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tell me what you think

in terms of...whatever you want.

ditto

doesnt her picture just trigger that "awwwwwwww" switch in ya? haha

oh, and if that's your real full name you put up, i recommend you change that sh!t pronto. lots of creepy stalker guys on the internet.

your headline is weird and kinda sketch. photoshop??

you look like a party-type sorority chick but you say you're not

i was reading your profile and we are a TERRIBLE match.

i'm a total party animal, I smoke practically half a pack on the nights I go to parties, bars, and clubs

...and i was once involved with this girl who ended up being more like my mom than a friend with benefits

you can still be my friend, though.

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/56322

you can't seriously be 35.
god... some people...
and if we're going to hassle with technical sh!t, "spelt" is the British way of saying spell in the past tense. It's still English.
look it up.

I say spelt and whilst all the time. It's fun.

...and welcome to the English language lol

huh? this is still my "pickup artist stuff" lol...i can break down every "natural" move i made into a bunch of technical terms for you if you want. it all flowed naturally, though... because I've internalized what I have learned and I am reaping some awesome benefits.

one point i'm trying to make is that there's more to the pickup arts than most people may see on the surface

and of course i got her number
I (almost) always get the number

I was at this coffee shop a few hours before the party with my friend and i was hitting on the chick working behind the counter. I almost left without her number. Luckily my friend was like "how are you supposed to invite her out to that bar if you don't have her number?" (I was talking about inviting her to this awesome bar/nightclub I always go to) I was like "OH, RIGHT..." and I went back and got it. So, yeah... I would have missed that one if I were on my own there haha

...and i'll definitely see the girl from the party again because we usually bump into each other at parties and stuff. oh, and also because i'm going to call her to tell her that we're going to hang out lol


If you want to be even more posted, I've got some more juicy info... I've got a date set up for today with a different girl from that same party

I didn't have that earthshattering of a connection with her, though. Just standard routine flirting and game.

Interesting story, actually... there was this other guy I was "competing" with for this girl (after the original girl I was talking about left the party with her friends). We shook hands on it . Poor guy couldn't keep up for the life of him... and he's a tall, super-fit, good looking fella. I can tell that he's used to relying on his good looks when it comes to the issue of sex&dating but in the end I totally owned him haha... and I'm just a short, Asian...pickup artist.

For all you PUAs out there, I was negging her with C&F, roleplaying fake conflict, kino escalating with physical takeaways, running some standard routines, and compliance testing left and right. I was on point and was getting good IOIs. That other guy hardly even spoke to her. In the end I got her number and a date set up. That guy got nothing at all except shame.


Luck has nothing to do with it. Thanks, though, bro.

it's natural from an evolutionary standpoint. read up one some studies by Buss and Schmitt.

I know what "congrats" means but I don't exactly know why you are congratulating me.

Making a connection with someone isn't some kind of conquest or prideful accomplishment. It's an expression of our humanity.

huh?

Ok, most of you probably know about my pickup artist stuff.

Some people get into the pickup arts just to get laid a lot and nothing more.
Psh. What an unenlightened bunch.

Earlier tonight I was at this party...
One of my friends arrived later on and he asked me where the beer was. I walked him to the room in the back where the Bud Light was (I know I know it's crap beer but hey it's a frat party), and nobody was in this room except him and me. All of a sudden this girl I know walked into the room and just sat down all by her lonesome, looking kinda down. I sat next to her and asked her what was up. Apparently there was a little drama going on between her and this creepy guy at the party and she was trying to avoid him.

Yeah, I know the right moves. I told her to follow me outside and just walked out the back door. of course, she followed.

There was no one in the backyard and the stars were out. I started talking about how me and my friends back in California would climb roofs to just look at the stars and stuff... no canned routines there. However, I know that if a girl brings up anything that would make her feel negative feelings, I have to redirect the interaction so that I can be a source of positivity for her. That's why I just changed the topic completely.

One may expect that I'm going to start writing about how porno music started playing and how we made out and had passionate sex out in the backyard under the stars, but no. We just talked.

We talked about ourselves and each other, our passions and the things we do to express ourselves... I know it sounds cheesy but we made such a wonderful connection that felt GREAT. I got to see a very beautiful side of her: a passionate adorable girl who took every day of her life with a feeling of gratitude. She's so full of love for life. At first I thought she was just some hot shallow party girl, but we stripped away our bull**** social masks and really talked heart to heart.

I haven't had an aesthetically excellent interaction like that in AGES. I don't even care about the potential sex that could follow later on. This is what I'm in this pickup artist stuff for: making a connection with others that makes life feel REAL.

Sure, I was cockblocked when her friends pulled her away, but I really don't give a sh!t. I got more than what I wanted.

It was such a beautiful interaction. Wow.

I had to tell somebody haha

Hit me up if u ever come here, Lily!

build sexual tension

most guys release release and release any and all potential tension and think it's flirting. PSHHHH.

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/56322

Nothing...I repeat... NOTHING can steal the thunder from this city.

Lily: Niiiiiiice
rock on yo

On the first page, I roughly outlined the Mystery Method for the Outer Game part. There are many more models of pickup when it comes to Outer Game. The MM just happens to be the most popular.

Another great model, in my opinion, is Badboy's 5 emotional stages. He says that if you make a woman feel 5 certain emotions in order, all you need is a location and she's all yours. They are:
1. Relaxation (making her feel comfortable around you)
2. Attraction (many ways to do this)
3. Trust (tit for tat exposing vulnerability)
4. Comfort to touch (kino escalation)
5. Connection (rapport)

I think this model is actually very overlooked in the PUA community but it has been very helpful for me to see the dynamics of social interactions in another way.

Aw now why would you want to kill the sexual tension like that?
YOU KNOW YOU LIKE THE TENSION

You don't find them.
They find you.


If you go to any public gathering (such as a bar or club) you can EASILY separate the chumps from the champs just by reading body language alone.

The chumps will be the wallflowers holding their drinks up to their chests, looking uncomfortable with the other hand in their pockets. Those guys are only good for one thing: getting free drinks.

The champs will be the smiling people, laid back while freely talking to strangers as if they own the place.

As for online dating... it's a lot harder. The losers will usually message you with a SOI (statement of intent, or statement of interest) right off the bat with something like OMG UR SO HAWT or something just as lame or desperate sounding. The men of quality will spark your intrigue - with words alone - and will build some comfort and trust with you before getting that extreme.

Good luck,
-Chief

psh i know im 18 thats why i said it

if we met at the bar, the age thing would never have come up

damn you are HOT for your age