im talking to a nice man now for only a week , and hes nice and everything , im trying to say in time you cant fall in love on computer , he doesnt agree ?

You can develop something on the computer, but that is dangerous, You build them up in your mind to what you are expecting and most of the time, they don't meet those expectations..

you cant

I don't think you can fall in love on computer...have to meet first

Do the face to face, Coco.

you can't fall in love with someone you have never met.

The bad thing about the computer is this...they can be anything you want them to be. I believe what kerbear said is true, you build them up to be something great..then when you meet them, it can be a big let down.
I do think you need to meet someone before you ever think you love someone. Before you can ever love someone, you have to spend lots of time with them and know how they really are in person.
Sometimes I wonder if this whole internet thing is any good. People hide behind a screen and can say whatever fits them. If you are in person, you have to look into peoples eyes and then you can watch body language!!

you can start to like them and get to know some of their personality.. but falling in love without ever meeting.. nope, I don't believe you can.

Thx!sweetheart.Well said.

I doubt I could love someone without meeting them in person.

you will only know for sure after you meet in person.

Have to meet in person to "fall in love." Cannot really get to know them by messaging back and forth. Actually, I think it takes a long time to TRULY know that you are totally in love with someone. I guess I don't buy the "love at first sight" theory anymore.

I totally agree

I don't think you can be truly in love until you meeet. You can have a strong feeling but it isn't love.

agreed....you have to meet face to face to know if there is chemistry connections & compatibility...

I think U can build a strong friendship and bond on the computer but face to face is a must!!

Out of all these people that say 'no', there tends to be alot of people that say they fell in love over the internet, and when they met things where great. Those are in the sucess story's.

You meet someone basicly to find out if they where lieing or hiding stuff. how much of love is really physical? If love is understanding, and a higher tolerance, then that can be gained online. People that usually 'fall in love' and meet the person, had one of three things happen.

1. The person lied
2. The person with held important things
3. you failed to listen to them honestly.

Don't get me wrong, i think its important to meet the person. I still think that falling in love over the computer is possable, there are just a few more obsticles in the way. After all, any of the reasons that where offered can happen even if you never talked online and meet face to face.

so why bother talking to this loser???

And why if all of you people dont believe love on a computer do you bother to be here???? Oxymoron?

This is like going to church and then going home and smoking dope......

You need to see this guy in person. A long distance relationship isn't one if you haven't even seen this guy's face and actually shake his hand.