tiredblkman :I was just wandering?

I don't necessarily want to bang my friends, does it happen....sometimes.

I have enough guy friends that I don't have sex with - I want to have sex which means I don't date my friends!

I understand people need to be compatible and have a friendship but I think this is taken too literally at times.

Welcome to Mingle

Who has time for a relationship. Just get right in the middle of the thing and go to town.

Chemistry happened.
Sometimes you just have to talk AFTER.

pillow talk? If memory serves.....

what for? don't follow you here...

"What happened to having real friendships before sex?"....

Evolution.
That's what has happened. Ladies realize that they can/and have the right to have sex, just like men. "Society" use to "frown" on women who had sex for no other reason than, they wanted to. Freedom is a wonderful thing! It isn't that friendship before sex is "gone", just today we don't need to know your show size to screw you, LOL! It's a matter of choice. There are women out there that still want friendship first, some don't. It's all your own personal preference. It's all good!!

Most of my life I have had girl friends, lived with "the Butternut Angels" (six hot, hot, hot wimmins) in the early 1970's in my farm house, but we kept it as friends..............for a week, then the sex started in and it was the best time of our lives. We remained friends for many years. What was the questian????

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Nothing like having great sex with your (opposite sex) best friend.

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How about friendship before during and after

There's such a thing as having a friendship before sex.. Maybe that's where i'm going wrong..

I'll knock em down you pick em up

I admit, I have banged people I barely know. but it's empty to me. In my experience, I find that sex is more enjoyable and satisfying if you like or love the person you are with, if there are some kinds of feelings involved. Sex with strangers , even really good sex, leaves me feeling unsatisfied, like theres something missing...

I am a person that craves love and affection I guess...

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You mean at some point in time that was how relationships were?

I kinda doubt it... outside the rare exception.

Marriages used to be arranged ... do you think they were friends first?

Do you date your friends? or just meet them somewhere?

I don't view friends and lovers the same at all so I don't get when people say this. My friends, that are women, are that for a reason. There is no sexual chemistry or spark.
The women I have had sex with, I was instantly fascinated with and HOPED it would turn sexual. A romantic friendship and connection is so much different I can't view it this way.

I only do lust!