How do you talk to girls in order to get a date?

I really dont know how. Or what to talk about in the conversation.. I usually run ouf things to say within a few seconds after some Sooo.... questions. i geat really flusted and nervous around girls. ANd I am very pick at that.

My freinds dont understand why I don't justtalk to girls I see in the hallway or hang out with other people. They try to get me to be sociable outside of my freind circle but its so hard for me. I do want a girlfreind before I become an "adult" at least but it seems so rocky lately. I just want a pretty,Intelegent,Down to earth girl.

My freinds always try to set me up with girls my own age who look their age but I cant really seem to talk to them. I really want to so I'll be able to get used to grown women. I can hardley do it on my own. I cant see a girl as just a freind but my freinds are okay with it because its still somone to talk to. they keep telling me just to get to know different types of girls because they tell me I really don't know my "type" and that I am overly picky because I don't know anything.

I am not outgoing and this si soooo hard to do. It feels like I am being ripped off when i can only be freinds with girls.

I am not looking for a model I just don't want a girl who is "pudgy" or "thick" or rough looking. or "black" like me.
I want someone who is different and is not taller than me.

2 of my freinds have never dated girls and they seem okay with talking with them and other people. and see being freinds with a pretty girl as no big deal and keep saying to me the only way to get a girlfreind is to be freinds with them.

Is being freinds the only good way to get a girlfreind?

Wow, hang in there buddy!! but didn't you post something like this already?

They do say "friends first" However don't ask me who "They" are. "they" maybe dateless bast*rds.

THE SAME WAY YOU TALK TO MEN

most girls will feel you are coming on too strong and might get creeped out if you just randomly start hitting on them or asking them out thats why its a good idea to learn to be friends first.
another thing is, dont judge a girl on your first impression of her, you wouldnt want someone doing that to you. get to know people better.

If you talk to a woman with confidence, and just try to be yourself, and talk about random things youwould talk to any guy about, thats how you get a number, which leads to phone talk which is muuuch easier to do, then when you know your comfortable to can ask her out on a date.

fyi, never start a conversation to a girl with "f-y-i"

Amen!

on the other hand, if you don't come on strong enough, they'll think you're some sort of loser or something and they'll blow you off. and if they DO blow you off, you can bet that it's a pretty good indication of what they're like, first-impression or not.

Amen, woman are way to picky for first impressions. Now n days you have to be handsome, smart, witty, confident.Woman have it easy, they dont have the issue of having to ask guys out.

How do I talk to girls?

I simply open my mouth and start with hello?

Here in Los Angeles, you also gotta be driving a Porsche or Ferrari, have an eight-figure bankroll, and look like Matt Damon or Carrot Top before they'll even THINK about talking to you.

And since I don't drive a Porsche/Ferrari, the eight-figure bankroll, and I don't look like Matt Damon, you can pretty well guess where that leaves me.

Its like that everywhere. We should hold a revolt and have all men everywhere stop asking woman out, and have them get all stuttery over a guy they like for once.

Mad Demon.

I do tend to ask girls out before I even really get to know them. . and some girls do try to get me to talk but I dont have anything that they'l want to hear about.

I think it would help if you spelled Friend correctly first

A friend of mine gave a rather interesting analogy when it comes to the wimmins and dating...

"Women are like cats. The more you ignore them, the more they'll want to sit on your lap."

If only it were that simple.

It is that simple. lol woman want what they cant have....er most woman anyways, some are very cool and dont play games.

I don't have a job and i drive a honda and it's toats not hard to go on dates. I think you guys are just doing everything wrong.

Look them the eye, talk about them, and find things you have in common and talk about that, listen to what she say and respond with interest.


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Just talk too as many girls as you can and sooner-or-later you will find a lady that you want to talk with. Then it will be easy.


When talking to a lady that you are interested in.... Try touching them lightly on their elbow or back of their hand and if they don't pull away it’s a good sign. If they do pull away that means they are not feeling you and then you should pull back and try to win her trust. Women by their nature only allow themselves to be touched by someone they feel safe with...



Good luck