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Thu 07/01/10 08:26 PM
Edited by Thorb on Thu 07/01/10 08:31 PM


HI there , guys and Gals !

What makes a person , a serious dating material ?
What i mean , the kind that not only makes you weak (Gals ) in the knees or ( Guys) ....Make your ...heart ? go WILD ? ...with Marriage in mind !

Mine is .... a Honest , Hard working , Kind Man !

What about you ? Don't be SHY ! SHOOT !


I don't think they exist anymore....

Someone intelligent, creative, good sense of humor, good communicator, non-mainstream, no drugs, no alcohol, no kids.

Haven't seen one of those since sometime in 2008. They may be extinct at this point.





Ouch ... that hurt just hearing it.

Serious right off the bat always went onto my "skip this one" list.

for me to want to date someone I need to get a feeling ... so ...probably compatable pheremone excretion is necessary.


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Thu 07/01/10 08:17 PM
Edited by Thorb on Thu 07/01/10 08:20 PM

They shouldn't, but unfortunately, they sometimes do ruin a friendship, which is quite unfortunate. But sometimes it is for the best.


Me thinks if the friendship is ruined it wasn't that great anyway.


Should a ... would a ... could a .... is easy after that burning romance cools ....

the flames are only compatable with friends that are also on fire.

are you makeing a new family or new friend with that romance ... or both.


the great thing about friends is they are there ... even when you aren't .... don't worry about real friends ...
if they need you they will call
if you call they will be there

if your hot and heavy with that babe ... they will give ya space and expect you to do the same .... that's friendship.

you know eachother's spaces and respect them



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Thu 07/01/10 08:09 PM
it really depends on convience of situations

if your still hanging in the same haunts ... yea ... just frineds

if someone is going out of their norm ... underlying motives or guilt


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Thu 07/01/10 07:57 PM
Edited by Thorb on Thu 07/01/10 08:01 PM

is meeting someone as a friend commitment? hummm I had or made no commitments..nor did i ever suggest that.. but when u make a commitment to meet a friend or bother to make plans with them should u not follow through?



shows a lack of character as far as I can see...

my last lady friend commented about that and guys her age [46 at the time] That was her reason for looking at older.

younger / older have other problems ...

maybe its part of mid life crisis .... I remember some of that time ... vaguely ...frustrated



or they lost thier balls in the divorce settlement

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Thu 07/01/10 07:45 PM
Edited by Thorb on Thu 07/01/10 07:59 PM

him.."lets meet for coffee" .. me-"sure just let me know where and when, all next week is good for me".. 3 days later... him- "well are we going to meet for coffee or not?" ..."i said to let me know where and when".. 1 day later... him- "are you avoiding me? where and when are we meeting for coffee tomorrow is good" im thinking WTH? he had a whole week to figure out where and when... AGE43 ....GROW SOME BALLS!



many emails <one said he wanted to meet me>... me "ok well i have to get off here so i can get some stuff done... i know you wanted to chat longer so feel free to call me my number is____________. give me a call now or later or when ever if you like..... him---- "ok i'll call you now but i have 2 clients to call real quick to call first" me- ok ill talk to you then.....2 days later email.. him---"im sorry i did not call that night,my client was having issues with her tenant.. yadda yadda yadda< explanation of his clients business> my email-- thats ok i said anytime " his email- "yea i felt bad cause i told you i was going to call you right away and didnt so i was scared to call you the next day" my email- "don't worry about it i said anytime".. him email 2 or 3 days later-"i want to meet you!"< this was 2 days ago> my reply " well you have my number" 2 days later no email or call....... AGE 47...GROW SOME BALLS!


WoW .... didn't sound like a scary conversation.

NoW .... they are probably checking their balls.

Committment issues even before anything begins.


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Thu 07/01/10 07:36 PM
Edited by Thorb on Thu 07/01/10 07:38 PM

tiredblkman :I was just wandering?glasses


You mean at some point in time that was how relationships were?

I kinda doubt it... outside the rare exception.

Marriages used to be arranged ... do you think they were friends first?

Do you date your friends? or just meet them somewhere?

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Thu 07/01/10 07:12 PM
The only thing positive about a defeatist attitude is...

you can say to yourself ....

I told you so .


others will say...

just another self fulfilling prophecydrinker

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Thu 07/01/10 07:02 PM
Edited by Thorb on Thu 07/01/10 07:05 PM
Are you singing it while ya tap dance in a dog suit? ... [Al]

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Thu 07/01/10 08:08 AM
^^ we don't need b.s. politics in Tech talk forums .. thank you. ^^

Sweeden and Denmark are doing quite fine staving off that famine ..

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Thu 07/01/10 07:53 AM
Your doing good if it only takes 25 min. lol
I"m on dialup and don't even bother with u-tube

you can check the preferences/options on your video player and see how big a chache you are allowing ...
change the setting to infinity if you can
just remember to clear it regularly.

get cc cleaner ... its free or at least was when I got it
[check http://techtalk.pcpitstop.com/free-software/]

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Wed 06/30/10 07:38 PM
chasing is a waste of time if you're serious about a relationship.
now if you enjoy it ... then fine .. have fun
but don't expect to find that special one in a chase

love comes from out of the blue

so chase ugly ones if you like ... but its still chasing

best to bet involved in fulfilling things that may cause you to bump into ladies now and then. Do some charity work.
take art classes or join a book club.

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Wed 06/30/10 07:28 PM
<quote>Things that make you go drool</quote>

too much freezing in the dentist's office can make me drool for hoursrofl

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Wed 06/30/10 07:20 PM
As long as i didn't think they were just slumming an using me for my body .

what drinks

And they would have to be okay with my fixer upper lifestyle

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Wed 06/30/10 07:14 PM

Who you let in and think............TWICE before you let GO? spock shades


then think a few more times before you let them out

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Wed 06/30/10 07:06 PM
Edited by Thorb on Wed 06/30/10 07:08 PM
Economic crisis , moral corruption , the internet ,
or just the grass is always greener



then there's that damn tooth paste tube and toilet seat thingfrustrated

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Wed 06/30/10 06:57 PM
I've never met anyone that at one time or another wasn't a jerk to someone else.

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Wed 06/30/10 09:29 AM
Edited by Thorb on Wed 06/30/10 09:30 AM


But. But..
If you did that, "hanging 10" would mean what?


I guess that would depend if he had a picture with a surfboard or not.
or if it was a woman beside a clothsline

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Wed 06/30/10 12:05 AM
Edited by Thorb on Wed 06/30/10 12:06 AM
Honestly you are not explaining yourself very well

you have not answered some key questions ...

like what is the key you are being asked for ...

windows vist ... or some other program like MS Office ...

Microsoft has stopped doing upgrades for Vista if SP1 is not installed so if you reinstalled the old Vista ... you now need to install the Service Packs .



And ... what the heck would ... AOL ... have to do with any of it?

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Tue 06/29/10 11:55 PM
lol ...

its often a laptop problem more than a windows problem

the video chip overheats.

mine mostly does it on screen saver function and just won't come back from the sleep or goes to black screen while trying to come back.

ya just turn off and turn on again.

if it doen't turn off from the one push of the power button ... you hold the button down until it turns off.


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Mon 06/28/10 11:05 PM
looking in the dustbin of posts
finding theis JSH ... thingie..
what does it stand for...
site seems to be called Mingle2 ...
did it change its name ...
was it ashamed
of the old one
did it lose some
thing
then have to bring a new idea to the table?

its good to be able
to question the world
let whatever unfurl
hurl a few stone
inside that glass house