There is this GUY that I used to see I broke it off & FORGOT Y? Then I ran into him a couple of yrs later............Then I remembered Y I ended it with him he is weird..NOT the kind of MAN I wanna be involved with he always took me out & treated me good only I took him to this store & he really embarrassed me Then I needed something NOT (SEX) he came over & helped me......Then a few more times he still helped me. Well today I bought a HUGE couch that I didn't need! OF course once again he came to help me & I offered to pay him he would NOT accept money just a reg COFFEE from STARBUCKS! Anyway he made me realize that I didn't really need that HUGE couch! So I goy my money back. My point is ALL EX'es aren't BAD!

I think it's COOL to be FRIENDS with an EX!

My 'exes' are more like my 'ins' ... ... My very best friends in this world for decades now, FAMILY!!!

i have very few ex's and those that i do have live god knows where. i hope i never see them again.


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This guy would NOT take money from me...............changed my mind abot buying something I did NOT need & said, CALL me if you need me.......

some ex's are better than others.
maybe he does these things because he's not over you.
maybe he's just being friendly.
i don't take money from friends either when i help them with stuff.


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We're all Exes; people are people if they were good when you first met, what changed to make them bad?
The good people stay good, however sometimes bad circumstances that surrounds the break up can make things bad.

I'm friends with most of my ex's, although there's a big BUT in there.

One of them is truly my friend. We do not ask much of eachother, we get along very well, and with emotional issues, we just always know what to say to eachother.

The other two, I know for a fact, are trying to get me back.

The rest I don't talk to.

But what I'm trying to say here is while you can definitely have ex's who have become friends that are just good people, there are also ex's with ulterior motives. Just be quite careful.

It's my opinion that there is always a sex thing between men and women. Unless they are both gay.

It interesting to see how a lot of people have some kind of problems with their ex. Some situations I understand. But there are some where I would have to say. GET OVER IT, life moves on. I don't hate my ex. But I can't stand the guy she is with now that still beats on her. Take away the trash she is with to where my two year old don't have to see this. Me and my ex would get along fine.

As far as ex's they are ex's for a reason. I'm civil with my ex's from the past but I'm not on a buddy system with them.... I do in fact have a few ex's that in fact if I called them cause I needed them to help me with something they would come help me out. I have in the past called a couple of them when I absolutely had too. They will help me cause they know I do not take advantage of them. And I would do the same for me if they were to call me as well...

So I would say we are civil to each other but we are not friends.

wait until you find the one that will cheat on you..

I'm also friends with a good number of my ex's just didn't work out romantically. There have been 4 guys that really meant something to me and one of them is married with kids, one is my bestfriend, one lives far away and the other I try to keep at a distance because I really don't know what he see's our friendship as. I don't let people I care about walk out of my life if I can control it.

My last X cut my hair and lined me up better then any barber ever has...damn i wish she'd still cut my hair id pay her....

it really depends on convience of situations

if your still hanging in the same haunts ... yea ... just frineds

if someone is going out of their norm ... underlying motives or guilt

Well it's NICE that he's always willing to help me I offered,to pay him& all he wanted was a COFFEE.............Not sure about HIS MOTIVES? He knows that I DON'T WANT HIM were still FRIENDS!

Well Sweetheart She can't read your MIND..........You should just CALL HER?