrong on her............her voice.... some particulars are not so femminine, step by step the date in going on and you are not so sure that she is a woman, at last she open her legs ...............holy sky............she is more man than you.............. what would you do..... see where it goes, after all, she is the SAME person you liked before you saw the hardware right?...lol free your mind from gender traps,,,DOWN WITH GENDER IDENTITY!!! lol down with the gender identity .........sure......but l'm talking about a not sincere person a lovely smile to you sweet lady...........ciao ciao it helps to get to know the person before you check out their gear. that way you may get to know them better and give them a chance to open up. l think it's very hard to know a person, even living with she/he for many years, you could get a bad surprise about her/his personality just in a strange morning, we are so human and full of mistakes well, you wrote earlier it is a hypothetical situation. so in that case it doesn't really matter. |
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I came to make an impression
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Based on the info you gave it's not clear what you're looking for.
"There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so"???  what does that mean? Activity partner? What do you mean impress? All a bit confusing.
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hairsuit
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From one Mike to another I would advize U to tread lightly, this IS a social site as well as a dating site and U just took ONE huge step back with your post!!!! these are ladies on here and U might wanna take this to another Thread on this site, thats why it is here!! Good Luck, I think U are gonna need it!! Thank you Mike.
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My very first car, 1960 Rambler. It had pushbutton gears.
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you need to smack her up side the back of the head 
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I seem to get a lot of interest from younger guys. I am not a Cougar and really don't want a guy not much older than than my kids!! 9/4/11 : 
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Edited by
Sandelwood4
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Wed 09/07/11 01:59 AM
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okay, i thought this was really cool when I first heard about it and shared it with someone, and you know what she said?
"So? What's the big deal?"  
I think it's cool. 47 + 64 = 111
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9/4/11 just saying.
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how to say good bye
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I don't want to hurt his feelings but...I just don't see how he will ever be prodded enough to come to me... I guess I could just talk to him less until he gets the clue. After A While By Veronica A. Shoffstall After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul and you learn love  doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't always promises and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and and your eyes ahead  with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child.
And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much 
So you plant your own garden  and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers
And you learn that you really can endure, that you really are strong and you really do have worth and you learn and you learn 
with every good-bye you learn.
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Although I'm as disillusioned as Lex and don't expect to find it, I came for the boyfriend.
I found you guys instead, which has been an unexpected positive experience.
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People who don't say hello
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It happens. In Texas, most people are very polite and friendly. If they are a doushe...we just assume they are from somewhere else. (usually right) But, I do what I can to make myself feel better. If I hold a door with a smile and a nod. I usually get "Thank you" If they ignore me (always the women) I think "I bet your old man is miserable with you and will be happiest on the day he dies and don't gotta put up with your sorry @$$ you dumpy fkn cow" Then I smile again and feel alot better. :) u kill me. 
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