To me they just seem childish, so it's not in any way a 'turn on' for a grown man to use them.

(my personal opinion)



It's tough to say Mr. Scoundrel - how about literally thinking to yourself "What would I be doing if we were together?" & doing your best to express that thought in words.

Hmmmm..., that probably wasn't much help I suppose!

I know you're there, by just the way the shadows move...

(but I still miss you)

First thing that caught my attention was this:


"is there any decent looking women left that want something real?"



change it to:



"Are there any decent looking women left that want something real?"


& a sense of humor is a good thing - but seriously, the blue picture, it needs to go...


Just sharing my thoughts, since you asked for honesty.

(seriously, go remove the blue one now... ha)

well maybe I am the only one, but those littly faces creep me out.

Try not to over-use them...

typical...

If someone doesn't agree or like what you have to say, to say what you just did.

that is definitely the Obama way of thinking...

It's not a pedestal...please...

There is nothing wrong, at all, with being confident and strong in who you are as a person. My life has had MANY challenges in it, just as most do. I am proud of how I've faced them though, why is that wrong?

Since you say I did not understand, at all, what you were saying -- please explain it so I will.

nothing I wrote should make anyone 'sad'...

It's ridiculous to say let's give Obama the chance to become our President because that will show others to have "Hope" and not give up on themeselves....

First of all if a person is looking for politics to give them hope, that in itself is what is sad -that comes from within, nothing outside of your own self should control how you feel, dream, hope for who you are and what you want out of your life.

Too many make excuses and complain about every little thing in life instead of doing whatever it takes to make their own happiness in this world.

Obama - McCain, whichever man becomes the next President, I will continue to take care of myself and my responsibilities, because it's the right thing to do. Others will complain and place blame on a President because they have no control of their own life. That's pathetic....and that is what to feel sad about.

I truly believe McCain is going to somehow pull it off...not because he is the best person to become the next President of our Country...but because - no matter what people say or hype up about Obama - when they're alone in their voting booth they will realize taking a chance on Obama is not worth the risk.

There are WAY too many unanswered questions and "What if's" about Obama to have him be the leader of this Country...because, seriously... should we find out the answer to some of those questions afterwards, it could be too late...

Plus, yes, I feel his 'spell' has worn off on many... it's been very interesting to see brainwashing at it's best... and quite scary.

I personally respect Joe Lieberman and his way of thinking quite a bit....- how many in Washington can stand up for what they believe even when most will disagree? Not many... that takes strength, and that's admirable.

and, oh yea..., why would someone not say the Pledge of Allegiance or put their hand over their heart during the National Anthem?
It's disrespects all those who fought and died to give us the freedoms we have.... -- Yes, it's each persons "right" to do as they wish, but that doesn't make it any less "wrong".

Have a good day.

believe me...

one day the right person will come along, and all the others you used to spend so much time wondering "why" about you will completely forget.

He's worth holding out for...

until then, make the most of your own life, and make it so when he's brought to you, you're really ready for him.

:)

ooops, ha - that was for the man above that one, ha

great profile...many pictures to keep you smiling, and beautiful words to remind you to be happy each day.
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I had logged off last night before I read many of your responses on here...- I really do appreciate the kindness of taking the time to share some uplifting thoughts.

& I know everyone is right... I definitely have not closed my heart off to the 'want' for another 'love' in my life ((or I wouldn't be on here at all)) -- it's just not something I've ever experienced before. You know?

Most relationships end because two people break up for whatever reason -- there is always pain with that kind of ending, but eventually, if you truly care about the other person, you really just hope for them to be happy in their life - and you move on. It's very different knowing someone is really just gone. It's a hard feeling to get used to -- there are still many days I hear a noise outside and expect to see him walking in the door, and many nights I wake up instinctively reaching across the bed thinking he will be there.

Has definitely taught me MANY lessons, that's for sure.... -- and taught me what true pain is, and to never waste tears on silly disappointments that happen to everyone in our lives.

Time is so precious, -- I do know, no matter what kind of 'relationship' I'm ever in again, I'll never forget to appreciate all the beauty surrounding me every single day I'm alive.

Most take that for granted..., it's simply not possible to for me to. & I'm so grateful for that.

He was a wonderful man, and he gave me that gift... not only of unconditional love, but of really 'living life'...

How lucky I was...

thanks again for all messages, and for allowing your heart, even for just a minute, to reach out to mine. Little things like that are taken for granted by many, but not by me -- sincerely, thank you.

thank you so much...your words are very kind and mean a lot...

awwww...he would say that to me...about us and our life..."Mission accomplished" - he reminded me that we're always told by everyone our entire lives that all they really want for us is happiness...and that we had it, so, mission accomplished.

thanks for the reminder of that...

that's what they always say, I know... --just have to be so careful with respecting his memory and what we shared, not comparing others to him and what we had - which isn't easy...and especially never wanting to use anyone at all...it's hard.

I've only been on this site a few days...

all of this is somewhat difficult for me (still), because 16 months ago the man I loved passed away from brain cancer. I have been alone since that time...

the 'moving on' process has been hard for many reasons....but many times I find myself wondering about the whole 'soulmate' 'true love' thing we all hear about...

It took me many years to meet the man I was with...we met in 1999 and were together since. We were not perfect, at all, but we didn't fight or have silly drama like most relationships do. Our friendship was strong and we truly wanted to bring out the best in each other.

People would often tell us that even if we were on complete opposite sides of the room, they could see the love we had for each other....and during his battle with cancer I couldn't leave his side at all...it wasn't possible to. I was holding him when he took his last breath.

He would say to me that he felt so lucky to have met me and shared the memories we shared...that many live their whole lives never really finding love....--he once told me he would have rather had the years with me and die of cancer then live to be an old man and never had me in his life.

Yea -- he was good...and we really loved each other...

So now here I am...it's like a part of my heart and soul left when he died....

is it really possible to believe something even close to that could happen in my life again? He wanted it to for me...but I'm just not sure it's really possible.

well -- this is long, and I'll be shocked if I get many responses....

ha, my pic says that too ? ?

ya think?

you're gonna get it good...

you can't be right or wrong all of the time, and I can't be right or wrong all of the time...so some of the time someone has to be wrong.

Might as well be you ;)

ha

Texas is a great place...and Houston is a great city....-- give it a chance...there are good and bad people everywhere you go.
Houston is so huge it's like many cities in one...I live on the north side of town, in Kingwood...(and for the record, I live 10 miles from my parents, and 15 from my sister and her family).