Here here. I like the thought of having a "Drama Forum". This will separate the pathetic from the real issues in relationships.

I'll help clean up Jace. Here let me get that pan out for you.

Blueberry flapjacks for me! Oh! and Thank You for offering.

The thing that bothers me is when I see a 19 y/o complain that they will be alone.

It really is somewhat pathetic at that age to be complaining just because they had a breakup.

They need to be realistic with their thoughts before they place them on the site such as saying, "Will I always be alone?".

It is not a very constructive forum really. Constructive would be to find out what was right or wrong about the relationship and really get into it.

This shallow stuff is the Problem with people.... Not paying attention.... ie.... my ex gl didn't pay full attention and is like that. Won't bone up to the real issues.

J

I'll be without a gl but not alone.

I suppose those people with can step out to meet people this year so they don't have to be "alone" in the next New Year. I've set myself up with enough freinds that I'll never be alone for the rest of my life if I want.

I already thought and feel that I have meet the one woman in my life that I should be with. We are not together but this still only affects me to a degree. I will not let it ruin my day, week, month, year. I will enjoy what I have, hope for the best of what I want, and trust in God with my faith that there is a reason for my journey. Not always easy but something I do everyday. Smile people. I hope you all find someone to enjoy for NY and beyond.

Become better people each day of your lives. There's an opportunity for you each day even if is just to smile or have a party with freinds.

J

Okay this dude is hilarious. Plus he is right. Stop bashing men on this site. We don't bash women. When is the last time you saw that. It's two pathetic topics here. The men say, "Why do nice guys finish last and why am I alone. The women say, "Why do men play games".

Try being honest with yourself in the first place. When I honestly look back at the nuances of any relationship (except my ex-wife I new there were issues coming up). And the only reason I didn't figure out my ex was I never saw her with any of her family. As soon as that happened_ after two years of marriage_ my opinion changed about her actual self. She's mean spirited and non-loving witch. She's a good worker though.

J

Sassyma is an anti-depressant!

Well now I know you're talkin' bout me.

Lsing has really nice pictures.

He has nice words to say about the beautiful woman above him.

Yo mama's so ghetto, her idea of a fortune cookie is a tortilla with a food stamp in it.

Yo Mama's so fat the Weather Bureau names her farts!

When she walks behind you she touches your shoulder and lets you know everythings alright.

First thing you should do is find your head! Then, you'll be able to meet more people. ..... Just kidding.

Pens you can meet tons of people but I hear ya on just being new and all. I'm sure you need to meet a core group of freinds first to get along with and feel like extended family.

Go out and meet the Hash House Harriers. They will make you feel like family.

J

Why would you want to meet people online when there are people in your town to talk to? To me this is just for the hell of it.

This is assuming your town has more than 10 people in it!|

Me? I partied all day in another town from 1-7. Then I left alone and that was fine. I enjoyed myself and had a great time. I go to sleep alone and that's fine. I get another day to go enjoy tomorrow with new plans.

J

The song is cool. Did you write it?

I'm okay with being alone. I got tired of feeling like my celebration time was ruined even a little just because I didn't have someone or because I was broken up.

Why think about it?

I think this makes a person a little on the weak side. I think you should be strong alone so that you are strong when you have someone. Practice other thoughts of enjoying what's in front of you. New Years is not about being alone. It's about a New Year!

You don't want to have yourself be broken like that even when you give up your heart for a while.

He didn't say that. He said "people mistake nice guys for weak". He didn't say nice guys were weak.

I also believe his discussion of confidence in oneself is not misinterpreted for arrogance which is considered negative.

J

Youssef nicely put.

He's right. I am who I am.... that is a nice guy. But I'm not weak by any means and I don't let the gl step on me. That's usually when the downfall begins.

You had a gl for 5 years???? So did you finish last in that one? Then you had 5 months and learned she has issues? Did you finish last in that one? Did you know she had issues up front and didn't pay attention.

I have had gl's and wives that I find out have issues that creep up. Not my fault... not my issue.

I think there is a chemistry to these guys that have a rough edge to them... The girls that go this way eventually get tired of it.

It is the same thing as the guys that go out with the wild girls but then they have issues and the guy gets tired of that and leaves for a more, "stable situation".

Yo mama's so fat, she wakes up in sections.

Yo mama's so fat, and you're so poor, when she comes in your house the tires pop.

Yo mama's so fat, her car is made out of spandex.


Yo mama's so fat, she sat on an Oreo and unlocked the magic.