What is your ideal first date?

i think you can
but then if he cant get through
he still would show up

I hear ya but when it comes down to it no one can assume for what reason anyone joined the Military. Bottom line they all know they could be giving their life for this Country. For we can never assume when and where there will be a war.

But in the end it is still a nice thought to know they are there Standing up for our Rights & our Freedom.

Ah, but even just from reading these forums, I'm sure you can see from women that men are often doing things we don't understand as well. You guys are not quite as simple as you claim to me.

It's really not a men vs women thing, though. Some women are difficult to understand, just as some men are. Some women are easy to understand, just as some men are.

Yes, but she's making the assumption that those who aren't in combat or immediately in harm's way aren't standing up for our rights. That's just not an assumption I'd be able to make. They choose to serve for the country and are doing whatever they need to do, whether it's being on the front line or not.

I guess some just assume that when they sign that dotted line they know if they are going to be on the front line or safe from harms way. Reality of it about 85% most likely have no clue where they may end up. But....regardless they know when they sign that paper they may in fact be putting there life on the line.

Shhsh my dad was in the drove the Ambulance in the Korean War and still got shot....Where my brother was in the Military there was no war so no front line. Does it make a difference that one went to war and the other did not? Nope for they both went in to protect this Country and Stand up for those Rights we all dearly love.....

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It's more of trying to understand some of the things they do, men on the other hand, are very simple creatures. We have a pretty linear way of thinking and it's pretty easy to figure us out.

Now of course there are exceptions to every rule and these are just broad generalizations. I shall create another thread later today to explain to you ladies how you can understand men.

And thanks for the formula, it helps a lot.

doesn't matter, shes wrong either way. doesn't matter why they enlisted, they still have a job to do. and the job is necessary, no matter how little it may seem. whether they just want a check or a place to live, they are still standing up for our country.

Me too, well i cant relocate due to custody issues, but I am very open spirited and never scorned. Although OC,CA is not such a bad place you would want to leave.

i know... it was a rhetorical question... lol

i have this old freaken ex bf
from 13yrs ago and 4yrs prior from that
so a total were together about 4yrs

he left me a dang message on my house phone
stating about getting into a close relationship again

which is never going to happen
but any ways

i noticed something very strange about his cell phone
which i would like one of you, if can explain

im guessing he has 2 cells
for the number i origanlly had was a salem oregon number
well today when he called
it shows up as new mexcio

i know he can be such a idiot and secertive
but why 2 freaken cell phones from 2 differnt places