I understand where you're coming from. I've lived in Montreal pretty much all my life. I don't feel like I've necessarily outgrown it, but I do feel the need for a change. Because of that, I'm planning on moving to France for a while and I might stay for as long as a year. It is both exciting and scary at the same time, but it's a change I feel is necessary in my life right now.

@CowboyGH and Jesusmyall

Everything you've copied and pasted, I'm sure she has heard them all, but is faithful enough to God to remain in his house.


Luke 6:37
“Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven;

Romans 2:1-3
Therefore you have no excuse, O man, every one of you who judges. FOR IN PASSING JUDGMENT ON ANOTHER YOU CONDEMN YOURSELF, because you, the judge, practice the very same things. We know that the judgment of God rightly falls on those who practice such things. Do you suppose, O man—you who judge those who practice such things and yet do them yourself—that you will escape the judgment of God?

I took my dad to the mall the other day to buy some new shoes (he is 66).

We decided to grab a bite at the food court. I noticed he was watching a teenager sitting next to him. The teenager had spiked hair in all different colors - green, red,
orange, and blue.

My dad kept staring at her. The teenager kept looking and would find my dad staring every time.

When the teenager had had enough, she sarcastically asked:
"What's the matter old man, never done anything wild in your life?"

Knowing my Dad, I quickly swallowed my food so that I would not
choke on his response.

In classic style he responded without batting an eyelid ....
"Got stoned once and had sex with a parrot. I was just wondering if
you might be my kid.”



Disclaimer: This is not my joke.

I just read your profile and you seem like an absolutely lovely person. I don't think you are unable to find a woman because of your looks. Let me explain- There are many beautiful people (based on society's standards, not mine) who are unable to find the right person too because people usually look for more than just looks. Like you mentioned on your profile, people are looking for mates with similar level of intelligence as them, with certain personality traits, certain lifestyles, etc... It's important to make sure that you are looking in the right places.

PS- A few extra pounds is not synonymous to unattractiveness. You're cute ;)

Come mingle in the forums. You will meet many interesting people :)

Hey everyone :)

I have been on this site for about 4 years (although not always active) and I must say this is the first time I have had a truly bad experience. I have already dealt with people who were clearly scammers, I've had the people who do not take no for an answer, just never to this extent.

A man wrote me a couple of days ago with a joke about how he cannot dance either, I replied politely, laughed and told him welcome to the club. He asked for my name and the VERY NEXT message he sent me, he asked if we could talk on the phone. Naturally, I said no, but politely suggested we continue talking on mingle... which seems fair. He replied with a series of insults. I was called vain, racist, dishonest, unfair, egotistical.

He got all that from the three one sentenced messages I have sent him.

I didn't at all mind that he thinks I'm unattractive, everyone's perception of beauty is different, and I would never knock someone for having an opinion... but the fact that I was told ugly dark women like me tend to go for white men is highly offensive. Mind you, although open to it, I have never dated a white man.


Anyway, I'm sure this isn't the first guy who flipped because he didn't hear what he wanted to hear, and this won't be the last one. I'm sure plenty women have experienced this. I was just venting

hehe Hands off! Club members only

haha as long as it's not "are those real?"

With the look they get after asking that question, they wouldn't DARE to ask if they can touch to check.
I make it a point to always be nice in my everyday life, but I can quickly become an intimidating B*** if a guy doesn't watch it.

Never ask a woman if "those" are real. I'm a bit on the busty side, but the rest of my body isn't very big so I got asked that question before. Needless to say, I was offended.

About youngest son- cutest thing I ever heard. Hope the two of you remain close through the years.
Sorry to hear a out your first born :(

I don't know how anyone can see black on this dress- I guess it's a perception thing.

What I see is a very light blue (whitish blue, really) and a color that would be either gold or camel.
I guess I'm the only one hehe

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Is that a thing?!

I just finished watching the season finale of How to get away with murder- Gosh I'm hooked on that show

Thank you :)

I don't think of a detailed profile as self-promotion but more of a way to give an idea of what kind of person you are to the people who might be interested. It also helps open a conversation. Many people who write me usually start by making a comment on my dancing or that they also prefer a night in reading a book to the club scene.

Good luck on your search

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I don't just look at people's pictures. I understand that there are people from all over the world who can be very interesting to talk to, but when you write me a very basic message and when I go on your profile I see nothing interesting, and your profile states that you're 85 when you're clearly not-- I probably won't reply to you.

I can understand why some people who are on this site for dating (not everyone's here for dating) won't bother reading someone's profile if they are not attracted to them. Is it the best way to go about things? No... but some people know exactly what they are looking for and there isn nothing wrong with That.

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