Topic: I just HAVE to do it....
Optomistic69's photo
Sat 02/11/12 04:49 AM




I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker



The man needs help....


So old fashioned...my children are my Best Friends


Totage's photo
Sat 02/11/12 05:09 AM
As long as im a father to my children, i know I'd be doing good.

Optomistic69's photo
Sat 02/11/12 05:13 AM

As long as im a father to my children, i know I'd be doing good.


I have Learned a lot from my children

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 02/11/12 07:04 AM


As long as im a father to my children, i know I'd be doing good.


I have Learned a lot from my children


me too

everyone can if they get over themselves and quit thinking they are only on this planet to teach others and have no more to learn...

guess that wouldn't just be parents..,
peeps in general, know it alls

boredinaz06's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:16 AM





I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker


Do you think that now she will respect her father? NOT!!!!!

The guys pissed cause his daughter thinks he's a dick.
How is punishing her going to sway her towards respecting him, or anyone.

You can't force respect...


Its that inferior attitude right there is why so many kids are in trouble. She is either too young or too stupid to know what respect is, but its something she will learn most likely later in life when this man is dead or dying of cancer. If this were my kid not only would I have done what he did but I would also be sure to drive her to school, walk her to class and be there in the afternoon to pick her up. Again I say BRAVOdrinker

Optomistic69's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:21 AM






I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker


Do you think that now she will respect her father? NOT!!!!!

The guys pissed cause his daughter thinks he's a dick.
How is punishing her going to sway her towards respecting him, or anyone.

You can't force respect...


Its that inferior attitude right there is why so many kids are in trouble. She is either too young or too stupid to know what respect is, but its something she will learn most likely later in life when this man is dead or dying of cancer. If this were my kid not only would I have done what he did but I would also be sure to drive her to school, walk her to class and be there in the afternoon to pick her up. Again I say BRAVOdrinker


She is 15 years old...walk her to class?

boredinaz06's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:23 AM







I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker


Do you think that now she will respect her father? NOT!!!!!

The guys pissed cause his daughter thinks he's a dick.
How is punishing her going to sway her towards respecting him, or anyone.

You can't force respect...


Its that inferior attitude right there is why so many kids are in trouble. She is either too young or too stupid to know what respect is, but its something she will learn most likely later in life when this man is dead or dying of cancer. If this were my kid not only would I have done what he did but I would also be sure to drive her to school, walk her to class and be there in the afternoon to pick her up. Again I say BRAVOdrinker


She is 15 years old...walk her to class?


You got that right flap jack!

msharmony's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:26 AM
Edited by msharmony on Sat 02/11/12 10:27 AM


we pay the cost to be the boss,,,,


:banana: :banana:


yep..and children pay a much bigger price for us being 'the boss'



yeah, laptops, computers, internet, cell phones, free meals, free room and board, and a few chores,,,

let me find that kind of boss anyday,,,,,lol

what a cost,,,,,:smile:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:28 AM






I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker


Do you think that now she will respect her father? NOT!!!!!

The guys pissed cause his daughter thinks he's a dick.
How is punishing her going to sway her towards respecting him, or anyone.

You can't force respect...


Its that inferior attitude right there is why so many kids are in trouble. She is either too young or too stupid to know what respect is, but its something she will learn most likely later in life when this man is dead or dying of cancer. If this were my kid not only would I have done what he did but I would also be sure to drive her to school, walk her to class and be there in the afternoon to pick her up. Again I say BRAVOdrinker



ok, super dad laugh laugh

boredinaz06's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:28 AM



we pay the cost to be the boss,,,,


:banana: :banana:


yep..and children pay a much bigger price for us being 'the boss'



yeah, laptops, computers, internet, cell phones, free meals, free room and board, and a few chores,,,

let me find that kind of boss anyday,,,,,lol

what a cost,,,,,:smile:


Go to prison, you have all that sans the choreslaugh

msharmony's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:29 AM





I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker


Do you think that now she will respect her father? NOT!!!!!

The guys pissed cause his daughter thinks he's a dick.
How is punishing her going to sway her towards respecting him, or anyone.

You can't force respect...



its called 'deterring'

trust me ,, loss of whats 'important' as a consequence of something that wasnt so important,,,works wonders,,,

its how choices are made,, we weigh potential rewards or consequences,,,,negative consequences often sway our choice just as often as rewards do,,,,

Optomistic69's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:30 AM
Edited by Optomistic69 on Sat 02/11/12 10:30 AM


You got that right flap jack!



I presume that means something nice in American Jargon

msharmony's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:31 AM





I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker



The man needs help....


So old fashioned...my children are my Best Friends





that would be sad if they were teens and you were grown person


my mother is NOW my best friend, but she was FIRST and FOREMOST my mother and not my best friend when I Was still attending high school and she had already completed college and raised kids,,,,,

now that we are both at SIMILAR places in our experience, we can be best friends,,, before,,, NOT A CHANCE,,, her purpose was guidance and love,,, not 'friendship'

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:31 AM






I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker


Do you think that now she will respect her father? NOT!!!!!

The guys pissed cause his daughter thinks he's a dick.
How is punishing her going to sway her towards respecting him, or anyone.

You can't force respect...



its called 'deterring'

trust me ,, loss of whats 'important' as a consequence of something that wasnt so important,,,works wonders,,,

its how choices are made,, we weigh potential rewards or consequences,,,,negative consequences often sway our choice just as often as rewards do,,,,


trust you

you think it's quite acceptable to hit children
actually YOU think it should be required as good parenting

trust you laugh

msharmony's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:32 AM


As long as im a father to my children, i know I'd be doing good.


I have Learned a lot from my children



as have I, no doubt, humans learn from each other

but, the BULK of the RESPONSIBILITY for TEACHING AND GUIDING runs in the direction of ME towards my children,, not the other way around

msharmony's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:33 AM




we pay the cost to be the boss,,,,


:banana: :banana:


yep..and children pay a much bigger price for us being 'the boss'



yeah, laptops, computers, internet, cell phones, free meals, free room and board, and a few chores,,,

let me find that kind of boss anyday,,,,,lol

what a cost,,,,,:smile:


Go to prison, you have all that sans the choreslaugh


lol, not provided by any 'boss' though,, EARNED MYSELF through working and contributing,,,,:wink:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:34 AM



You got that right flap jack!



I presume that means something nice in American Jargon


I think the walk to class is for more humiliation...
is easier for control when your kids are aware of
how much you can **** with them.

Must ALWAYS remind them you can crush them at ANY time! laugh

Optomistic69's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:34 AM






I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker



The man needs help....


So old fashioned...my children are my Best Friends





that would be sad if they were teens and you were grown person


my mother is NOW my best friend, but she was FIRST and FOREMOST my mother and not my best friend when I Was still attending high school and she had already completed college and raised kids,,,,,

now that we are both at SIMILAR places in our experience, we can be best friends,,, before,,, NOT A CHANCE,,, her purpose was guidance and love,,, not 'friendship'


My purpose is,was and always will be guidance and love

msharmony's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:37 AM
:wink:







I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker


Do you think that now she will respect her father? NOT!!!!!

The guys pissed cause his daughter thinks he's a dick.
How is punishing her going to sway her towards respecting him, or anyone.

You can't force respect...



its called 'deterring'

trust me ,, loss of whats 'important' as a consequence of something that wasnt so important,,,works wonders,,,

its how choices are made,, we weigh potential rewards or consequences,,,,negative consequences often sway our choice just as often as rewards do,,,,


trust you

you think it's quite acceptable to hit children
actually YOU think it should be required as good parenting

trust you laugh



ahhh,,as my sons friend says

quick,, look at that distraction,,,!!!!....lol

I have never said it should be required,, in fact, I have alleged that EACH child is different and not ALL children respond to the same methods of guidance and discipline, ,, that in MY FAMILY, we use spanking and that it works in MY FAMILY

and, here , I will add,


if it works as a teaching tool, if it works to save them greater grief later in life,,, keep it and dont let others not living your life or theirs try to belittle you for it,,,


msharmony's photo
Sat 02/11/12 10:38 AM







I think what he did was very admirable. "Parents" today IMO are pretty worthless when it comes to discipline. You are the parent, not a friend. You are the boss until they are 18 and or move out! This 15 yo brat obviously has no respect for her parents and this man put her in her place. I say BRAVOdrinker



The man needs help....


So old fashioned...my children are my Best Friends





that would be sad if they were teens and you were grown person


my mother is NOW my best friend, but she was FIRST and FOREMOST my mother and not my best friend when I Was still attending high school and she had already completed college and raised kids,,,,,

now that we are both at SIMILAR places in our experience, we can be best friends,,, before,,, NOT A CHANCE,,, her purpose was guidance and love,,, not 'friendship'


My purpose is,was and always will be guidance and love



thats good

to me, best friends are on too equal a playing field to 'guide' the other anywhere,, they are both on the same spot in the path,,,,,neither have a clue whats around the corner,,,,