Should they ruin friendships?

no

No way & if they do, then get out of the relationship!

almost all my close friends..got there summer flings goin on....

and they can't even hit a guy back ..

owell

Well hell they are just busy most likely the same way you would be if ya had a fling right now going on.....

Thought it was just chicas that pulled that crap. And that's what it is big time .. C R A P!!!


Your loves will come and go. Friends are there for life.

Or at least supposed to be

No, they should not...but in most cases they do.

My best friend is a woman. And, any woman that dates me will have to accept that my best friend is a big part of my life. Just like I would have to accept any woman having a dude for a best friend.

The newlyweds are in their honeymoon room and the groom decides to let the bride know where she stands right from the start of the marriage.

He proceeds to take off his trousers and throw them at her. He says, "Put those on."

The bride replies, "I can't wear your trousers."

He replies, "And don't forget that! I will always wear the pants in the family!"

The bride takes off her knickers and throws them at him with the same request, "Try those on!"

He replies,"I can't get into your knickers!"

"And you never bloody will if you don't change your attitude."

They shouldn't, but unfortunately, they sometimes do ruin a friendship, which is quite unfortunate. But sometimes it is for the best.

Me thinks if the friendship is ruined it wasn't that great anyway.


Should a ... would a ... could a .... is easy after that burning romance cools ....

the flames are only compatable with friends that are also on fire.

are you makeing a new family or new friend with that romance ... or both.


the great thing about friends is they are there ... even when you aren't .... don't worry about real friends ...
if they need you they will call
if you call they will be there

if your hot and heavy with that babe ... they will give ya space and expect you to do the same .... that's friendship.

you know eachother's spaces and respect them

Should not ruin it completely but there comes a time when you realize your buddies main priority is there family and significant other. Most of my college buddies are married and it is difficult to get together and even play a round of golf. They have bigger commitments and different priorities. Nothing to take personal, I am happy for them to be honest.

Absolutely not. Some friendships are more like family.....and family comes first.

Good friends do understand and are happy for you when you meet someone new and what to spend quality time with them.

After a while, that tappers off and you'll be back with your friends again....but hey, why not introduce your friends to your new love and just hang out together.....unless of course, you don't trust your friends around someone you might care about.

Aren't freindships a type of relationship?

It shouldn't. Any friend who would get upset because you spend less time with them, since you got into a relationship is not a real friend.

You may also want to understand them, if they are polite, then it's because they might not want to disturb, but I fail to see a logic here..since a friend is a friend and if he or she gets jealous or upset about me getting into a relationship, then he is better off not being my friend anymore.

I had a friend, I dated his ex girlfriend..and yet he couldn't care less...he said whatever floats my boat and he warned me...I should have listened to him though..since she became an ex to me as well, just as he warned me about her.

Gee, I thought a friendship WAS a relationship.

Could you be more specific?

So if we have this, why can't we have that? So what your saying is, we take this and add that? Do you think it would work? I don't see why we can't take this and just add that...... :~) :~)

Yeah, friends are supposed to be there for you no matter what, at least true friends are. No matter what I usually try to be there for my friends, especially if they need someone. Though the one ex that I was friends with before dating, I did not remain friends with him, but considering that when we were in a relationship he had abused me, I really didn't think it'd be safe or best to be friends with him when the relationship ended.

That's what I was thinking.