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Topic: BDSM relationships
MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 02:45 AM

Don't you know rough sex, domestic violence, and rape fall under behaviors in BDSM?


According to who? You saying it doesn't make it true.

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Tue 02/24/15 02:50 AM
If both are consenting I don't see the problem. There must be a lot of trust there. I don't think it would be for me with my past, but that's just me

MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 02:59 AM

If both are consenting I don't see the problem. There must be a lot of trust there. I don't think it would be for me with my past, but that's just me


Debbie, be careful trying to be against it for yourself, but not having a problem with other people enjoying it. You're advocating that domestic violence and rape are ok as long as it's not you. Stop being reasonable! That's not allowed. whoa winking tongue2

Argo's photo
Tue 02/24/15 03:01 AM
Edited by Argo on Tue 02/24/15 03:04 AM
i'd like to see some hard data on how many people are doing some prison time for practicing that little "consensual" game of erotic asphyxiation that got out of hand...?

i don't like any of it.........and i don't need any valid points to explain why...

edit: need


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Tue 02/24/15 03:09 AM
When there are more women doms than men that's the day I will not be able to draw too many links between domestic violence and BDSM.

MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 03:16 AM

When there are more women doms than men that's the day I will not be able to draw too many links between domestic violence and BDSM.


And now the truth comes out. It goes back to who usually plays which role. So are you saying women are incapable of domestic violence?

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Tue 02/24/15 03:19 AM


When there are more women doms than men that's the day I will not be able to draw too many links between domestic violence and BDSM.


And now the truth comes out. It goes back to who usually plays which role. So are you saying women are incapable of domestic violence?


No, I'm sure that anything men can do, women can do it better.

MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 03:23 AM



When there are more women doms than men that's the day I will not be able to draw too many links between domestic violence and BDSM.


And now the truth comes out. It goes back to who usually plays which role. So are you saying women are incapable of domestic violence?


No, I'm sure that anything men can do, women can do it better.


Like sexism? You're probably the best at that I've ever seen.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 02/24/15 03:26 AM

Don't you know rough sex, domestic violence, and rape fall under behaviors in BDSM?

No they don't.
Domestic violence = abuse, not BDSM
Rape = abuse, not BDSM
Rough sex can be either. If it's consensual, it's not abuse. Rough sex is a bit vague. For some rough sex could equal rape, which is abuse. For others it means great sex, so not abuse, not even BDSM actually.

Both domestic violence and rape are criminal offences. Sex, and thus BDSM, are not.

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Tue 02/24/15 03:28 AM
Yes, just like sexism. Women are great aren't they?

MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 03:30 AM

Yes, just like sexism. Women are great aren't they?


The ones who aren't so blatantly misandrist are amazing.

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Tue 02/24/15 03:59 AM
Is there a "consensual sexual practice" that is more misogynist than BDSM?

MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 04:14 AM

Is there a "consensual sexual practice" that is more misogynist than BDSM?


Again, I don't like it, so you shouldn't be ok with, and if you dare question my opinion I'm going to obfuscate and pettifog the issue because all I know is it looks bad, so no one really likes this, even though several women here have suggested that maybe they actually do like it, so that can only mean that they are either too stupid or too brainwashed to realize that they are being abused, so I have to tell them that their way of having sex is wrong because I don't like it, even though I'm a hypocrite because it's ok if the woman is dominant, which does really happen, but I don't want to recognize that because it's wrong and you shouldn't do it because I don't like it because I don't know the difference between a sexual spanking and real domestic violence.

That sums up your entire argument. As soon as someone makes a counterpoint that you don't like, you go back to a point that has already been refuted.

Argo's photo
Tue 02/24/15 04:19 AM
what title would put that erotic asphyxiation under...??

A. domestic violence
B. rape
C. rough sex
D. bdsm
E. oops..sorry, i didn't realize she stopped breathing until it was too late...
F. all the above...

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Tue 02/24/15 04:38 AM


Is there a "consensual sexual practice" that is more misogynist than BDSM?


Again, I don't like it, so you shouldn't be ok with, and if you dare question my opinion I'm going to obfuscate and pettifog the issue because all I know is it looks bad, so no one really likes this, even though several women here have suggested that maybe they actually do like it, so that can only mean that they are either too stupid or too brainwashed to realize that they are being abused, so I have to tell them that their way of having sex is wrong because I don't like it, even though I'm a hypocrite because it's ok if the woman is dominant, which does really happen, but I don't want to recognize that because it's wrong and you shouldn't do it because I don't like it because I don't know the difference between a sexual spanking and real domestic violence.

That sums up your entire argument. As soon as someone makes a counterpoint that you don't like, you go back to a point that has already been refuted.


You didn't answer the question, so I get to tell you whatever mess you just wrote up there is invalid.

MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 04:43 AM
Edited by MadDog1974 on Tue 02/24/15 04:44 AM



Is there a "consensual sexual practice" that is more misogynist than BDSM?


Again, I don't like it, so you shouldn't be ok with, and if you dare question my opinion I'm going to obfuscate and pettifog the issue because all I know is it looks bad, so no one really likes this, even though several women here have suggested that maybe they actually do like it, so that can only mean that they are either too stupid or too brainwashed to realize that they are being abused, so I have to tell them that their way of having sex is wrong because I don't like it, even though I'm a hypocrite because it's ok if the woman is dominant, which does really happen, but I don't want to recognize that because it's wrong and you shouldn't do it because I don't like it because I don't know the difference between a sexual spanking and real domestic violence.

That sums up your entire argument. As soon as someone makes a counterpoint that you don't like, you go back to a point that has already been refuted.


You didn't answer the question, so I get to tell you whatever mess you just wrote up there is invalid.


Perhaps if you would answer a question, rather than obfuscate, conflate, and pettifog, you could get an answer to your questions.

Argo's photo
Tue 02/24/15 04:55 AM





You didn't answer the question, so I get to tell you whatever mess you just wrote up there is invalid.

Lol....excellent point ^^

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Tue 02/24/15 05:00 AM
Edited by debbie1980 on Tue 02/24/15 05:10 AM


If both are consenting I don't see the problem. There must be a lot of trust there. I don't think it would be for me with my past, but that's just me


Debbie, be careful trying to be against it for yourself, but not having a problem with other people enjoying it. You're advocating that domestic violence and rape are ok as long as it's not you. Stop being reasonable! That's not allowed. whoa winking tongue2


It's not domestic violence or rape if two people have consented. I know what rape is, and this isn't rape.

With the right man I may feel differently myself about bdsm

Ya ok I'll stop being reasonable lol drinks :laughing:

MadDog1974's photo
Tue 02/24/15 05:00 AM






You didn't answer the question, so I get to tell you whatever mess you just wrote up there is invalid.

Lol....excellent point ^^


It would be, if not raised by someone who doesn't answer questions.

Rock's photo
Tue 02/24/15 05:05 AM

Don't you know rough sex, domestic violence, and rape fall under behaviors in BDSM?

:laughing:

Not even.

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