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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I agree. IN a healthy home they dont. IN a healthy home, children learn an attitude of GRATEFULNESS instead of entitlement and they WANT to contribute in return instead of just asking for more and more,,,,,, Must not be many healthy homes as I know few adults who ever learned this themselves. I think most mistake a child's excitement in wanting a new thing as a sense of entitlement. We all want things as adult we whine for raises as children we ask our parents. there is a difference between being excited and being disrespectful,,, if a child who is provided all their needs and even some of their wants thinks it happens because the parents are doing 'nothing' they are either disrespectful or uneducated about reality,, in either case clarification is justified on the parents part,,,, the issue, in my opinion, wasnt what she wanted, it was how she went about it and the disrespect shown to her parents the only thing she wanted in this case equality in how chores are distributed. they have talked about it many time's. Obviously her parents never listened and she needed to do something extreme to get there attention. |
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I have seriously known kids whose parents were totally irresponsible and neglectful, even abusive! There are so many! That is why it bugs me when I see kids who have all they need and have good parents who work and provide for them and yet they feel oppressed and whine on facebook if they have chores. Give me a break. Once my mom was worried whether or not she had been a good parent. I told her that I thank God they were not abusive or drunks or drug addicts like so many parents are. I am and always have been thankful for my parents. Having good parents is not a privilege it's a right, and what other kids have or don't have is no concern of you're child's. You love them because you're suppose to, it's bad for children who don't and we should all feel for them but. children should not feel privileged if the do as it's something they should have. what kids SHOULD have: food (this would mean the basic four) water (this doesnt include soft drinks, punch, lemonade) shelter (this could be a 700 sq foot apartment) and a safe place to sleep MOST parents are providing far plenty above and beyond what kids SHOULD have and children need to have gratitude for that |
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I agree. IN a healthy home they dont. IN a healthy home, children learn an attitude of GRATEFULNESS instead of entitlement and they WANT to contribute in return instead of just asking for more and more,,,,,, Must not be many healthy homes as I know few adults who ever learned this themselves. I think most mistake a child's excitement in wanting a new thing as a sense of entitlement. We all want things as adult we whine for raises as children we ask our parents. there is a difference between being excited and being disrespectful,,, if a child who is provided all their needs and even some of their wants thinks it happens because the parents are doing 'nothing' they are either disrespectful or uneducated about reality,, in either case clarification is justified on the parents part,,,, the issue, in my opinion, wasnt what she wanted, it was how she went about it and the disrespect shown to her parents the only thing she wanted in this case equality in how chores are distributed. they have talked about it many time's. Obviously her parents never listened and she needed to do something extreme to get there attention. I dont know the situation. Seems like he was on quite a bit of land and I dont know if the child is the sole or even the main person maintaining that. But again, it wasnt about what she wanted that caused the problem, it was the disrespect and insult used. But if she wanted attention, she definitely got it, |
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I have seriously known kids whose parents were totally irresponsible and neglectful, even abusive! There are so many! That is why it bugs me when I see kids who have all they need and have good parents who work and provide for them and yet they feel oppressed and whine on facebook if they have chores. Give me a break. Once my mom was worried whether or not she had been a good parent. I told her that I thank God they were not abusive or drunks or drug addicts like so many parents are. I am and always have been thankful for my parents. Having good parents is not a privilege it's a right, and what other kids have or don't have is no concern of you're child's. You love them because you're suppose to, it's bad for children who don't and we should all feel for them but. children should not feel privileged if the do as it's something they should have. what kids SHOULD have: food (this would mean the basic four) water (this doesnt include soft drinks, punch, lemonade) shelter (this could be a 700 sq foot apartment) and a safe place to sleep MOST parents are providing far plenty above and beyond what kids SHOULD have and children need to have gratitude for that Exactly right msharmony. |
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I agree 100% DaddyTime... children should be allowed to express themselves. We don't always have to like it, they do have that right. People say they encourage their children to move away from the herd, be free thinkers...seems only when they express themselves in a way WE want them to. If they express themselves and we disagree with the message or the tactic, then we condemn them, tell them their wrong, punish them. This girl maybe is a brat...ok, fine. She is also unhappy and resentful. She posted to her friends because she couldn't talk to these wonderful adults in her life. Instead of a caring concerned response, she gets punished. I can't wrap my mind around this being ok with anyone. But then, some thought the judge beating his daughter was appropriate and she deserved it...so 
ahh so many quotes but can you please link me to that story, i am interested in seeing what my opinion will be. |
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I have seriously known kids whose parents were totally irresponsible and neglectful, even abusive! There are so many! That is why it bugs me when I see kids who have all they need and have good parents who work and provide for them and yet they feel oppressed and whine on facebook if they have chores. Give me a break. Once my mom was worried whether or not she had been a good parent. I told her that I thank God they were not abusive or drunks or drug addicts like so many parents are. I am and always have been thankful for my parents. We are only getting this guys story..even the follow up is him. He is speaking for her. We're only getting half the story. I think this goes beyond a few chores. I had 3 teenagers once...,they never hated me or talked to me or about me like that. There are some serious issues here that we all are not seeing. |
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Fri 02/10/12 06:10 PM
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I have seriously known kids whose parents were totally irresponsible and neglectful, even abusive! There are so many! That is why it bugs me when I see kids who have all they need and have good parents who work and provide for them and yet they feel oppressed and whine on facebook if they have chores. Give me a break. Once my mom was worried whether or not she had been a good parent. I told her that I thank God they were not abusive or drunks or drug addicts like so many parents are. I am and always have been thankful for my parents. We are only getting this guys story..even the follow up is him. He is speaking for her. We're only getting half the story. I think this goes beyond a few chores. I had 3 teenagers once...,they never hated me or talked to me or about me like that. There are some serious issues here that we all are not seeing. I doubt it. Issues, but not serious. Lack of communication is all it is. |
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But then, some thought the judge beating his daughter was appropriate and she deserved it...so
I remember that video. That was so shocking that I thought it was a set up. |
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Edited by
DaddyTime
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Fri 02/10/12 06:16 PM
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There is nothing wrong with how he is
raising his daughter and this will in no way harm her. I simply disagree with his methods and beliefs in certain things. In no why will what he did harm his child she may be pissed at him for being a d!ck but that is all. just wanted to make that clear in case anyone thought I was saying otherwise. She will grow up to be a normal dysfunctional adult like the rest of us. We all have parents lol |
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But then, some thought the judge beating his daughter was appropriate and she deserved it...so
I remember that video. That was so shocking that I thought it was a set up. link please lol to see this story sounds interesting |
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I agree 100% DaddyTime... children should be allowed to express themselves. We don't always have to like it, they do have that right. People say they encourage their children to move away from the herd, be free thinkers...seems only when they express themselves in a way WE want them to. If they express themselves and we disagree with the message or the tactic, then we condemn them, tell them their wrong, punish them. This girl maybe is a brat...ok, fine. She is also unhappy and resentful. She posted to her friends because she couldn't talk to these wonderful adults in her life. Instead of a caring concerned response, she gets punished. I can't wrap my mind around this being ok with anyone. But then, some thought the judge beating his daughter was appropriate and she deserved it...so
ahh so many quotes but can you please link me to that story, i am interested in seeing what my opinion will be. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0drbwtv6c-w this will disturb you DaddyTime... and some say the swearing is the only thing offensive 
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I agree 100% DaddyTime... children should be allowed to express themselves. We don't always have to like it, they do have that right. People say they encourage their children to move away from the herd, be free thinkers...seems only when they express themselves in a way WE want them to. If they express themselves and we disagree with the message or the tactic, then we condemn them, tell them their wrong, punish them. This girl maybe is a brat...ok, fine. She is also unhappy and resentful. She posted to her friends because she couldn't talk to these wonderful adults in her life. Instead of a caring concerned response, she gets punished. I can't wrap my mind around this being ok with anyone. But then, some thought the judge beating his daughter was appropriate and she deserved it...so
ahh so many quotes but can you please link me to that story, i am interested in seeing what my opinion will be. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0drbwtv6c-w this will disturb you DaddyTime... and some say the swearing is the only thing offensive
Hmm brb and i will let you know. |
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I have seriously known kids whose parents were totally irresponsible and neglectful, even abusive! There are so many! That is why it bugs me when I see kids who have all they need and have good parents who work and provide for them and yet they feel oppressed and whine on facebook if they have chores. Give me a break. Once my mom was worried whether or not she had been a good parent. I told her that I thank God they were not abusive or drunks or drug addicts like so many parents are. I am and always have been thankful for my parents. We are only getting this guys story..even the follow up is him. He is speaking for her. We're only getting half the story. I think this goes beyond a few chores. I had 3 teenagers once...,they never hated me or talked to me or about me like that. There are some serious issues here that we all are not seeing. I agree with this, Her behavior was unacceptable even if her grievance may have had some merit his behavior was also over the top, even if the disicipline itself (Taking away use of the venue used to disrespect them) was warranted |
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And parents shouldn't rub every thing they do for their kids in their kids faces.... i feed you i clothe you i buy the food i pay the bills you live in MY house bla, bla, bla that's what parents do! People wonder why their kids hate em. I have seriously known kids whose parents were totally irresponsible and neglectful, even abusive! There are so many! That is why it bugs me when I see kids who have all they need and have good parents who work and provide for them and yet they feel oppressed and whine on facebook if they have chores. Give me a break. Once my mom was worried whether or not she had been a good parent. I told her that I thank God they were not abusive or drunks or drug addicts like so many parents are. I am and always have been thankful for my parents. We are only getting this guys story..even the follow up is him. He is speaking for her. We're only getting half the story. I think this goes beyond a few chores. I had 3 teenagers once...,they never hated me or talked to me or about me like that. There are some serious issues here that we all are not seeing. I doubt it. Issues, but not serious. Lack of communication is all it is. That much hatred and lack of communication between a child and a parent is serious. |
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Well I don't know what you interpret as hatred, but then maybe you have never really seen hatred. I saw anger, but not hatred.
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Anyway I think I'm done with this silly subject. Spoiled brats, angry parents.... ho hum.... actually pretty boring and really none of our business.
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I agree 100% DaddyTime... children should be allowed to express themselves. We don't always have to like it, they do have that right. People say they encourage their children to move away from the herd, be free thinkers...seems only when they express themselves in a way WE want them to. If they express themselves and we disagree with the message or the tactic, then we condemn them, tell them their wrong, punish them. This girl maybe is a brat...ok, fine. She is also unhappy and resentful. She posted to her friends because she couldn't talk to these wonderful adults in her life. Instead of a caring concerned response, she gets punished. I can't wrap my mind around this being ok with anyone. But then, some thought the judge beating his daughter was appropriate and she deserved it...so
ahh so many quotes but can you please link me to that story, i am interested in seeing what my opinion will be. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0drbwtv6c-w this will disturb you DaddyTime... and some say the swearing is the only thing offensive
ok I misread you're post thought you said you agreed with the judge, so I wanted to see why. I wish I had not misread it as that is something I never want to see. I wonder if this father will let me borrow his gun and $1 bullets so I can go visit the judge and his wife sick fing power perverts. The beat the **** out of that poor girl for downloading a video game. I thought for a second that the mother was trying to calm the father then she got in on the beating. I can't even comprehend this to comment properly |
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Anyway I think I'm done with this silly subject. Spoiled brats, angry parents.... ho hum.... actually pretty boring and really none of our business. No it just gives us something to talk about and kill the boredom. the judge thing though everyone should know about and they should be executed. |
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Well I don't know what you interpret as hatred, but then maybe you have never really seen hatred. I saw anger, but not hatred. I saw a lot of resentment...I think resentment starts as anger and turns to hate. but then, maybe I've never really seen resentment, anger OR hate... |
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I know many arent from the same culture
but its known as a 'spanking' nothing to be executed over,,,, 20 whacks is about right for breaking the law when your dad is a judge,,,,but all the pausing made it worse |
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