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Hi all, hows everyone?

People seem so obessed with 'love' that they usually can't see it. Kinda like staring at a mirror with your nose touching. No you can't control it, yes it will happen, no you won't know until its to late and no you'll never understand it.

Women do the same things. This is defently something that both genders do not like.


Sometimes we just want to do our own thing. Usually it's when we are seeing your bad side, and seeing the grass on the other side at the same time. This is usually us struggling on what to accept. (it means we are thinking long term). As for everything else, We probly don't care, and thats why we can't decide on a place to eat, or where to go for vacation.


Usually, the 'good woman' is a self proclaimed title. Nagging is often worse then not laughing at stupid jokes. In other cases, it's because most guy's want to have sex with the b**ch, and probly think they can change her b**chy ways.

The other type of fake 'good woman' is the desperate kind, who will change her life to fit yours. We will take b*tch over that, because b*tch has her own mind. Most men that find 'good women' try to keep them.



I agree with this one. One problem is the 'just because' call. You call to much, your seen as clingy.



I'll agree that not every women is exactly the same. There are alot of similarity's between women and other woman, just as there are between men. Players exist because they learned how to exploit these things to get what they want. Come on, comedians have been making fun of these similaritys for centuries.



As disrespectful as this is, some guys are just charming. There is a fine line here. It's directly porpotional to your girlfriends jelously. Crossing that line is directly porportional to how hypocrytical the girl is, and how much the guy respects his girlfriend.



True, however when we talk about things we liked about them or things we missed, you get jelous. Instead, understand men language, we are saying 'we hope your not like this' and 'we are glad your not like this'. Think of this as us opening up to you and telling you please don't treat me like her. If it goes on, just say you won't treat us like our ex, and most guys will shut up.



The majority of women cut into 'guy time' with the 'just because' call. We also know that the majority of women will talk about their boyfriends when together. If you have a single and unhappy girlfriend, we will have bad things said about us. Infact, most guys know that atleast one of your friends hates us, and atleast one other friend has thought about sleeping with us.



There are two types. Jelously, and justice. Jelously is saying they suck when we do the same thing. Justice is saying they suck because there doing something we would never do. You can tell it's justice when the guy actually becomes notably pissed off.



The majority of women i know don't complament men. Infact, it's almost expected that we complament women every time we go out. we need it just as much as you do. We are just as insecure, we just are taught to hide it better. We fish when we haven't heard it alot, or we don't believe it.



I disagree on this one. Some girls like a certin level of possessiveness. They like it when a guy calls a girl 'his girl', or when they get pissed off at another guy for flirting with his girlfriend. Others don't seem to care. Though i will agree, there is a fine line.

Chemistry is nothing more on how well your are able to work together, sexually, spiritualy, facing life, arguments, decisions, understanding, listening, looking out for eachother, knowing when to stand your ground and when to give in, how to make yourself and them happy.

This is something you learn. It requires 2 party's who are willing to make the commitment to do it, not just to try. I'll agree that part of that is flirting, because most people want to feel wanted. But your a fool to believe thats the only way to create sexual tension. Human nature, down to the instinctual level will create it.

IMHO the whole reason love exists, manmade or not, is so that people can make the choice to be the best they can be so they can work together with the other person. I mean after all, when you break up, isn't it ultimately because you dont want to try anymore? It's always when one side stops trying, though i'm pretty sure it's both not figuring out how to work together fast enough. Some people just learn faster together then others.

In reguards to your faking stuff, the laws of nature trancend stupid games, because your right, there is always someone out there that will play along. Thats part of working together. Thing is, despite all of this, you better both be having fun and be happy doing it, or else no matter how long you stay together, you'll never figure out how to understand them and how to really work together.

Atleast thats my oppinion, i could be wrong.

Hahaha, thats an awesome analogy!

Well i'm off for a bit. Be back later.

Actually, when i lived in redlands, in cali, there was this one guy who stoped in the middle of an intersection, got something out of his trunk, then the light turned red, then he got back into the car and made a left turn. Almost as bad as people from lake forest.

Hi Katie!

Your mission, if you choose to accept it, is to kill all users against the match making thread! Or to chill out, post a bit, put your feet up and hang out, and eventually Feral will set you up with someone, or she will have them email you to get to know you.

Out of all these people that say 'no', there tends to be alot of people that say they fell in love over the internet, and when they met things where great. Those are in the sucess story's.

You meet someone basicly to find out if they where lieing or hiding stuff. how much of love is really physical? If love is understanding, and a higher tolerance, then that can be gained online. People that usually 'fall in love' and meet the person, had one of three things happen.

1. The person lied
2. The person with held important things
3. you failed to listen to them honestly.

Don't get me wrong, i think its important to meet the person. I still think that falling in love over the computer is possable, there are just a few more obsticles in the way. After all, any of the reasons that where offered can happen even if you never talked online and meet face to face.

Ehh, kissing is about timing. Every type of kissing has a time when it will feel right. Some men and women just can't get passed kissing one way.

Emily knows me well!

1 doesn't scare me
2 doesn't scare me
3 only scares me if it turns into long term and they want to force the relastionship with the child either way
4 doesn't scare me
5 i don't bother with, because i hate gold diggers
6 doesn't scare me, it just means i can date other people
7 doesn't scare me, i love animals
8 contradicts 4. If they don't want me to see them, then i wont see them.
9 contradicts 4 as well. If you dont want me to see who you really are, then it's not worth my time
10 not scared of it as long as the girl is flexable and knows that no one is perfect.

What scares me are girls that talk about their ex's and/or people they are sleeping with. I appreciate the honesty, but if your that into them, why are you talking to me?

I'm terrably sorry. i feel really embarassed right now. I thought because of your context and picture you where a guy. The short hair through me off. Please accept my appology.

Are we doing this? I know we talked about it before, and if we are i think we should take names down and have someone who will email people when we decide on the said event. Mainly because i rarely check the ill forums cause they are are slow :p

who's gone?

the joke totally went over your head sir :p

And the more gold diggers you'll have to fend off, and the higher chances you'll end up with the wrong person.

Bye the way, the profile is fine. I wouldn't abbreivate though.

Dude, that was soooo sexist. Women talking on cell phones has nothing to do with them be worse drivers then men!

Thats just part of california. If the move to a differnt state they become unhotter. Trust me, just being a guy living in cali makes you hotter. It's the air or something.