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Edited by
MariahsFantasy
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You are completely out of line and talking utter nonsense . I for one enjoy pain with my pleasure and submissive dominant role play . I have never been abused and I am certainly not a victim . You need to stop generalising . Bdsm is what you want it to be and people who practise it have no sexual hang ups as you apparently do . If you want to talk about rape and domestic violence I suggest you start another thread as you are completely off topic and quite frankly insulting anyone who does not conform to your narrow closed views of sexuality . You are not a victim because you consent to being physically violated? I only question why would someone consent to things that are by definition violating, and why would someone want someone to consent? I question how consent makes something so awful turn into fun and games suddenly? Under the conditions of BDSM I question the sanity and the intentions of the people involved. I have not insulted anyone for their sexual beliefs, but many here have insulted me for my opinions which is what the op asked for, and no one has been offended by those who have insulted me for stating my own opinion. You are doing exactly what you accuse me of, saying that I must have sexual hang ups because I don't seek pleasure in sadistic violence!? Really? I don't think people should conform to my views!? My views are not narrow or closed, in fact they are open and objective. I look at BDSM for what it is and I'm not afraid to speak my mind. If that offends you, I'm sorry because that is obviously not what my intention is. This thread was so that we could discuss different views on BDSM after all! I appreciate reading everyone's views, including yours estelle 
Exactly. Like I said no one is wrong or right. The topic was still "is it healthy?" I find it really presumptuous when people tell others they are wrong simply based on a personal preference question. No reason to get so heated because someone doesn't side with your views. What about vanilla with sprinkles on top? 
Meaning the ones that don't make me go "ouch"? |
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Correct me if i'm wrong,but isn't there a difference between BDSM and S&M ? I know they kind of go hand in hand,but there are those that enjoy one or the other too. It's important to remember that there are extremes in most things we do,and i know it's already been said,but with a trusting partner,we do have a choice and can always say no... The SM in BDSM is S&M. Sadism and Masochism. 
Technically it's this: An overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM). And all come with 50 shades of grey ... I also noticed what seems to get mentioned most, is the Sado Masochism bit. Guess that's the best known to vanilla people? |
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buttons up his bustier... slips his thigh high silk stockings on.....
clips on his garterbelt..... .... pulls his knee high. stiletto boots on.... takes the riding crop off the wall of pleasure... walks over to the full length mirror... looks at himself in the mirror.... firmly brings the riding crop down HARD against his buttocks... HOOLALA. WHO'S THE NAUGHTY .. PhD...LOL |
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Now there's a mental image ^^^^^^^
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What about vanilla with sprinkles on top?
The sprinkles must be a chick thing lol 
I have to give you credit Ms Fantasy... This thread is amusing Especially the professionals in BDSM coming on here like it's some kind of weird badge of honor   
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A few post has been deleted. Please keep to the topic and do not attack others for their opinion.. We all have one just because one thinks one way does not mean others are wrong, lets keep it to a debate.
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oh I love it when you^^^^ . get so forceful .put your foot down...mmm.ohh
..... well you're wearing an 8 inch. high heel shoe...and could you put it right down on my lower back please..mmmm... I mean pretty pretty please.. |
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What about vanilla with sprinkles on top?
The sprinkles must be a chick thing lol
I have to give you credit Ms Fantasy... This thread is amusing Especially the professionals in BDSM coming on here like it's some kind of weird badge of honor
Fifty Shades is trying to make it mainstream but it's taboo for a good reason. It's isn't that I don't understand it it's that I understand it a little too well. But it makes people happy, don't convert me I didn't convert you. If you wanna talk about it then that's fine but don't say opinions are facts and I'm wrong. Both sides of the discussion exist. |
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I think any kind of sex is overrated anyway.
Did I just say that 
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I think any kind of sex is overrated anyway.
*Gasssssp* Blasphemy! |
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I think any kind of sex is overrated anyway.
*Gasssssp* Blasphemy! Well ok, give me 50 lashes, but don't walk on me in those heels |
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What about vanilla with sprinkles on top?
The sprinkles must be a chick thing lol
I have to give you credit Ms Fantasy... This thread is amusing Especially the professionals in BDSM coming on here like it's some kind of weird badge of honor
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I think any kind of sex is overrated anyway.
*Gasssssp* Blasphemy! Well ok, give me 50 lashes, but don't walk on me in those heels OK now! I'm not into BDSM so I'll spare you the 50 lashes but I can give you a hell of a strip tease to reward you if you take back what you said. |
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I think any kind of sex is overrated anyway.
*Gasssssp* Blasphemy! Well ok, give me 50 lashes, but don't walk on me in those heels OK now! I'm not into BDSM so I'll spare you the 50 lashes but I can give you a hell of a strip tease to reward you if you take back what you said. Hot damn ticketey boo. Mr Joethebricky would like to recall his last post in this topic |
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I think any kind of sex is overrated anyway.
*Gasssssp* Blasphemy! Well ok, give me 50 lashes, but don't walk on me in those heels OK now! I'm not into BDSM so I'll spare you the 50 lashes but I can give you a hell of a strip tease to reward you if you take back what you said. Hot damn ticketey boo. Mr Joethebricky would like to recall his last post in this topic *Maroon 5 "Animals" playing in the background* Since you've been such a good body... feast your eyes on this strip dance- 
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Hot damn ticketey boo. Priceless 
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I think any kind of sex is overrated anyway.
*Gasssssp* Blasphemy! Well ok, give me 50 lashes, but don't walk on me in those heels OK now! I'm not into BDSM so I'll spare you the 50 lashes but I can give you a hell of a strip tease to reward you if you take back what you said. Hot damn ticketey boo. Mr Joethebricky would like to recall his last post in this topic *Maroon 5 "Animals" playing in the background* Since you've been such a good body... feast your eyes on this strip dance-
Now that is red hot, thank you
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You are completely out of line and talking utter nonsense . I for one enjoy pain with my pleasure and submissive dominant role play . I have never been abused and I am certainly not a victim . You need to stop generalising . Bdsm is what you want it to be and people who practise it have no sexual hang ups as you apparently do . If you want to talk about rape and domestic violence I suggest you start another thread as you are completely off topic and quite frankly insulting anyone who does not conform to your narrow closed views of sexuality . You are not a victim because you consent to being physically violated? I only question why would someone consent to things that are by definition violating, and why would someone want someone to consent? I question how consent makes something so awful turn into fun and games suddenly? Under the conditions of BDSM I question the sanity and the intentions of the people involved. I have not insulted anyone for their sexual beliefs, but many here have insulted me for my opinions which is what the op asked for, and no one has been offended by those who have insulted me for stating my own opinion. You are doing exactly what you accuse me of, saying that I must have sexual hang ups because I don't seek pleasure in sadistic violence!? Really? I don't think people should conform to my views!? My views are not narrow or closed, in fact they are open and objective. I look at BDSM for what it is and I'm not afraid to speak my mind. If that offends you, I'm sorry because that is obviously not what my intention is. This thread was so that we could discuss different views on BDSM after all!
You say violate .. I say ****. Me baby :-) |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Wed 02/25/15 12:27 PM
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hey now this is PG safe remember..^^..lmfao..
  
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Edited by
MadDog1974
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Wed 02/25/15 01:00 PM
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Why is no one considering the different degrees of BDSM? Those opposed are mostly assuming that it's all or nothing and a total 24/7 freak fest. For some people, it is. For most, it's not. BDSM can be as simple as handcuffs and a blindfold, but otherwise vanilla sex. It can also involve the complete dungeon. Quite often, the submissive is submissive because their daily life requires them to be dominant, so they want someone else to take charge. The last woman I was with liked her hair pulled, but that was the extent of her kinkiness. I've also known women who like things farther up the scale. Do you realize how often that "perfect" couple next door with the well rounded children and are pillars of the community are into BDSM? You may even trust them with your own children. This isn't an all or nothing deal, which is why to say as a blanket statement that it's wrong or unhealthy is inaccurate. Are certain aspects of it unhealthy? Absolutely. Asphyxiation, water sports, scat, inability to draw a line between bedroom activities and non bedroom activities, in my view, is taking it to an unhealthy extreme. But to say as a blanket statement that it's wrong because you don't like is just as wrong as if someone who loves it says you are wrong because it's not for you.
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