Topic: BDSM relationships
MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 07:02 AM

I won't waste anymore time on people who have nothing relevant to add here.


Like yourself? The difference between you and Missy is you came out with, "I don't like it, it's bad, and you're an idiot if you do it," whereas she hit us (no pun intended) with more of, "I don't like the idea, I don't understand why it's appealing to anyone, it's not for me."

smartwithsparks's photo
Tue 02/24/15 07:14 AM
Never Had A bsdm Relationship
Doubt I Ever Would
To Each His Own..:heart:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 02/24/15 07:42 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 02/24/15 07:49 AM


so BDSM Is were your partner kicks you azz why having sex HMMMMfrustrated
BDSM is also the name of a driving school not far from where I live in Scotland? Ha ha

:laughing: :laughing:

My ex's brother in law was a teacher... He was doing a project on sea, surf and sailing and had his pupils look up "watersports" online...
That didn't work out so well
:laughing: :laughing:


SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 02/24/15 07:46 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 02/24/15 07:47 AM
Me is thinking ... we got nearly 8 pages of BDSM discussion, and correct me if I'm wrong .. but I don't think so far we've needed a mod to intervene.
Considering this is quite a serious subject, and possibly emotionally upsetting to some and arousing to others, that's quite a feat!

Think we've had 'lighter' convos here that completely derailed.
I'd say "kudos to us all" but considering the subject, a group hug might be better? Lol
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Tue 02/24/15 07:47 AM

I won't waste anymore time on people who have nothing relevant to add here.

Oh Estelle, I wanted to show you what I can do with a snickers chocolate bar.

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Tue 02/24/15 07:51 AM
Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking

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Tue 02/24/15 07:55 AM
I thing a Mingle BDSM get together is in order. With a beginners course... happy hour.. equipment rentals..ect. We'll rent a castle somewhere. ;)

You in Estelle ? come on... be a sport

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Tue 02/24/15 07:56 AM

Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking
It's a trap!!! You don't want to know what he does with the creme eggs that he has also? Ha ha ha

MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 07:59 AM

Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking


Oh, the things I can do to you with a moose antler, a toque, a live chicken, an ear of corn, a banjo, and a pair of handcuffs on a polar bear skin rug!
love love :heart: :heart: smooched smooched smooched pitchfork drool shocked surprised flowers rofl :angel:

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 02/24/15 08:03 AM


Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking


Oh, the things I can do to you with a moose antler, a toque, a live chicken, an ear of corn, a banjo, and a pair of handcuffs on a polar bear skin rug!
love love :heart: :heart: smooched smooched smooched pitchfork drool shocked surprised flowers rofl :angel:


Oh...... That poor chicken!! Will Bernie be involved? laugh

MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 08:06 AM



Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking


Oh, the things I can do to you with a moose antler, a toque, a live chicken, an ear of corn, a banjo, and a pair of handcuffs on a polar bear skin rug!
love love :heart: :heart: smooched smooched smooched pitchfork drool shocked surprised flowers rofl :angel:


Oh...... That poor chicken!! Will Bernie be involved? laugh


Unless you reconsider, you'll never know. winking :angel: pitchfork rofl

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Tue 02/24/15 08:06 AM



Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking


Oh, the things I can do to you with a moose antler, a toque, a live chicken, an ear of corn, a banjo, and a pair of handcuffs on a polar bear skin rug!
love love :heart: :heart: smooched smooched smooched pitchfork drool shocked surprised flowers rofl :angel:


Oh...... That poor chicken!! Will Bernie be involved? laugh


Only if he consents.........lol

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 02/24/15 08:10 AM




Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking


Oh, the things I can do to you with a moose antler, a toque, a live chicken, an ear of corn, a banjo, and a pair of handcuffs on a polar bear skin rug!
love love :heart: :heart: smooched smooched smooched pitchfork drool shocked surprised flowers rofl :angel:


Oh...... That poor chicken!! Will Bernie be involved? laugh


Only if he consents.........lol


Let's hope he does......I have a miniature schnauzer that will give him a clear definition of SUBmission! :tongue:

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Tue 02/24/15 08:13 AM

The OP was do people here think that a BDSM lifestyle is healthy or not! It is my understanding that anyone can post an opinion here on whether they believe it is or not! They are free to give those opinions on this site and they can have whatever opinion they choose. So, here goes my two cents worth!! I would never choose to be involved in any type of lifestyle which relinquishes my control totally into the hands of another person. Trust for another has nothing to do with it as there are much healthier ways to show your trust in someone. At the heart of the matter is a need for control over and base submission to another person which means power over another individual and not walking side by side and hand in hand with someone! Please note that this is my opinion and mine alone! I don't care whether someone else does it or not. The one thing I do know is that I would never be a willing participant in any lifestyle that demands one person be submissive to another to the point of being treated as a animal, regardless of whether there is physical harm done or not, and not an equal human being. Even if no physical hurt occurs, one or the other is certainly demeaned emotionally, in my opinion! If anyone else needs to do this to be satisfied in a relationship, that's their choice and their consequences to pay, if any.


I agree with what Missy says. Very well said.

2469nascar's photo
Tue 02/24/15 08:13 AM




Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking


Oh, the things I can do to you with a moose antler, a toque, a live chicken, an ear of corn, a banjo, and a pair of handcuffs on a polar bear skin rug!
love love :heart: :heart: smooched smooched smooched pitchfork drool shocked surprised flowers rofl :angel:


Oh...... That poor chicken!! Will Bernie be involved? laugh


Only if he consents.........lol
OH please tell me you guys got a safe word.I would hate to see anybody get,,,,WELL YOU KNOW.laugh

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Tue 02/24/15 08:14 AM

Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking

OMG, where's No1. I need to borrow some Kleenex

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Tue 02/24/15 08:15 AM





Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking


Oh, the things I can do to you with a moose antler, a toque, a live chicken, an ear of corn, a banjo, and a pair of handcuffs on a polar bear skin rug!
love love :heart: :heart: smooched smooched smooched pitchfork drool shocked surprised flowers rofl :angel:


Oh...... That poor chicken!! Will Bernie be involved? laugh


Only if he consents.........lol
OH please tell me you guys got a safe word.I would hate to see anybody get,,,,WELL YOU KNOW.laugh


Wanna join in?........lol:tongue:

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Tue 02/24/15 08:16 AM


Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking

OMG, where's No1. I need to borrow some Kleenex


lol.......they don't have Kleenex in England?

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Tue 02/24/15 08:19 AM



Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking

OMG, where's No1. I need to borrow some Kleenex


lol.......they don't have Kleenex in England?
We do, but there's better ones than those! Just ask Red6mist about them? Ha ha

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Tue 02/24/15 08:20 AM



Oh oh......I'll take her place Joe......lolwinking

OMG, where's No1. I need to borrow some Kleenex


lol.......they don't have Kleenex in England?

There's been a shortage since I joined Mingle:tongue: