I'd prefer not to fool myself with the belief that there is just one specific type of girl that's "perfect" for me.

you are asian. that's what's wrong with you.

just kidding.

this is what it all boils down to: the only thing wrong with you is that you think there is something wrong with you.

Hey same here! wow we have so much in common let's get married and then have a divorce where i get half of all your money

more like... i consist of 150% fun so my fun is divided amongst you jist and everyone else =P

i just dont like math in general

as of now it's probably the entire other half

well, if a girl doesn't show enough interest/initiative sometimes i forget all about her as more and more things in my life distract my attention, such as hobbies, schooling, other girls, etc.

aw crap u beat me to it

no way lol
arguing with jistme is half the fun i have on JSH haha

I honestly don't care if he takes me seriously or not. I aint trying to help him. What I said was directed to Lily, not that guy. jeez.


I omitted that possibility situationally as according to what Lily described. Did you even read her original post?

jeez.

Yeah, sounds like they were looking for nothing more than friendship in the first place, alright. Oh, and i added the "He's gay" thing just for kicks. suck it up.

lmao r u serious? Caris would never say anything like "if u disagree then just put forth your arguments." Instead he would say things like "if you disagree with me then that means you are a bad person."
thanks for quoting only one part of what i said to take advantage of your mudslinging tactics, man. you should run for office or something.

I don't believe you.
Quit lying to yourself. It's not like you live in Alaska.

if u disagree then just put forth your arguments instead of hatin on me. u dont even know me.

he's being de-clinged cuz a guy shouldn't be clingy in the first place

i'm still hiding from the scary all caps LOOKING FOR YOU lady

A guy may use the "just friends" line for one or more of these reasons:

>Society has brainwashed him to be a "nice guy" so he holds the belief that he should not "offend" women by being sexual with them. The nice guy believes that all sexual matters are offensive to women and that women hate sex. Therefore, he's going to steer clear away from the sexual realm by putting on the friend mask.

>He is trying to protect his ego by taking a safe route. He has been rejected and hurt in the past so he uses the "just friends" line as a protective shield. He is basically being a total wussbag by eliminating risk from the equation. He sits back on his just friends line, waiting for the woman to make the first move so that he can ensure the security of his ego.

>He is "playing games," so to speak.

>He's gay.

It means you are being clingy.

Women don't have to ask you questions. They already find out all they need to know about you from subtle cues and characteristics you convey through second level communication.

When women DO ask you questions, though, it's most likely just a sign that they are interested. They don't REALLY care about your answer to the question most of the time. They're just trying to communicate certain emotions.

I am embassared for posting this while I was intoxicated, but there is not a single shred of lie or deceit in what I have posted.
In fact, I bet that everything I have posted in these forums thus far have been truthful.
and...HOW THE HELL DID THAT MAKE ME SOUND GOOD??? If you think THAT makes a person sound good, I certaintly wouldn't want to know what you set your life standards at.
...and do you really believe that people who have been broken up in the past never actually face real issues later on? Maybe you're the one that needs to get out into the real world...perhaps it's been awhile?


I never actually initiate the contact, and I don't want to just ignore her when she texts me and stuff.

Thanks for all your replies, guys, but this isn't actually something I'd want to discuss sober. I'd delete this if I could.

they suck, don't they?
ugh my head hurts cuz im hung over
i dunno if im drunk still
jeez
i need to stop destroying myself over ex sh!t. anyone been through this and made it out alive?
long story short - silly drama. whenever i get in touch with my ex or get reminded of all that past drama, i either drink too much or chain smoke (tobacco)

should i just ot talk to her ever again or should i...do something elsr>?