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First of all let me just start by saying that there are many ways that you men scare women as well.....
1. Being indecisive- on and off again behavior. You want us, you don't want us..... 2. Saying that you want a good woman, then when a good woman comes along... you run off or you go for the b****h that treats you like a dog. 3. Never calling when you say you will. Women love to know that they are being thought of. If you say you will call us back, then please do. 4. Assuming that every woman is the same. Just because your ex wife was a pain or cheated doesn't mean that all women are or will. 5. Flirting with others in our presence. Need I say more? 6. Trash talking your ex. Just don't do it. LOL You don't want women to picture you talking about them that way, which is what happens. 7. Not respecting a woman's time with her friends. If you don't want us to cut into guys night out time then don't do it to us. 8. Trash talking other men. Keep the jealously to a minimum. 9. Fishing for compliments. If we say that you are sexy then accept it and move on, don't ask us to explain it in depth to you ten times within a few minutes. 10. Don't be clingy and possessive. I guess you can refer to #7 on this one also. Am I missing anything? Ladies what are your experiences on what scares you off when you are dating a man or looking for a man????? |
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what scares a guy? A woman who wants to change him
a woman who worries too much about things like what was mentioned here... relax... love and friend come naturally stop bashing guys will ya? give us a break. thank you |
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I gotta write this down
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what scares a guy? A woman who wants to change him a woman who worries too much about things like what was mentioned here... relax... love and friend come naturally stop bashing guys will ya? give us a break. thank you The above has nothing to do with changing a man. A confident man would not be offended btw. |
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First of all let me just start by saying that there are many ways that you men scare women as well..... 1. Being indecisive- on and off again behavior. You want us, you don't want us..... 2. Saying that you want a good woman, then when a good woman comes along... you run off or you go for the b****h that treats you like a dog. 3. Never calling when you say you will. Women love to know that they are being thought of. If you say you will call us back, then please do. 4. Assuming that every woman is the same. Just because your ex wife was a pain or cheated doesn't mean that all women are or will. 5. Flirting with others in our presence. Need I say more? 6. Trash talking your ex. Just don't do it. LOL You don't want women to picture you talking about them that way, which is what happens. 7. Not respecting a woman's time with her friends. If you don't want us to cut into guys night out time then don't do it to us. 8. Trash talking other men. Keep the jealously to a minimum. 9. Fishing for compliments. If we say that you are sexy then accept it and move on, don't ask us to explain it in depth to you ten times within a few minutes. 10. Don't be clingy and possessive. I guess you can refer to #7 on this one also. Am I missing anything? Ladies what are your experiences on what scares you off when you are dating a man or looking for a man????? |
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Ladies.. think about happy thoughts.. think about good times,
great expectations create real results... take a note from Dale Carnegie classes... How to stop worrying and start living.... How to win and influence friends... Be friendly.. say hello.. SMILE... Thanks for listening... and please Ladies.. respond to good thoughts... telling about bad things only perpetuates it... go towards what you want... and dream about it... think about it..and it will come towards you too. Good Luck and Happiness to us all! |
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Then go towards the confident man..and stop bashing men
We have feelings too... smile be happy and forget the men who don't treat you right Start by sending a positive message about what makes you HAPPY... ok? think about it...and smile |
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can you see what this breeds? just more negativity
trash the list..and you guys don't have to write it down do as you would like others to do to you remember the Golden Rule... write THAT down and follow it with your heart! If you want an example of what a man and a woman seek you might enjoy reading my profile.. no it's not perfect.. but it's sincere enjoy |
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First of all let me just start by saying that there are many ways that you men scare women as well..... 1. Being indecisive- on and off again behavior. You want us, you don't want us.....
You aren't finding the right type of guy. You need to find a guy who is butt ugly and knows it. Trust me, he'll be the most attentive man you've ever met. 2. Saying that you want a good woman, then when a good woman comes along... you run off or you go for the b****h that treats you like a dog.
See Number 1 3. Never calling when you say you will. Women love to know that they are being thought of. If you say you will call us back, then please do.
Again....see number 1. 4. Assuming that every woman is the same. Just because your ex wife was a pain or cheated doesn't mean that all women are or will.
What if the cheating has occured in more than one relationship?? Is it just US then?? 5. Flirting with others in our presence. Need I say more?
Again.....see number 1 6. Trash talking your ex. Just don't do it. LOL You don't want women to picture you talking about them that way, which is what happens.
Understandable...but what if someone asks??? There are a couple of threads around here like that. 7. Not respecting a woman's time with her friends. If you don't want us to cut into guys night out time then don't do it to us.
As long as it goes both ways, shouldn't be a problem. 8. Trash talking other men. Keep the jealously to a minimum.
Oh come on.,...that's no fun....lol 9. Fishing for compliments. If we say that you are sexy then accept it and move on, don't ask us to explain it in depth to you ten times within a few minutes.
Compliment us more than once a year and we'll be fine as long as we aren't insecure....lol 10. Don't be clingy and possessive. I guess you can refer to #7 on this one also.
Yep....see number 7... |
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What scares a guy?
A woman giving ten rules right out the gate..but that's jmho. Although some of these are just general courtisies...that shouldn't have to be mentioned. |
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Then go towards the confident man..and stop bashing men We have feelings too... smile be happy and forget the men who don't treat you right Start by sending a positive message about what makes you HAPPY... ok? think about it...and smile Very Well Said Not All Men Are Bad |
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I'm not offended .. but who's not to say Women aren't the only ones who play these same things as you listed.. when they have a great guy with them, who's to say they don't do the same things you just listed.
There for it's not just guys. I really wish some women stop bashing guys for all there problems, when most of the time they have done the same things as they have tired to pass on as they never have done at all. 
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WHen a man wants to over explain himself??
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Then go towards the confident man..and stop bashing men We have feelings too... smile be happy and forget the men who don't treat you right Start by sending a positive message about what makes you HAPPY... ok? think about it...and smile Thanks for your input. I would really like to see everyone have a "don't worry be happy" attitude like you have but that isn't the way things are. All is fair in love and war. Dating is what you make of it, there just happens to be things that scare away women from dating a man. It's not that we are out to get you or hang you by your boots on this one. Women have every right to express their feelings on what makes us run the other way. The days of women being quiet, having a coke and shutting up is way past. 
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thanks for the info, now what do we do with it? oh yeah we should listen to a womans advice you can add that one .
  
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I gotta write this down wise man....   
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these are all easily translated to why woman 'scare' men
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WHen a man wants to over explain himself?? Case in point. See above. LOL 
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these are all easily translated to why woman 'scare' men
Yes very true. You have a valid point. Anyone who has dated a while should recognize these points as "no, no's of dating" both men and women alike. |
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Thank you Amanda!
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